How To Get A Girlfriend Quickly And Easily

Isn't it depressing to know that you and your friend are out and about and you are the only one that does not have a female companion around? Do you want to know how to get a girlfriend? Is it that you are an ugly duckling? Is you smell worst that the filt our dogs produce? There are a million questions that could be asked with an aim of trying to figure out why this is happening to you. But there may be signals that you are doing something drastically wrong!

Let it be known that acts of desperation is not cute and is a big turn off! This is not a good impression to leave with a female because they will see you and inferior and weak. Try being patient for a change! You aim should never be to get in bed with every and any girl that greets you. This is because when a female say hello, this is not an invitation to jump them or an invitation to devote the rest of her life to you. So wake up and observe these 5 reasons why a female may not be interested in dating you.

1. They may view you as immature. If mockery and a foolish mentality is you style then you are in big trouble. Nothing is wrong with being a bit silly at times, but when this is done excessively you will eventually dig a grave for chances.

2. Confidence in self must always be displayed. Females find this attractive in their men but be sure not to cross the line of cockiness because this will just leave the female feeling annoyed at the end of a dating session.

3. Over Confidence should never be displayed. This is because it may come off as boasting.

4. Grooming and physical appearance. If you do not take pride in the way you look and dress females may never be attracted to you. This is because females gravitate to what they see first and will give you a date based upon that as a concern for all females is how capable you are in taking care of yourself and others.

5. The male ego. Males even if you know that you are better looking that Brad Pitt and richer that Jay-Z there is no need to flaunt it. There is no need to obsess over yourself constantly ever in the presence of a female.
Visually inspect yourself

Be honest with yourself when you inspect you appearance. It is always a good thing to note what you admire about yourself as well as what you don't admire about yourself. If a second opinion is needed you may resort to asking a friend.

Revealing who you are is one of the best things you can do for yourself and the female that you are wooing. And if you want to know how to get a girlfriend... Well... If you believe that there are thing that needs to be adjusted then do so quickly. One this is done try your luck again and see what happens.

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Dating and Relationships: 5 Things Women Do That Turn Men Off

Women who find themselves lacking in the dating department should ask themselves if they are making any of the mistakes listed in this article. Men are funny creatures and, like deer, spook easily. Say the wrong thing and they are likely to bolt right out the door after making a lame excuse. In order to play the dating game like a pro (which means winning) you need to know how men think and what makes them tick. Once you know how a man thinks you will start attracting them instead of repelling them. Here are a few common mistakes women make when it comes to dating:

Talk About Your Ex
Women like to talk about themselves and the topic of conversation is usually men. Talking with your girlfriends is ok, but you should never talk about your exes with a date. If you talk to them about other guys they assume you will talk about them to others as well.

Dress too sexy
When going on a first date it is important to dress appropriately, this means conservatively. You want to show off your best assets but that does not mean dressing slutty. A dress that is too low cut or too short will have him thinking of sex instead of listening to what you have to say. If things work out you can dress any way you want later when the two of you are intimate.

Try Too Hard to Impress
The best advice when dating someone new is to just be yourself. Often times we try too hard to impress someone and end up turning them off instead. Never try too hard to get a guy. You do not have to like the same football team he does or like the same food or have the same habits. It is nice to have some things in common but it is not required. Never lie about what you like or do not like just to impress him. Eventually he will find out you lied and it will bow up in your face.

Drink Too Much
Make it a rule never to have more than two drinks on a date. It is very easy to overdo it and end up spilling the beans on everything. Everyone has their emotional baggage but when you drink too much you get too relaxed and before you know it you have told him everything that has happened in your life since high school. It is a good idea to have a mental list of topics for conversation to avoid those awkward moments of silence that often cause people to drink too much to begin with.

Talk Too Much
Women love to talk, it is a part of our nature but there is such a thing as talking too much. Let him talk about himself to avoid monopolizing the conversation. It is better to retain a little mystery and let him want to find out more about you. To do that,he will have to ask you out again.

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Pay Attention to What a Woman's Behavior Is Telling You

In the initial stages of dating, it can be difficult to gauge when you can really start to be fully open and emotionally expressive with a woman without it feeling premature. However, there are a few signs to look out for which will make the job a lot easier.

