First Date Essentials You Need to Make a Great First Impression

Going out on a first date can be nerve wrecking. There are so many things to be nervous about. What will you talk about? What will you wear? Where will you go? These types of issues can definitely cause anxiety but if you keep several first date essentials in mind, you can make the experience a very pleasant one. Let's take a look at some of the most important things that you should take care of before even meeting your date.

• Hygiene - This goes without saying but still important to review. If you wear cologne or perfume, don't over do it. Oral hygiene is a must. Floss, brush, and use mouthwash. Also chew gum or pop a mint right before meeting up. Keep gum or mints handy for after meals or when your mouth feels dry. If you think you have bad breath, you probably do so don't risk it.


• Dress the part - You want to look your best so depending on the venue, be sure to dress appropriately. If you are doing fine dining, dress your best. If it's casual be comfortable but neat. Presentation is everything. Wear clothing that makes you feel confident.


• Eat safe food - This means avoid food that may upset your stomach. Good examples are typically dairy based products or spicy food. If you know something may upset your stomach later, skip it all together. You don't want an upset stomach breaking your focus on getting to know your date.


• Carry enough cash - It is never safe to assume that your date will pay for everything. Always offer to pay all, if not all. Chances are your date will pick up the bill or at least offer to go half-and-half. If your date pays, offer to buy coffee or dessert.

It's also essential to be good at keeping a conversation going. There will be periods of awkward silence but keeping them to a minimum is easy. All you have to do is continue to ask questions. Keep in mind that most people truly enjoy talking about themselves. Ask the right questions and you can have hours of good conversation. Here are some topics that work well:

• Family life
• Childhood
• Career
• Travel
• Goals and aspirations
• Sports
• Physical fitness
• Food
• Favorite hangouts

Keep your conversation light. Don't drill your date with questions. When you feel the need to ask something, then ask. Also, don't be afraid to voice your opinion or share your experience. Your date should want to get to know you just as much as you are wanting to know her/him.

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