So what if he has not bothered to give you the time of day! Don't let this get you down. If you allow yourself to wallow in self pity just because he does not seem interested in you then you will end up lonely and depressed. Here are ways you can get him to change his mind about you.
Don't believe his "I'm not interested" looks
In the first place, don't believe everything you see. He might just be playing hard to get and pretend not to be interested just so that you will become curious about him. Bide your time and see if he does give you secret and sly looks from time to time. Go about your business without letting him see you down and out!
Continue to be yourself - don't change just to please him
Just because he does not seem to like you, don't rush out to make changes just to please him! You could be really perfect and changing things around just so that he notices you may not be the answer. At the most you could do things so that you look more attractive. In the end he has to fall in love with the real you!
Make him ogle you despite what he feels
Prove that you are something to look at and somebody worthy of his attention! Look stunning, sexy and exciting. Make sure you ignore him as well and don't give him any inkling of your interest. If he notices that you are in fact a really beautiful person, he might start to regret his earlier decision.
Show him that you are the friendly type
What ever you do, don't put on airs or start to behave in a mean and proud manner just because he has shown you that he is not interested. On the other hand, if he sees that you are still a friendly person, someone who can smile and forgive, he will find himself being impressed by your mature behavior and will automatically become curious about you.
Become the most pursued female in town
One you come across as a popular, exciting and most sought after female it is obvious that he will wonder if he made a mistake in ignoring you and showing you that he is not interested. He will begin to regret his hasty decision and may try to make amends as quickly as ever.
Show him that you are a woman who has standards
A man is automatically interested in a woman who is hard to get and who has high standards because she proves that she is not willing to fall into the arms of the first guy who shows a little interest. His admiration for her will go up a couple of notches if he feels that she is classy and willing to wait for the right guy!
Don't let his disinterest rankle - concentrate on wowing his senses
The more irritated you are because of his disinterest, the more mistakes you are likely to make. You will finally come across as a desperate female. Instead just concentrate on wowing him and making him really take back his words and regret his earlier disinterest.
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