How to Surely Find Your Perfect Mate

I will give you scientific and philosophical proof of the existence of a perfect mate. You should pay attention to my lessons and care about finding your other half while you are still very young. This way, you won't get involved with the wrong person and lose your real perfect mate in the crowd.

On the other hand, if you are already old but you are alone because you couldn't find the ideal partner in life, you can find your perfect mate now. The same happens if you are divorced and you had many deceptions in your first marriage.

You didn't find your real perfect mate from the beginning. This is why you had a traumatic relationship with the wrong person. However, now you can finally find the right person for you. It's never too late. When you positively transform your personality through dream translation, the unconscious mind helps you discover your soul mate.

You may believe that the idea of finding a perfect mate is based on having unreal expectations. Most people think that they have to get adapted to what they dislike in a relationship and concentrate their attention on what they like in the other person, without looking for perfection. However, this supposedly 'realistic' conclusion is not as logical as it seems to be.

I will give you an example so that you may understand my lessons.

The 'Symposium' is a philosophical text based on dialogues, written by the Greek philosopher Plato. This text is similar to the genesis because it talks about the purpose and nature of love. The 'Symposium' is responsible for the definition of a 'platonic love'.

For Socrates and for Plato, the most correct use of love is to love divinity. The original definition of the platonic love indicates that the person you love makes you pay attention to your spiritual reality. Platonic love is the perfect love, which makes you understand the spiritual dimension of your reality.

Many years later this definition was distorted by the world. Today platonic love is considered the impossible type of love. Platonic love is love from distance, love that never finds completion because it is characterized by the absence of sexual relationships.

This distortion doesn't represent Plato's idea about the perfect love. In the dialogue 'The Symposium', Love is examined in a sequence of speeches by men who attend a symposium, or drinking party. Each man must define the real meaning of Love.

Aristophanes talks about soul mates during the symposium. He explains that humans originally had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. However, Zeus was afraid of their power. He decided to split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to find completion.

This story seems to be based on the philosopher's imagination. However, the truth is that everyone has a soul mate. Plato's story is not a myth. It describes a real fact in a symbolic way.

Thanks to Carl Jung's discoveries about the meaning of dreams, today we have scientific proof that everyone can find their perfect mate. This statement is not based on suppositions that cannot be scientifically proved. This phenomenon is constantly observed into practice.

When you follow dream therapy, you learn how to find your perfect mate. Plato described a big irony. Your perfect mate characterizes your destiny.

When you become a perfect human being because you are following the divine guidance in dreams, you also find your soul mate. This is true.

I found my soul mate in the end of my studies about the meaning of dreams based on Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation. My love story proves that this phenomenon is real.

I couldn't believe that we have a soul mate. I used to think that love at first sight was a myth. However, to my surprise, I saw this phenomenon happening into practice.

I immediately fell in love with a man I had never met before. I knew nothing about him besides a few details. He immediately fell in love with me too, since there is reciprocity between the couple. When you find your perfect mach, this means that your perfect match finds you too. Both of you understand that you love one another because there is a magnetic field uniting you and the person you love.

This is a very strange phenomenon. I had never met my perfect mate before, but I felt as if we had lived together for years, and I could read his mind. I couldn't believe that this experience was real.

I had a dream about this meeting exactly the day before I met this man. I was following dream therapy for four years. At that time, I felt that I was able to finally understand Carl Jung's complicated method of dream interpretation.

This intriguing meeting with my perfect mate and the dream I had predicting this meeting the previous day, gave me the idea to start writing a scientific book in order to prove to the world with my own example that Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation is the only right one. The knowledge we acquire when we translate the meaning of dreams based on Jung's method gives us crucial information about the most important matters of our lives.

There are numerous real stories of people who found their soul mate and lived happily with them. They found the person who loves them as much as they love this person. This person is exactly like them, as if this person belonged to the same mind and body they do.

In other words, your perfect mate seems to be a part of yourself. Your perfect mate looks like you. Both of you have similar physical and psychological characteristics.

Therefore, Plato's definition about the soul mates is true. His definition is a symbolic representation of what happens in our lives.

Aristophanes explains that humans originally had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. However, Zeus was afraid of their power. He decided to split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to find completion.

We can translate the symbolic meaning of this philosophical story the same way we translate the symbolic dream language.

Humans were originally complete. However, they were separated because God was afraid of their powerful evilness.

In order to find their perfect mate and in order to be able to live happily with the special person, humans must eliminate their evilness. In other words, humans must pass through painful experiences in order to be transformed into real human beings.

This is why God condemns them to spend their lives looking for the other half instead of letting them live happily with their perfect mate from the beginning. First of all, human beings must purify their spirit and learn how to be perfect. After transforming their personality, they deserve to find happiness and completion with their soul mate.

