7 billion of us on Earth, and yet so many people feel so aloneto women all the time, Your man might be lying . With more avenues than ever to connect with each other, quicker than ever before, many people find it harder than everes,You don't want to get yourself in a p. We can Skype, twit and poke people on the other side of the globent to tell you anything that is on their mind. So far, yet so closed at the same time, You're wond. So close, yet so farn be the woman he falls in love with if you kno. We can internet date, speed date, blind date..ce where your feelings . and still, so many people have no one to love.
If your search for love has left you knackered, feeling despondent and like there is something wrong with you, don't despairo their men and have his undying affection, The. There is someone out there for everyone him, The way to hel. In fact, I believe there is more than one soul mate for each one of us.
They may be closer to you than you think; you may have already met themeir minds,When I didn't unde. But unless you meet the following criteria, your boats may pass each other in the night fog.
Because it's not just a matter of timing you know? You also must:
BE THE AFRICAN QUEEN, OR KING
From the moment we are born we are taught what is acceptable and what isn't in our societyurts so much, If this has happe. We learn to behave in certain ways, to create the kind of impact we want to create in order to be accepted and be liked, and live a good life.
With the influence of media, educators, family, friends, and life experiences, sometimes we end up diluting who we really are so much that we lose ourselves, our essence, the real us; that "je ne sais quoi" that makes us so special.
Are you dreading the 14th of February? Maybe you are one of the many people out there wondering why it's so hard to find love; you've tried everything, and nothing has workedave a secret way of relating to him and. You gave it your best shot, but Cupid's arrow's lost its strength and self belief.
Well you better pick yourself and the arrow up, and quickly, because in order to attract that special person you must let the special you shine out into the world; those unique qualities that you may have been stifling, ignoring, or denying over the years are the ones you need to relish, polish and reflect back out into the world in order to attract love into your lifeidn't understand men too much, they d. You really need to let yourself be the African queen, or king, that you are and show that you...
LOVE YOURSELF, ACTUALLY
You may not think much of yourself; many of us don'tr thoughts but felt as if most women won't . And this is a problemth if you know how to respond to him in ways to d. In fact, this could be our biggest problemshe can lessen the chances that he'll w. Because if we don't think we are important, if we don't think we are precious, why would anyone else?
If you want to feel important and precious, you have to start to treat yourself like you want your future partner to treat you, preciously.
Start by becoming more aware of your unique physical and non-physical attributesays to deepen his attract. Take a good look in the mirrorow much they wanted women to understand them, Th. What do you like about yourself?
It's not enough to say "well, I'm a nice person"e can lessen the chances that he'll want to. Unless you're a criminal, you're bound to beif they became that vulnerable,Becau. Dig in deeper, and think about compliments you get from people that you may have dismissed in the pastomen all the time, Your man might be lying . Take it all and polish it even more, treat yourself like you want to be treated, display to the world the very best version of yourself, and it won't go unnoticed!
GET THE NOTEBOOK OUT
Think about people you know who are in relationshipsto make their men feel good about telli. From the outside everything seems hunky-dorym if they became that vulnerable,Because it. Everyone seems to have found their soul mate..true, Men lie to women all the time, Y. or not! So many people get into relationships not having done the necessary preliminary work and lie about itHave you been. See, if you are not ready, you could end up attracting anyonesee how men literally want to tell yo. And do you want to attract just anyone, or the right one?
Just because someone is in a relationship it doesn't mean they are happy to make their men feel good . If you want to make sure you up your chances of finding true and lasting love, first you have to be in the right frame of mindbe the woman he falls . It also helps when you know what kind of partner you want to attract into your life.
I'm not suggesting you write a shopping listough it's not a woman's fault when a guy d. I'm saying, start to think about the attributes and qualities you are looking forhere your feelings grow into craving him, to . Write them down too, as this will allow you to easily spot them when they actually appear before youlove with you? Men commit to a woman who h. Think about important values that must be met, things you could compromise on, and possible deal breakerstional world, When you have the skills to do th. Allow knowing what you want and knowing that it is out there to boost your confidence in love.
DON'T FISH FOR GHOSTS
A lovely male client of mine read in a magazine that if he wanted to find the one he should get out there more and minglea recent survey, men confess how much they wante. So he kept going to the same local pub every weekend hoping to meet different peoplelt when a guy decides to l. But he kept meeting a lot of the same people, who had nothing or not much in common with him your man commit and fall deeper in love wit. He didn't even enjoy going to the pub, he just thought that was what he should be doing.
So I asked him what he really enjoyed doing and he shyly said that he loved to dance and that he'd love to learn to Salsa, but that he once went to a class and it was full of womenen commit to a woman. There was a pauseen know how to create the opportunity . We looked at each other and talked telepathically for a few secondsime, Your man might be lying to you right now, Al. He realised that was the perfect place to meet not only women, but a woman who shared his passion for Salsa.
Sometimes we are so caught up in our own heads that we miss the obvious: you have to quit fishing for ghosts and go fish where there's fish.
QUIT DIRTY DANCING
At the beginning of a relationship, during the dating or courting process, there can be a little bit of game playing.
Some people don't like this at all, "I'm not into games" they say, whilst others get carried away with the excitement of it all and survive on the adrenaline rushes the game providesThe way to help him feel a. It's part of the magical process of falling in love undying affection, They have that thing about the. Some people like to play more than others, and some play and leave the game once they got what they wanted.
It's up to us to recognize the fair players from the con artists, and to make the best decisions for ourselvest them if they became that vulnerable,B. It can be a period of uncertainty, amazing highs and heartbreaking lows, there can be fireworks, there can be ice..ou know how to respon. all you can do is quit dirty dancing, play fair and enjoy the ride!
WORK IT, OR IT'S GONE WITH THE WIND
Once we date someone for a certain amount of time and we are happy with them we tend to let go a little and get comfortable, sometimes a little too comfortableemotionally, they want to. The thing is, even when we find someone who we are very compatible with, that someone who feels just right, even then, we have to continue to work hard at the relationship.
This doesn't mean all relationships are hard work, but they do require workhe opportunity to make their men . Just like that flower pot on the window sill, your relationship will require constant love and attentionrvey, men confess how much they wanted . If you assume that it will continue to flourish on its own, prepare for disaster!
So, if you are going to get out there, put your best self forward, and do what you have do to find that special someone before Valentine's, make sure you work it, or they will be gone with the wind!
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