Friday, October 21, 2011

From Men to Women: Dating Tips You Can Trust

When it comes to dating and making the first approach, often men are expected to make the first move as opposed to women. Although women nowadays are beginning to change this stance by making the first approach.

Women do not need to overdo their actions just to please men. Men most likely want women to be themselves than pretend to be someone else. During the first date, men tend to be observant from noticing the woman's hairstyle to the outfit and fingernails. The first impression, although it literally does not last, is the initial step in getting to know a person. Women normally spend a lot of time on their outfit and look, from clothes to make up and men are easily impressed if they know that their date is making an effort. Attractive women are more likely to draw more attention from men, which will increase their chances of a second date.

Although physical attraction does not last, it's a good start in attracting a mate. The next thing to do would be to get to know each other's personality. Time should be spent getting to know the other person as well as letting your date know a bit more about yourself. Be careful not to get carried away talking about a particular topic that your date might not be interested in, a key point to avoid this is to monitor their reactions. Asking questions is good for conversation as it not only shows an interest in your date but it allows your date to talk about themself and you will learn more about their personality.

Reading and portraying positive body language is also very important on a date. For instance, if you sit there with your arms crossed, it sends out a negative and closed off image that your date will not respond well to. The best body language will involve having an open and confident look including sitting up and having open arms. At the same time, by reading your date's body language you will be able to judge how well the date is going and change conversation topics if necessary.

If you feel that things have gone well, when it comes to the end of the date you may wish to consider asking for another date. However, it is not necessary to agree this immediately after the date and you can choose to leave it a day or two. People often try to play it cool and will try not to be the one to make the first contact after the date but there is no need to hide the fact that you like your date and would like to see them again.



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