A guy may have his reasons to reject you but do not see it as the end of the world if you hope to get back to him some day. It may seem a near impossible task but if you know how, you can make him want you once again. Learn how:
Do not contact him
Leave him alone when he rejects you and make no attempt to contact him. Do not seek reasons for his act or ask him to come back, this is the most common mistake people commit when faced with rejection.
Work on yourself instead
Instead give out all your frustrations and anger on the gym machines and work on yourself, you will emerge looking good and feeling great about yourself. Once you are in great shape, work on your appearance and become a head turner.
Get back on the social scene
Go out and make new friends and enjoy your life. Be seen in the social circuit looking your best and there will be many vying for your attention. If you choose to enter the dating scene be careful who you choose to date. Let the guy see that you do not need him to be happy in life and that you are in no way affected by his rejection.
Be popular with his friends
Work your way through his friends and be a part of their group. When they see you as a lively and cheerful person you are sure to be popular with them. And when his friends sing your praises he is bound to get curious and will want to know the 'new' you.
Show no resentment
He may have second thoughts about rejecting you when he sees his friends talking good about you and will want to renew the friendship with you. Show no resentment towards him and he may feel bad with what he did with you and will want to make up for his act.
Be cordial and treat him as one of your friends
Be open to be friends with him without letting him come too close. This is not the time to jump back into a relationship with him; make it tough for him to win you back. Show your interest but don't be too eager to get back to him.
Rebuild the bond
If he shows interest to take the renewed friendship to another level show your interest but take time to be sure before you take a decision. Spend time with him and show him the positive changes that have made you a stronger person. With time things will fall into place the way you desire.
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