Once you've passed the first date, start paying attention to how a woman responds to you during the beginning of your relationship. Is she being open about herself and her personal life with regards to her friends, parents and other details, which will enable you to have a clearer picture about who she is? Or is she being secretive about her personal life? If so, then you may want to reconsider dating or pursuing a relationship with her. It should be obvious that over time that you'll have problems, if she is not being open or honest with you.

I have a close friend who was madly in love with an attractive roommate who didn't feel anything for him romantically, and he pursued her vigorously. His desperate need to have a relationship that he hadn't had in many years, compounded with his fixation on her outer beauty, made him blind to her disinterest in him. He was quite demonstrative with his emotions towards her and mistook her flirty behavior as a sign that she was attracted to him too. As such, he failed to realize until much later that the woman was a user and a manipulator. It took the extreme for him to finally open his eyes and confront the harsh reality of the situation. He finally caught on, after never knowing where she would be, who her friends were, where she would spend all her time including the weekends, where she worked, or any other personal details about her, except her name and where she was from. If a woman is keeping you in the dark about details that are part of strengthening the relationship, then you should move on, have respect for yourself and find someone else who wants a relationship with you.

Pay attention to the excuses that a woman gives in order to not spend time with you. If at one time you thought there might be potential in a relationship with her, but after trying to connect with her, she then gives you excuses for not being able to join you, play it cool and don't be emotionally invested. Of course her reasons may be legitimate, but if it's a consistent pattern of excuses then it means she really is not interested in you. Unfortunately, some women are not straightforward with men because they do not want to hurt men's feelings; and so they give them excuses instead. However, if a woman says she's too busy with work and other things right now, what she is telling you may actually be true. Use your best judgement, unless she gives you an excuse and you happen to know it isn't true. If a woman is not interested and lies to you, it is futile to pursue her more, and in the long run will likely not be worth it.

On the other hand, if a woman spends time with you and shares details about her family, friends, and activities, this would definitely be a strong sign for you to go for it and shower her with your affection. Women love affectionate men and reciprocate if they feel the same towards you. But for the women who are indifferent or disinterested in you, save your energy for someone suitable. Some men pursue women as a sport to get some kind of satisfaction from the pursuit. But if instead you're looking for a relationship, then keep your mind open and be the kind of man who women will be attracted to - by being confident, fun, and having many things going on in your life. You will likely attract women who will be interested in you. A woman who doesn't want you isn't worth the time and energy, and above all will usually not lead to a happy ending.

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The Secrets of How to Attract Hot Women: Body Language Basics and Seduction

Fact: Body Language is in constant communication with those around you.

Well over 50% of your communication is in the form of non-verbal as opposed to about 8% coming what you actually do say.

With that in mind, how aware are you of the major part of what you're putting out there? It's a very easy thing to not only overlook but to be completely unaware of.

We've all heard the saying: "It's not so much WHAT you say, but HOW you say it."

For instance, it's much more difficult to judge a person via text messaging or online but very easy to misinterpret someone as well. Why? It's because we don't have those all important non-verbal cues that we subconsciously rely on every minute.

You might have all the game in the world online but your body language isn't part of the equation in that world. Take the same words out into the real world without an awareness of the non-verbal cues you're sending and you just might crash and burn.

Body Language is extremely important in order to sexually attract women. There is an equally important aspect of Body Language as it regards what SHE'S putting out, but for today's article, we're focusing on YOUR Body Language.

The Basics:

1.) Smile!

Easy to forget this one! Salespersons will tell you what you instinctively know. A smile disarms people and puts them at least somewhat at ease. It tells people on a sub-conscious level that you're okay.

What you want to project is that you're a happy, confident man enjoying her company. It works. Try this out for yourself. Start smiling at random people during the day. Not a cheesy smile but a genuine one. People usually smile back.

2.) Eye Contact

"Hey, I'm up here buddy!" For god's sake don't stare at her chest. You really need to work on this one. When she catches you doing it, you have just become another of the drooling pigs that she encounters each and every day. Don't do it to yourself.

