What to Do If the Man Tells You That They Can Not Commit! Learn If You Should Stay or Leave

The question is really one to ponder over. Should you try to change his attitude or way of thinking or should you try to find out what is preventing him from committing to you? Whatever it be, you want to know what to do if the man tells you they cannot commit.

Too much of you
He could have had a bit too much of you in the past month what with meeting up ever so often. He needs a break and may be so do you. This 'too much of you' may be preventing him from committing himself just yet. The freshness seems to be getting stale now.

He's able to predict you
Probably he knows just about everything and too much about you and is able to predict you and your behavior in advance. Stay away for sometime to make him miss all that he had gotten used to with you around. Let him miss you and want to commit.

Does he value you
You've been spending too much time with him that he does not value your presence or time. The fact that you set all things aside and rush to be with him for as long as possible has been inconsequential to him. Stay away so he values you and your time.

Claim your space
You have to hold back from him so he realizes that you are not there by his side at every beck and call. Unless you value your space and claim it he will feel you are easily available for him any time. Hold back and see how he will try to commit.

Earn his admiration
When he sees what a fine person you are then he will begin to admire you and know your worth. But you have to work yourself hard to earn his admiration. Do all those things that will call on his admiration. When this comes through then he would be willing to commit.

Tell him you love him
He may be waiting to hear you tell him that you love him and would like to spend the rest of your life with him. Once he hears this he will probably realize this is a commitment from your side and he too will think it is time to commit.

Give an ultimatum
The ultimatum can come only after you both know each other well enough to express this. He must know that if he is not ready to commit then you cannot hang around endlessly. It has to be one way or other. You will find him commit almost immediately.

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