This means that the unconscious mind helps you transform your personality in dreams. You find your soul mate and you learn what to do in order to live happily with the person you love. This is not a myth. The unconscious mind has a divine origin and proves God's existence. You should take advantage of my discoveries after continuing Carl Jung's research, and learn how to positively transform your personality. This is how you will deserve living a happy life with your perfect mate.

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Dealing With Difficult Conflict: There Is No Opponent There

What does this quotation by Morihei Ueshiba say to you?

"Opponents confront us continually, but actually there is no opponent there."

Morihei Ueshiba, 1883-1969, is the founder of Aikido, the martial art I practice, teach, and use as a metaphor in my work. Aikido -- "The Way of Blending With Energy" -- teaches us to unite with the "opponent's" energy and redirect it, keeping both defender and attacker free from harm and re-establishing harmony.

Dealing With Difficult Conflict

Lately I've had the opportunity to coach and teach about difficult conflict, the kind that's hard on body, mind and spirit, that's a shock to the system and can take time to understand and resolve.

And while I've written many articles about dealing with difficult people, difficult conflict, and suggestions for reclaiming perspective, this question about the opponent deserves a closer look.

There Is No Opponent There

If the quotation is true--there is no opponent there--then why do we continue to fight? Why do we make others the source of the problem? Ueshiba's quote suggests we are fighting something in ourselves, and when we look at that opponent, we will find solutions. For if I cannot change the other, there is only one option left.

Just STOP

Stop doing what isn't working. See a big red STOP sign in front of your face when you begin to react in ways you know don't serve you, have never served you. You don't have to have a backup plan, though it will help. Just STOP what isn't working. Something else--more useful and more intentional--will take its place.

Center Yourself

I've written and taught so long on this foundational life skill, I begin to wonder: "Do you want to hear it again?" I look forward to your comments.

You probably know how: Stop. Breathe. Reconnect with your mind and body. Do it now, when there is no pressure. Remind yourself how easy it is:

• Focus on an internal point about two inches below your belt buckle.
• Breathe into that point.
• Feel your feet on the floor.
• Lengthen your spine and the back of your neck.
• Relax your shoulders, jaw, and facial muscles.
• Feel gratitude for something or someone.

Creating a Backup Plan

Recall a recent argument in which you lost control and replay the tape in your head. See yourself in your mind's eye. What happened just before you lost it? What were you feeling, thinking, hearing? And what happened just before that? Find the juncture where if you'd told yourself to STOP and center--and had actually done that--it would have changed everything.

Possible backup plans:

• Leave. Walk out the door.
• Walk around the block until you're centered and have your self back--your best self.
• Drive safely to a centering location: park; woods; riverbank.
• Call your friend, sister, brother, therapist.
• Sit down with a cup of tea or a glass of lemonade--not drugs or alcohol. Your goal is acknowledging and learning from your emotions, not avoiding or drowning them.

Then What?

Are you thinking, "Now what? What do I do the next day? How do I resolve the conflict? Stopping isn't enough. Centering isn't enough. What if they don't change?"

Stopping and centering are enough.

When you stop and center, you vanquish the inner opponent. That's the only fight you can win. And when you've won that fight, you'll find you have limitless options.

Options such as:

• Talk it through.
• Let it go. When you're centered, you may realize the conflict is really yours. When you stop struggling and resisting what is, the conflict goes away.
• Leave the relationship.
• Cope. If leaving isn't an option you choose right now, change the conversation or find other strategies that will allow you to stay in the relationship, keep your job, or relate respectfully.

When you change, everything changes.

Unlikely Teachers

If we are alive, we will have conflict. And sometimes there isn't an easy answer. But there is power in asking the questions and in looking inward. Difficult people and conflict are teachers in disguise. They invite us to see things about ourselves that we've avoided or ignored.

Conflict knocks on the door until we invite her in. The longer you wait, the harder she knocks.

The theme of conflict as an Unlikely Teacher is the central premise of my book, Unlikely Teachers: Finding the Hidden Gifts in Daily Conflict and my work. Watch for a new story from Unlikely Teachers in each Ki Moments post this spring and summer.

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Interracial Love, Dating and Getting Permission From Your Parents

True story.

I came across a Google alert for interracial dating the other day and found people getting crazy about a rule they read in a student handbook from a christian college and I quote:

Interracial dating must be approved in writing and verbally by the parents of both students.

You can imagine the conversation running rampant in the comments over this.

I did a little research and found that it is private college so if you are willing to pay to be in this environment, you probably will have no problem with this rule or any of the other rules which may be difficult for a lot of people to understand.

