Thursday, February 3, 2011

Four Reasons Why Men Leave Soon After Sex

Sometimes women think that the best way to keep a man is to sleep with him. Reality, however, shows that the men actually leave soon after they sleep with a woman. Some research shows that the average time a man stays after sex is six months. Here are seven reasons why a man would leave.

1. A man knows the value of sex in a relationship.

Sex is not there just to use to tell someone you love them. It has a deeper meaning and should not be given to anyone anyhow. This is the reason why most men will insist on marrying a virgin. If a woman chooses to sleep with a man outside marriage, even if it is the man who pressurizes, the man will conclude that the woman does not know her value. Such a woman is not worth keeping from a man's point of view.

2. After sex it is difficult to trust the woman.

The man may be responsible for deflowering a woman but in his mind he asks whether she will remain faithful afterwards. Before sex she may have been holding on to her virginity, but now that it is gone, what else is there to hold on to? If another man comes and asks for the same favor, what guarantee is there that she will say no since she has nothing to protect. Such a woman is not trustworthy as far as a man is concerned.

3. What do you still have to offer?

A man will wait for marriage if it means the woman she loves says that is when he will get sex. If, however, he gets to unwrap the wedding present before the day, what should he wait for. Since he has received the whole package beforehand, what else will a woman offer on the honeymoon to the same man? A man will go away as soon as he realises there is nothing more, or new to get from the relationship.

4. Sex puts an end to the adventure

Men are basically creatures of conquest. They will do anything as long as there is something to fight for. The last frontier that a woman can ever surrender is the sex one. Once this is won, too, a man sees no reason to keep fighting in that territory. The adventure is over as far as he is concerned. There is no more adventure for him, so he sees another woman, with all the prospects of new adventures.

When the man goes away soon after sex, a woman is baffled and wonders what she has done wrong. In her mind sex should keep him close. But to him it is one good reason why he must get away. It is not wise, therefore, to try and keep him by sleeping with him, because he will go away anyway.



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