'Can we go out on a date?' Hey dude! That's the worst old-styled way of going about it. As times change, so do the 'new breeds of chicks' we have around gotten more sophisticated. Not with all the TV and social media around, I can bet my iPod, she must have heard or read that line - and perhaps even better before.
There is a whole hoard of guys trying to ask you 'Cinderella' out too; she's got taste too you know, so to be on the frontline - at least for her consideration first, you've got to have you game well thought out from start to finish.
Look good always-
The way you look is the first factor that can make or mar your chances of getting that girl. Every girl wants a man she can always show off to her friends and folks; she will only go out with you if you are 'presentable', good looking, and eloquent in speech.
Be prepared-
You have to practice the occasion in your closet a thousand times before going ahead; what to say, how to respond to each question, what jokes to crack, etc. If you are not sure of yourself on the D-day and the 'humm's and 'ha's keep repeating, just forget about the girl, off she goes. Therefore, mental, psychological, and physical preparation is crucial to winning the 'prize.'
Find a common ground-
There must be something both of you will like or find interesting. Hold on to that and make it the fulcrum of your conversations. Try to educate her on points she never knew concerning the issue. Feel like a Don and act like one.
Catch her interest-
Start up a conversation you are sure she will really like. For instance, a place she will like to visit. Tell her your experiences about the place the last time you visited, crack jokes about the place, make it sound fun-filled and rewarding.
Politely and sincerely coax her-
Gently talk her into following you to the place; might be the zoo, a park, or restaurant. Tell her you know your way around the place and can be her guide. Do not beg her or you'll start to sound desperate. If she says no, don't push it, let it go and try some other time.
Be manly, but don't act macho-
Don't talk about footing the bill of the trip (she already knows you would). Don't use words like 'all expenses paid', 'I'll take care of you', etc. It will make feel belittled and incapacitated.
Be time conscious-
Keeping to the time is one way a girl can confirm if the guy is the serious type. It is better to be earlier than scheduled than keep her waiting endlessly.
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