Permission from your parents to date someone outside of your race is a real surrender of power. And at the heart of interracial dating is a power struggle that has existed since forever and especially in power structures like organized religion.

Let's see what we have to deal with:

• how to achieve everlasting life
• a male dominated authority
• celibacy
• science as heresy
• how to deal with sexuality and the material world
• who gets to be a saint

All this gets in the way of a date?

Let's talk about Mary

Mary who?

Good question.

There are several Marys - not least, of course, Mary the mother of Jesus.

Then there is Mary of Bethany, sister of Martha and Lazarus.

Mary, the mother of James and Joseph, and Mary the wife of Clopas. Equally important, there are three unnamed women who are expressly identified as sexual sinners-the woman with a "bad name" who wipes Jesus' feet with ointment as a signal of repentance, a Samaritan woman whom Jesus meets at a well and an adulteress. Jesus' attitude toward women with sexual histories was one of the things that set him apart from other teachers of the time.

He is remembered as treating women with respect, as equals in his circle; not only did he refuse to reduce them to their sexuality; Jesus was a man who loved women, and whom women loved.

Remember the rock opera Jesus Christ Superstar, where Mary Magdalene sings, "I don't know how to love him... He's just a man, and I've had so many men before... I want him so. I love him so." The story has timeless appeal, first, because that problem of "how" - whether love should be erotic or platonic; sensual or spiritual; a matter of longing or consummation-defines the human condition. What makes the conflict universal is the dual experience of sex: the necessary means of reproduction and the madness of passionate encounter.

For women, the struggle is maternal/erotic, a tension that men can be reduced to the Madonna/whore opposites fantasy.

Mary was a trusted apostle of Jesus, and that was a major obstacle to establishing that male dominance, which is why, her image had to be recast as one of subservience. The dominance of males established itself in the church of the "Fathers," and the Gospel of Mary was one of the texts shunted aside in the fourth century. Thus Mary of Magdala, who began as a powerful woman at Jesus' side, "became," "the redeemed whore and Christianity's model of repentance, a manageable, controllable figure, and effective weapon and instrument of propaganda against her own sex."

Let's take a closer look at what actually happened with Mary, shall we?

There was a harnessing of sexual restlessness to her image. There was the humane appeal of forgiveness and redemption. But what most drove the anti-sexual sexualizing of Mary Magdalene was the male need to dominate women.

In the Church, as elsewhere, that need is still being met.

And these are the real power struggles behind your interracial date.

So here's what I would say to your parents:

1. Man was originally created in the image and likeness of God; I am going out on a date with someone who was created in the image and likeness of God.

2. Jesus Christ was conceived by the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary. See what happens when you date outside your species?

3. There is one God, who is infinitely perfect, existing eternally in three persons. How do you expect to get three people to agree on anything?

Stay strong in your belief in your choice to be with another human being.

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How to Deal With Bullies - Part Four - Boundaries

Welcome to Part Four in our series of How to Deal With Bullies entitled Boundaries. Boundaries is where we draw a line in the sand in our relationships and we deal directly with anyone who crosses it.

All of us need to set boundaries in our relationships. If we don't, people will walk all over us. Have you ever seen someone in a relationship where the other person is in complete control? Most of us have. Maybe you have been controlled by someone or you have controlled someone. That is unhealthy plain and simple. It is bullying.

You see this everywhere. Husbands, wives, parents, children, boyfriends, girlfriends, friends, schoolmates, and also in the workplace with bosses, employers, employees and co-workers.

Let me give you a few examples. A husband coming home and displaying irritation or even belittling his wife if the dinner isn't ready or the house isn't clean. Parents may intimidate, bully or try to control their children to get them to do chores or to behave. I have seen children rule the house and parents let them get away with whatever they want. Kids not eating what is set before them or asking for something again and again until their parents cave in to their wishes. Boyfriends keeping girlfriends from seeing their friends or family. Schoolmates picking on and intimidating others. How about the workplace? I was so close to punching my foreman about 20 years ago for his constant yelling at me and other employees. He was twice my size and I didn't know karate back then, but I would have at least thrown one good punch before he pummeled me. Maybe there is sexual harassment in the office taking place.

In all of the above examples boundaries need to be set. If boundaries are not established, one of two things will happen. Either the bullying and controlling will continue and often get worse or the one being bullied will one day explode. This is when someone shows up with a gun and starts shooting.

OK, now that we see where lines are crossed, let's set some boundaries. The first, foremost and primary boundary everyone should set is the word NO. No means no. Let me say that again. NO means NO! How do we apply this? Anytime when someone does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to vocalize that. Sometimes people will do things intentionally to make you feel uncomfortable just to test your reaction and see if they can go further. Other times it may simply be ignorance on their part about how it makes you feel and a simple no is sufficient to stop the situation. In either case, set the boundary of no and stand your ground.