Maintain the eye contact in conversation. Not too heavy. Don't stare, it's intimidating. Nod. Smile. Be engaged! Eye contact can make very lasting impressions on people in any situation. The eyes are the windows to the soul. Keep that in mind.

Just keep a rough 70% rule in mind. That's about the optimum amount of time in a conversation for eye contact.

Anyone ever tried "speed dating"? Check this out. There is a type of speed dating that's catching on. No words; just looking into each other's eyes. What'll they think of next?

3.) Sit Up Straight!

No. I'm not channeling your Sainted Mother. It's just solid advice. As a guy you can get away with a tiny slouch, but be aware of it. A straight upright stance projects good things.

Look at any successful film actor. Good posture is all a part of presence. Do you think proper posture wasn't part of their training? Believe it. It projects health and well-being.

Not to mention what dear old mom said, "It's good for you."

4.) Gesture with OPEN palms.

It projects friendliness. Do you know the reason for the handshake that developed thousands of years ago? Its purpose was to show that we held no weapon. Non-Verbal communication at it's most basic.

This piece of advice you won't get anywhere else.

When the open palm gesture is combined with some other subliminal seduction techniques, it can really be a winning combination (studies show that the open palm gesture can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of a speeding ticket).

How's that for news you can use?

So in conclusion, when speaking with a girl and trying to make a point that puts a good light on you, or even to defend yourself (for example she thinks your just running your "usual game".) Keep your arms in front of you with palms up.

It works on a sub-conscious level to project honesty. Use these simple secrets of attraction with a smile for it to work effectively.

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Three Crazy Things I've Done For Love

In a movie, the crazy thing always works out. The grand gesture gets you the grand love. The love interest reads your grand gesture as ballsy, full of confidence, and knowing what you want. In real life, it can just make you look a little nuts and a little desperate. And maybe even a little irresponsible if that grand gesture cost you a pricey plane ticket or a game of hookey from work.

I would know, because I have done a few crazy things for love. And, well, I'm still single. What have I done?

Karaoke:

What better way to show someone you want the whole world to know that you love them than by letting the whole bar know. It's a start, right? I've signed up to sing at a karaoke bar where I was out with a group of friends, unsuspecting love interest included, with the intention of making it very clear that I was singing to just one person. I don't think all of the singing lessons or voice training in the world could have minimized my horror after putting on that performance and jumping off the stage to be greeted by these words from my love interest: "that was - um - sweet of you."

Gone the distance:

I was once dating someone who ended up moving about a 7-hour drive away. I decided to surprise him by taking off work for a week and driving up there without giving him any advance notice. He was, of course, thrilled to see me on his doorstep. And he was thrilled for the next two days (it was the weekend) to be with me. But, once the work week began, I was just some chick hanging out at his house waiting for him to come home, and stressing him out because he knew I was there waiting for him to come home. Not to mention, we had never lived together in the past. And suddenly, we were thrown into a pseudo living together situation, and found out that we needed our own space very quickly. In the end, the grand gesture didn't make us grow closer. It was the beginning of our relationship's demise.

Written a love letter:

There was a time when these were in fashion. But that was a very, very long time ago. I should have realized that before I tried to translate my feelings into a sonnet, with some far-fetched metaphors and some major hyperbole about just how much the person meant to me. The reader basically gulped in discomfort because, well, it's a little difficult to respond in regular English after you've just been written to in actual Old English.

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Who Should Pay on the First Date?

This week whilst organising a date for a new member through the personal matchmaking service, he asked me why separate bills would be given by the venue on the date. I advised him, it was so that neither party felt uncomfortable, or obligated when the bill arrived. But he insisted that I call up the venue and ask them not to do this as he would prefer to the pay the bill himself. I commented on how chivalrous that was of him, his response "I wouldn't have it any other way and would feel extremely uncomfortable letting a woman contribute". This got me thinking that in a day and age of equality and effectively meeting strangers through dating agencies, online dating sites and also via dating events, what's the etiquette when it comes to paying the bill on the first date? Should the man pay? Should the woman pay? Or should you go dutch?

I decided to ask both male and female Tantric Club members for their opinions. Starting with the ladies...

