The point of flirting with women is to get them to notice you and, hopefully, flirt back! And women love to be flirted with by a guy they are interested in. But there is a really fine line between flirting with a woman and losing the woman forever.
If you flirt too hard you can come across as a creep or desperate, and women avoid creepy, desperate guys like the plague! Once you earn that title it can be hard to come back from it too, so it's best just to avoid over flirting with a girl woman you like.
If you flirt too little you then she may not really know that you are interested in her. Even though women do use a lot of body language to convey their feelings, they are not exactly experts at reading your body language when you are flirting. This means that if you are too subtle she may wonder if you are really interested in her or not.
So your job is to stay somewhere in between creepy and non-existent in her eyes.
How to Flirt Appropriately
1. Use Your Scents
If you know where she will be at a certain time then it is easy to show up at that place at the same time. This means that you have time to prepare!
Smell is a powerful thing. It can remind us of something wonderful and happy in our past and instantly attract us to someone with the right smell.
If she has seen you before but you have not been wearing cologne then she will notice the change in smell when you appear in a scent that makes you irresistible. She will most likely know that you went to the trouble of smelling good for her as well - and she will like it! It's sweet that you went to the trouble to smell good for her.
As a precaution make sure that you really do smell good in your cologne. Ask a friend or family member to be brutally honest with you. If you don't smell good it can have the exact opposite effect you are going for.
2. Invade Her Space - a Little
When we are not interested in someone we don't tend to stand in their space. We move back when they move back and move sideways when they move sideways.
If you want to show her that you are interested in her then allow her to come into your space or slightly move into hers. She will notice it and although you are not outright flirting with words you are totally flirting with your body language.
Avoid being creepy by not moving fully into her space and breathing down her neck. You should not be close enough to make out with her, but you should be within an arms distance or so.
3. Eye Contact
You can use eye contact to get her attention and show interest in her. You don't make eye contact with people unless you really notice them right? So when you make eye contact with her she will know that you have really noticed her.
Make sure to hold the eye contact for a few seconds and end it with a smile. If you don't smile at the end of the eye contact she may wonder if she has something on her shirt or if she has pissed you off.
If you hold the eye contact any longer then a few seconds than you will cross over into the 'creepy flirting guy' territory. You will looks as though you are undressing her, and she will most likely cover up her chest with her arms and get out of there.
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