If you want to have the guy eating out of your hands then you need to make sure that you have made a very memorable first impression on him. As they say you never get a second chance and you are hell bent on doing it right the first time around. However, you hear a lot of advice and are now confused as what to take and what to ignore. Well just do the following seven things right and you will leave a memorable impression on your guy.
Make him laugh heartily
He must have known very few women that can crack jokes and relate funny anecdotes that make him have a hearty laugh. When you do that he instantly relaxes and your evening proceeds in a very cordial and jovial manner. To banish all his anxiety and nervousness put him at ease by saying something really witty and humorous.
Dress appropriately
Keep the time of the day, the season, the current trend and the venue in mind when you dress for the evening. When you are dressed in an appropriate and contemporary manner with the right accessories he will never forget you. He will instantly make a mental comparison with all his previous dates and will realize that you stand out.
Wear a signature perfume
Make sure that you are not only looking great but also smelling of a signature perfume that he will never forget. However, don't overdo it or else he will remember you as perfume store counter.
Back your strengths
You might not be very impressive in the looks department but you have the qualifications to back your intelligence. If that is the case make sure that you fall back on your strengths and capitalize on them during the course of the evening. Whatever your strengths are you have to showcase them so that he is impressed by them.
Act your age
Instead of sounding like a school girl act your age or better still act more than your age. When you display class he will be surprised and impressed with your level headedness. He has to go back thinking he dated a woman of substance.
Don't touch on sensitive issues
You can discuss every thing under the sun from sex/women/politics but avoid discussions on sensitive issues like pro-choice, pro-life, abortion or homosexuality. You don't want to come across as opinionated or judgmental.
Don't get carried away
During the date or when it ends it is okay if you kiss him goodbye. However, don't get carried away and have sex on the first night itself as that will not leave a very memorable impression on him instead he will remember you for the sex and not your other qualities.
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