According to Shilpa, when a man asks you out for dinner on a second or third date and does not pick up the tab, she interprets this as a man who can be somewhat selfish and is demonstrating that whilst he can manage his own expenses, he wouldn't necessarily be able to provide for her.

Trusha believes that it is fair to pay her half on a first date, although it is nice when a guy insists on paying. She always offers and if the guy declines, she gracefully accepts, unless she feels that he is being insincere. In which case, she will insist on paying her half so that she does not feel any obligation towards him.

"The last two dates that I have been on, I've picked the tab up!" Seema recently went on two dates set-up by her family, where both guys apparently had forgotten their wallets. "Shockingly, neither of these guys felt embarrassed, or were over apologetic". She met the first guy after work in town for a drink. "Considering that he had been at work all day, surely he would have noticed that he did not have his wallet at lunch time, and had the good sense to at least borrow some money from a colleague". The second guy, when the bill arrived, the waiter placed it in front of him. Seema got her purse out and asked how much she owed with the intention of going halves, he then causally piped up that he had forgotten his wallet so she would need to pay the full bill. Not surprisingly, Seema has asked her mother to lay off the family introductions for a while.

"I gauge how much a guy likes me based on whether he pays the bill on the first date" that's according to Tina. She believes that if a guy does pay the bill then it's likely that he is interested and will ask her to go on a second date.

For Reena, all the long term relationships that she has had, the men have always paid for the first date and the first dinner. "I don't know if this is sheer coincidence but I certainly think that it tells you a lot about a guy's characteristics. For me, when a guy pays on the first date it tells me that he is chivalrous, considerate and knows how to treat a lady. There are a lot of men out there who talk the talk about knowing how to treat a woman but unfortunately, they fail to walk the walk! Let me clarify, I'm not a gold digger and certainly after a guy has made an effort and paid for the first date and dinner, I will reciprocate by organising and paying for the next one. To me, if he shows generosity from the outset, he is likely to be generous with his time and to nurturing a future relationship, you tell me, which woman doesn't want a man like that?"

Over to the men...

According to Hardip, his decision to pay differs according to the circumstances. He is more likely to pick up the tab if he thinks that the date went well and as a means of further impressing his date. However, if he feels that there is unlikely to be a second date, or is neutral about the experience, he will retreat to his fallback position of splitting the bill in an equitable and fair manner. Hardip also believes that the onus should not be on a man to pay for the bill on a first date, especially if he in effect is meeting someone for the first time. He is also cautious of not wanting to cause offence by insisting on paying the full bill, in his own words "it can be seen to be presumptuous as a female may wish to pay her own way. There's no reason to assume she wants a 'stranger' in effect to pay for her portion of the bill".

"Being an old fashioned type of guy when it comes to dating I have no issue in paying. I pay all of the time without exception. I think however, it should be customary for the lady to offer to contribute". Hemant also adds that given that we live in an era of online dating, where you are regularly meeting strangers, as a guideline for anyone who is unsure, you should go dutch on the first 2 dates. But if there is a third date then the man should pay as at this point there is genuine interest to pursue things further.

Nilesh believes that the man should always pay if he is asking a woman out, as it is the gentlemanly thing to do. He also feels that whilst a couple are in the dating phase, it is the guy who decides where the relationship is going, essentially whether to commit, or not and for this privilege it's only fair that he pays. Mitesh, in part shares this sentiment "I would like to think that if I have asked a lady out for dinner then it's only right that I would foot the bill. However, if both of us have decided together to go out for a meal, then depending on how the evening and meal has gone, I would consider the following two options:

1. If it went well and I enjoyed the company I would definitely offer to pay the bill.

2.If we both were under the impression that we had a good evening but there was no chance of meeting again then I am hoping that we would go halves."

For Vikram, if the date costs less than £20, he feels that the man should pay regardless of whether the date went well, or not. However, if the date exceeds £20 and there is unlikely to be a second, he would go halves.

Ash always pays on the first date. According to him "I think the guy should always pay on the first date and for the first dinner because it demonstrates his financial security and stability, and ability to carry out his manly duties should a relationship ensue. Thereafter, it does not matter who picks up the bill..."

