Isn't it really frustrating when you just can't figure out whether a guy really likes you or not? A lot of women are pretty clueless when it comes to knowing whether a certain guy likes them or not but I would say it's not really their fault.
The whole world knows that when it comes to expressing themselves, men at large could do with some lessons. But men will be men and nothing is going to change overnight.
Therefore, here are some good ways you can use to finally tell if he really likes you or not...
Situation 1- When you don't know the guy yet...
1. He gives you the stare...
Some men go a little overboard when they are checking a woman out. If you catch a guy staring at you then he is checking you out. It is not a very flattering way to check out anyone but that is what this guy knows and if you catch him doing this then he definitely likes you.
2. He has the 'wow' expression on his face...
Some men get a 'wow' expression on their face when they are checking out a woman. The fact is that they are so impressed by what they see that they cannot control the awe that strikes them. If you see a guy looking at you with an awestruck expression on your face then he is checking you out.
3. He looks away when caught...
Some men look away when they get caught looking at a woman. If you find a guy looking at you but the moment your eyes meet his, he looks away then this is because he was checking you out consciously and now feels embarrassed at being caught.
4. He gives you a sheepish smile...
Sometimes you find a guy looking at you and when your eye meets his, he gives you a sheepish smile. If a guy does this then he is checking you out. He doesn't really expect you to reciprocate his smile but this is his indirect way of letting you know that he likes you.
5. He becomes flirty...
He will try to see if he can impress you with all the flirting techniques that are known to him. He will try and impress you with everything that he thinks are his likable traits. If you see something like this happening, you know that this guy is completely enamoured by you.
6. He seeks to know about you...
If you find that he is trying to find out things about you from your friends, about your personal life, things that interest you etc. You know that there is more to it than meets the eye. His doing all this just means he is preparing himself for getting acquainted with you.
7. He is here, there everywhere, wherever you are that is...
He tries every trick he knows to be around you. He is doing all this because if at all an opportunity presents itself for him to strike a conversation with you, he does not want to miss it. Signs of romance, surely!
Situation 2 - When you already know him...
8. He spends most of his time with you...
If he wants to spend all his time with you as he is the happiest when he is with you it shows that he truly likes you. This means that he enjoys your company and no matter how busy he is, he finds time to be with you; this shows his deep liking for you.
9. He listens to you with a lot of attention...
He does not pretend to listen but actually does so and gives you his undivided attention, he likes you and respects your opinion and more importantly he respects your feelings. His action says that he attaches great value to whatever you have to say and it will come only when he likes you.
10. He does not let you down...
If he has made a promise he makes sure he keeps it, never letting you down. He is not the one to make plans and then forget about it or not call in case he cannot be there; this shows his concern as he does not want to hurt you in any way.
11. He wants to know all about you...
He really likes you and his interest is genuine if he shows great interest in your life and wants to know all about you. He is interested to know about your interests and hobbies, your dreams and desires, small details because his feelings are real, in fact he may be falling in love with you and wants to know all that makes you the person you are.
12. He accepts you...
He likes you with your flaws and imperfections and does not want to change you according to his expectations. He admires your qualities and realizes that no one is perfect and happily ignores what ever shortcomings you may have.
13. He is concerned about your well-being...
Only when a man has true feelings for his woman will he be concerned about her well-being and wish her happiness and joy. If he really likes you he will want to see that you are always happy.
14. He will give you intelligent compliments...
You will notice a whole lot of compliments coming your way when a man really likes you. If you find that these compliments are getting innovative and are intelligent in nature then he definitely likes you and is trying to create an impression on you.
15. He will initiate some form of physical contact...
One of the best ways to really know that he likes you is to study his actions around you. You will see that this guy will try to initiate some form of physical contact when he is around you. Be it just helping you cross the street or brushing your hair away from you face gently, he will look for a way to touch you.
16. He will get more information on you...Personal information...
If he really likes you he would definitely want to know a lot more about your personal life. Specially, things like whether you are single or not, what kind of men you like etc.
17. He will try to hard sell himself...
When he really likes you, he will naturally want you to like him back and in the process he will try really hard to impress you. And this will become very evident if you find him always trying a bit too hard whenever he is in your company.
18. He can't hide his happiness on seeing you...
If his eyes light up the very moment he sees you and he finds it hard to conceal his joy even if he tries to, means that he has romantic thoughts about you going through his mind. The glow on his face, the stars in his eyes will all point to that.
19. Is he extremely happy whenever you come around...
Does he appear to be extremely happy whenever you are around and has this big smile pasted on his face which is almost impossible to miss? If you are the source of this happiness then it's extremely obvious that he likes you a lot.
20. He can't hear anything negative about you...
If you find him to be the first one to jump to your defense if someone has passed a crude or harsh remark about you at a party or any other place, it is because he has romantic feelings for you and can't bear to hear anyone speaking ill of you.
21. He tries to shoo the other guys away...
If at all you observe, that when other guys begin to get near you, this guy will try to do something to get you away from them, or to get them away from you. This is simply because he does not want any kind of competition around him.
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