Husbands and wives need to love, respect and honor each other, not control or belittle. Parents need to establish rules in the house that are clear for their children to follow. Friends and schoolmates - respect each other and stand up for each other. In the workplace, check your company's policy (if they have one) for how to properly handle workplace relationship conflicts.

Stand up for yourself. Have confidence. Set your boundaries.

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How To Speak With A Woman Without Feeling Like A Fool

You might be one amongst many guys in the world that have no idea whatsoever about how to talk to girls. Perhaps you feel completely idiotic whenever you try to converse with a member of the opposite sex. Don't fret, all you need to do is learn how to talk to girls by following a few good pointers. Once you start implementing these strategies, you might find it much easier to talk to girls and you will surely impress many of them. In the article that follows we will give you some hints on how to talk to girls in a way which they will like.

An important factor which guys should know is that they need to be themselves when talking to a girl. If they are attempting to put on an act they are going to come across all wrong. A guy being himself will be much more relaxed and able to give all of his attention to the conversation. Just be yourself and see if the girl likes you.

Most guys find it tough to think about a topic to talk about while conversing with girls and this could possibly be one of the main reasons why they hesitate so much while talking to girls. It so happens many a times that the guy keeps cracking his brain trying to choose a perfect topic to talk about so that the girl gets impressed by him right away. If that sounds unrealistic it's because it is! Sitting there in embarrassed silence trying to think of the right topic is not going to help, the guy needs to say just about anything to get the conversation going. Starting the discussion on a common subject is an excellent idea and then after getting to know what the girl is interested in, he can shift the conversation on subjects which is likely to catch her interest.

There are a few ways which guys could use to get started when talking to girls. One thing they could do is bring up a topic that they are interested in and see if the girl is interested in it too. They need not feel discouraged if she is not interested. They just need to keep the conversation going by asking questions to learn more about what she likes and dislikes. Almost all people love to talk about themselves so guys can get a good conversation going without having to do much talking themselves. But guys should understand that they should never talk big about themselves because girls generally do not like such behavior.

Humor is a good thing to introduce into the discussion and so is light flirting. Guys can reveal their interest in a girl by flirting with them in a humorous way and keeping the conversation light. Keeping eye contact with the girl is a good idea but guys need to make sure that they don't stare at the girl a lot lest she should feel uncomfortable sitting there. Keeping the conversation low key and non threatening is very important otherwise the girl might feel scared. Getting her to laugh is actually a good sign that she is enjoying talking to you. A surefire way to charm a girl is by displaying some chivalry. You can open doors for her and hold the chair while she is trying to sit down or get up from the dining table. You can even lend a hand to carry her bags. Girls love to receive compliments so be sure that you throw some genuine compliments about her looks or it could be even on something that she has accomplished in her life.

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Relationship Advice - What Are The Benefits of Online Dating Services?

Even with the help of friends and family, finding the right person to date can be pretty difficult. Chances are you are going to go through a few "duds" before you find the right one, which is why any help that can be thrown your way is gladly appreciated. With the convenience of the Internet, it was only a matter of time before it starting helping us narrow down the dating possibilities, too. But is it a good way to go?

Despite the non-personal feel and cliche' that some people associate with online dating, there are benefits to using these services.

For one, they broadcast your availability to a tremendously large audience... far more than you could ever expect to achieve by using word-of-mouth. Since so many people are now relying on these services to make a connection, it improves the odds that you will be found by the "right" person.

Online dating also does some of the homework for you. Seeing someone's profile online can allow you the discretion to overlook those who do not seem appealing to you... for whatever the reason. That alone could save you a lot of wasted nights dating people you have no interest in or attraction to.

Dating services also cut down on "phonies". Having to post a lot of personal information about yourself and who you are, means it cuts down on the counterfeits. There's nothing worse than being set up with someone who is supposed to be perfect for you... only to find they are not the person they described themselves to be.

Another benefit is usually the people who go to the trouble and expense, to use an online dating service are the real deal. They aren't looking for meaningless relationships. They are really just like you, which is what you are looking for.

So your chances of finding someone who is looking for the same type of relationship you are, just went up exponentially.

One of the best features of online dating is it allows you to remain anonymous until you are ready to make a decision. If you don't feel a connection or a have a "feeling" someone might be of interest to you, you don't have to worry because your information hasn't already been made available to them.

When used properly, online dating services are an excellent way to screen a large number of people privately and discreetly. This makes it much safer for everyone and allows prospects to feel unrestrained in their decisions.

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