The thoughts and experiences of a selection of our members show some interesting and common themes. When the guy picks up the tab, it would appear that he is signalling to the woman that he believes the first date has been successful and that he envisages a second. Women seem to interpret this signal in a similarly responsive way, commenting that this gesture in itself, demonstrates a man's level of interest. Furthermore, the act of a man paying appears to have much more of a symbolic and intangible impact than a monetary one. Women judge the act as a positive indicator of a man's financial stability, nurturing nature and generosity. Therefore, despite living in an era of equality, online dating and singles events, where veritable strangers often meet for dates, if both parties feel that a spark could ignite, the guy is more inclined to pay the bill and the woman is more likely to want him to. This does appear to change over time and women are inclined to take the initiative in both organising and paying for dates. However, the first date appears to be a special case.

So here's some final thoughts - Guys, if you like the woman that you are on a first date with and would like to see her again, paying the bill at the end of the night will score you brownie points. Just to clarify, it's not because she's money motivated, it's simply because by paying the bill (or at least offering to) she believes it speaks positively about your characteristics. That being said, it is still your prerogative and you should not feel pressured, or obligated and only offer to pay the bill when you sincerely mean it.

Women - the reality is that in a day and age of equality when it comes to dating there are still grey areas. In turn some men are conscious that they may offend you, should they practice old age traditions. Therefore, when it comes to paying on a first date, where often you barely know one another, for some men (even if they do like you) the safest option is to go dutch. So don't be too quick to judge him as he could still be a nice guy and is simply demonstrating that he respects you as an equal.

So in answer to the original question of what is the etiquette when it comes to paying the bill on the first date? Be yourself and do what you feel is right - if your natural actions offend or raise concerns for the other person, then maybe it's just not meant to be...

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How to Meet and Pickup on Those 2 Cuties at the Coffee Shop

She's super cute! She's here studying for English! Now, here's the deal... the way we met was easy enough...

She was in the Coffee shop with her cute friend. And all the guys were staring at her/them. But, nobody was approaching them. So, what did I do different?

Well, #1, First of all I wasn't intimidated by the fact that they were super cute and adorable. All these guys were sitting around, looking, staring at them, but didn't approach...

#2 I didn't let social rules stop me. See, this is the number #1 thing that stops most men dead in their tracks. They are so concerned or worried about what other people would think. Or if they older or whatever!

Now, here's one of the Secrets to the female mating system. She will only mate and or date a male who doesn't follow stupid societal rules. And here's why. If it's not a law or it will mean death, then why would you let other people stop you from getting what you want. Now, that's a very, very smart instinct the female mating system has. Her system is looking for a man who goes after what he wants and takes it! Yes, I am dead serious. Now here's why. If you are too afraid to meet a girl in public because some idiot or person or whatever made up some B.S. rule that isn't a law, then her mating system won't mate with you, because then you are just to easy to push off your goals and you don't go after what you want.

Now, think about it! If you are too much of a wimp to actually go after what you want, then you are not man enough to make it in the real world and be able to feed her and the family. In all sincerity, do you see how this works?

There are so many intricate and basic things going on, on the instinctual level, that when it all comes down to it, our mating systems actually are smarter than us when it comes to dating and relationships. All you have to do is get out of your own way and literally follow your heart, because that will unconsciously lead you to the promised land! Yes, I mean that!

So, #1 if you want it, go for it! Just do what I did... I saw 2 cute girls and was like "Oh yeah!" "I'm in!"

#2 I didn't care what the other people in the room thought about me. In fact, one guy who was sitting about 8 feet away, was totally turned and staring at them and actually freaking them out. So first of all, don't ever do that. If you stare at a girl and wait, it will freak her out. Just go up and talk to her. Otherwise, turn away and ignore her. Yes, I am serious.

Now, what I did was, I saw 3 tables were open in their area. And, I broke another unspoken social rule you can find in any good/basic body language book. The normal, polite thing to do would be to sit at the far table or the middle table... Nope! I sat right next to them...

But, what I did next is a little secret or a part of a series of secrets that I do on a regular basis. I pulled the table away from them, only about 6 inches to a foot max, and turned my body away and leaned away from them. And then I took my back pack and then my jacket and put it in between us and literally built it up like I was building a barrier in between us! hahaha... I'm teasing them and confusing them for fun! (Girls like this, this is called The Cat and Mouse game! And women love it! Besides, it's their game, not ours! But they love it when guys interact and play this game for fun! It also shows you have learned this form of polite, social interactions with girls which shows you have a higher intelligence which her mating system is looking for.)

And then guess what I did next? I completely ignored them as I was turned away, reading a book with my legs crossed, which means another barrier is up saying, I don't want to be bothered. (Again, Cat and Mouse Game.)

Now, why do I do this? Why do I do all of these things that tells her/them that I am not interested, I just want to be left alone, etc.?

I do it, because the female mating system is hard-wired to detect desperation. A man who is desperate and practically begging for Love or Attention or a girl is a total turn off, because if this man is desperate, then he must not have social value. And it's all about your social value and how to express this in a way that attracts and turns women on. Yes, Social power, Social communication, Body language literally turn women on!

Now why is this? It's because, her mating system is looking for a man who is valued by society by his very presence in a room full of total and complete strangers! Yep, that's right! Now, why is this? Because, if a man can gain social power and respect in a room full of people, then he will have a better chance at survival and feeding his children, because he can gain more social connections with people and can get favors and help from all the social connections he creates.

So yes, when you see some guys just walk into a room and they just seem to own the room and people just seem to gravitate towards them and give them what they want, there is an actual science to this madness. And the great thing is, you can learn how to do this. It's not that hard once you start to see it!

#3 The next thing that happened, was I casually asked them if they were here from Japan studying English. Because there is a University here and a really good program that helps Asian/foreign students to come here and live with host families for up to 1 year to learn English better as a part of their studies as part of their studies in Japanese Universities.

So, when they said yes, they are here to study English, they said it with a wide-eyed look as to say, "How do you know?" So then I responded with, I have met many Japanese girls from Japan here to study at that same college for the same program.

Now, what did I just do here? It shows familiarity. Now I am not just some total stranger. I am a guy who has met other Japanese girls and obviously made friends with them in the past, because I mentioned a few things about their program and why they were here. And to them it is obvious that it's true because how else could I know? (Now, this is only a light level of familiarity, but it does count.)

And then I dropped the big one. I actually dated a girl from Japan who happened to be in a very similar program, and was also staying with a host family in San Francisco, just like them. So then I pulled out my cell phone and showed her the pictures of her and I hugging, and her kissing my cheek, etc. So, the girls smiled in approval and lit up. (This scores big on the familiarity level with girls and also shows that women like you and go out with you and kiss you! Thus it makes you more valuable.)

They asked about her and how long she stayed, etc. and this sparked up a short conversation for a few minutes. And we laughed, smiled etc. I then realized that I was liked by these girls and that 1 of the girls had chosen me. So once I realized this, I played hard to get and simply said, nice to talk to you and have a good day, enjoy, etc. etc. and then I turned away, crossed my legs and went back to reading... hahaha... (Which raises my Value to them.) I ignore them. hehe...

Now, why am I doing this? Why am I ignoring them? Because it drives women crazy when a guy is "NOT" completely and totally focused on them. hahahaha... its all because women/girls have this thing I call "The Cat and Mouse" function, which is hard-wired, literally into her nervous system and mating system. And when you play hard to get, it triggers her to want to chase you! See! There is a way to get women to chase you instead of you chasing them. In fact, if she is not chasing you, paying for all the dinners and expensive gifts in the world won't do a damn thing!

She literally must be so interested in you that she chases you! And basically, how you do that, is by ignoring her at the right times.

So after a few minutes, maybe 5 or so, I then asked them if they are having fun here in the U.S. and if they are going out to clubs. And they giggled and responded and said, "Yes" and that they mostly enjoy shopping here and have a lot of fun shopping.

Now, what did I do here? I steered or directed the conversations into a fun place simply by asking them if they are having fun here. So their brain has to focus on fun just to understand the conversation.

See, steering a conversation to a positive place is as easy as asking a fun question about fun things or simply talking about interesting, fascinating and or fun things. It's literally that easy and makes you a great conversationalist, which is the #1 thing that turns women on sexually! Yes, conversations, effective communication literally turns women on. The better you get at it, the easier it becomes.

That's why I say, "Meeting girls and turning women on is easy once you know how!" Oh, and it's fun too!

#4 Now, as I was talking to these girls back and forth, I noticed the men in the room were giving me the disapproval look and the almost angry, you're a bad guy look... hahahahaha... I know, he's just jealous.

Now here's the deal, this can and will work in your favor if you do 1 thing. Laugh at them, ignore them. This one guy who like I said before was about 8 feet away was really trying to give me the evil eye and disapproval look and the girls saw it. So, I literally starting smiling inside and almost laughed out loud. I just simply had this shitty grin and inside was laughing, because I knew that his guy didn't have the balls to approach these girls and was mad that I did.

Now, here's the deal. It was very clear that the reason this guy didn't approach, or rather his excuse, was because these girls were in college and he was about 45 and in his mind, he was too old. Now, I am almost as old as this guy and I didn't let any excuse stop me let alone my freaking age.

Hey, it's a free country and I don't let other people tell me what I can or can't do, especially when it comes to social rules or personal values or personal morals, etc. etc. Because, that's their B.S., not yours or mine! And that's a major bonus, to her mating system, when you actually live your life by your values and rules and not some total strangers rules who happens to be in the room.

And, hahahaha... I know something that these guys don't know. Younger girls love, love, love to date older guys! I am serious. It's hard-wired into their mating systems to mate with older guys. There are too many reasons to go over them all right here; such as mother nature knows what she is doing and purposely hard-wired younger women/girls to chase older guys and hard-wires guys to be highly attracted to younger women.

So I am sitting there and I laugh at this guy, rather grin at him and sit back and look around the room confidently, because in my head, I can see all the excuses the guys in this room are using to not approach these 2 beautiful, hot and cute/sexy girls. They were too old or not tall enough or not rich enough, good-looking enough, or whatever their B.S. says. And the worst part, is none of it is true! None of these things are what attracts girls to guys at all...

So, when I looked around and grinned, these girls knew exactly what I was thinking. I don't give a damn what you guys think. You guys didn't approach these girls because you let fear tell you what to do, and I didn't! Thus, the spoils go to the guy who takes it! Period end of sentence.

Now, it doesn't end here.

I then go back to ignoring the girls and even say, "Nice to meet you, have a great day, etc. etc.." And they are slightly shocked and then get up to leave as I go back to turning away and ignoring them.

They slowly walk out and I noticed, they stayed right next to the door, just on the outside as they glanced at me. And again, I ignore them...

And then I noticed the guy in the chair 8 feet away gives me this look like some how he accomplished something because the girls left. I looked up at him and just giggled and shook my head, because, I'm not done yet. Everything is set in play, perfectly!

So, then the girls start to walk to the corner, and then I grab my back pack, go out, grab my bike and then went across the street to meet them and said "Hello!" We chatted for about 5 minutes and the one girl acted like her phone rang, which, it didn't... hahaha.. it was in her purse and there is no way she could have felt it if it was vibrating, and I would have heard that too...

So, I realized that the girl next to me who had then stepped close to me within breaths distance, had probably told the other girl that she liked me and wanted me. So at this point, it's a complete wrap and I chit chat for about 3 minutes and ask her if she wants my number and she hesitated. And then I said, "Do you want to give me your number so I can call you?" And then she lit up and said, "Yes!" hahahaha...

So now, watch this. I purposely asked her to hold onto my hot chocolate, even though she had a cell phone in 1 hand and her drink in the other... hahahaha.. this shows that she is willing to do for you which is a strong sign that she really likes you!

*** Note, Guys, girls do not want to be the one to call you. That's your job!

So then I got her number, saved it. And then was about to leave when she said, "Can you call my phone so I can have your number?" So I again asked her to hold my drink, and again, she complied. Then pulled my phone back out and called her. Then gave her a big hug and took off!

Oh, and yes, the guy in the Chair was outside at this point watching us, and I purposely rode my bike back across the street towards him and raised my Hot chocolate drink towards him as if to say, "That's how you do it!" hahahahaha... That guy was a jealous jerk!

And Off I rode into the sunset knowing I am going to have a great winter playing with this deliciously hot girl through the cold winter nights at my place! hahahahaha...

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How To Text A Girl Like A PUA

If you are trying to date a lot of different attractive women then it is very important that you learn how to text a girl like a PUA (that's short for pick up artist). You see, these days texting is the number one way that people stay in touch with each other.

If your texting skills are sub-par then you are going to be at a serious disadvantage in the dating arena, so take the time right now to read this article and start honing your PUA texting skills.

Here are 3 quick PUA texting tricks that you can start using right now to have better text interactions with the women you are dating or talking to:

1) Be a texter

A lot of guys try to avoid texting because they know that their texting skills are weak and they don't feel confident sending women text messages. Obviously, avoidance is not a good option. Instead, be a guy who texts, and work on improving your text game daily.

2) Don't send boring texts

Sending texts that say thing like, "hey, what's up" is not smooth text game. Any dim-witted sucker can come up with something better than that. Instead, try to put something interesting into the texts that you send. If nothing exciting is going on, talk about something mundane as if it was exciting. For instance, if you are making soup, you could write something like, "Oh girl, this is some slammin' soup I'm making, Wolfgang Puck would be tripping if he tasted this..."

3) Don't text her all the time

Although I just told you that you should work on improving your text game everyday, it is also important not to overdo it and send out too many texts. A big part of being successful with women is maintaining a sense of mystery and intrigue. If a girl knows where you are every second of the day because you are always texting her, she's gonna get bored. So be sure only to text a girl you are casually dating every few days at most. This will also increase the chances that she will text you first more often.

Attractive girls always have at least a few guys who are trying to date them, so it is really important to develop yourself in many ways in order to keep a leg up on your competition.

Texting is one skill that will serve you extremely well in the singles scene these days...

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Don't Give Up on Mr Right: Rethinking Your Dating Life So He Can Find You

It doesn't matter if you haven't had a date in what seems like a lifetime or you're out every night on random dates that seem to go nowhere. dating can be a daunting experience. One day you're up. The next day you're down and you're starting to feel like the road to Mr. Right is leading nowhere. Now that people are waiting longer to marry, there can be decades of being single. You're tired of sitting at the kids table at family dinners and searching for a plus one for your party invites. Where oh where is he? Here are 5 tips to keep your mind and perspective on track when all you want to do is give up.

1. Take your eye off the "Relationship Target". Unlike your career, love is not something that you can plan or strategize for. If you're constantly focused on what you don't have, you'll miss out on special moments and quite possibly a great deal of joy and happiness. If you're too focused on finding "him" you're going to put yourself in a constant place of feeling like you're failing at something and that is simply not the reality of the situation. Instead, have a diffused focus. This means, have your eyes and heart open while you are living your life instead of living your life to meet a man.

2. Dating is not a learned behavior. There is too much advice out there telling you to be something different to land a man. This alone is what is keeping many people from finding a significant partnership. To find a great love, you have to be totally and completely YOU. Notice how you are with friends and family. The way you laugh, move, the things you talk about, how you share. Dating is no different! You must be seamless throughout your life.

3. Timing IS everything. Yes, it sounds like a cliché, but I can tell you this is absolutely true from my 12 plus years of experience working with singles and putting couples together. Just do YOUR part. Continue to grow and learn more about yourself by investing in YOU! No, not to make sure you are the perfect package, but rather to know yourself inside and out so that you attract the right partner. Your partner may be just around the corner investing in his life in preparation for meeting you!

4. LOVE your single journey. Yes, that's right. Fall in love with your life. Love is like a magnet that is pulled in the direction of people who are happy and already loving their lives. Celebrate where you are because guess what? Single is a temporary status. It is not permanent even though it may feel that way at times. I met my husband at a time that I wasn't looking! In fact, I was having a blast being single!

5. You are given what you are ready to receive. We all think that love should just be granted to us because we want it. Not so. The universe has a funny way of giving us what we are ready to receive. Most women are wonderful givers but haven't learned the art of receiving. Practice this on a daily basis with people you know and meet. If you haven't met someone yet, give yourself a break and understand that you are being taken care of. The universe can see you and you are not forgotten.

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