Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Dating and Relationships: 5 Things Women Do That Turn Men Off

Women who find themselves lacking in the dating department should ask themselves if they are making any of the mistakes listed in this article. Men are funny creatures and, like deer, spook easily. Say the wrong thing and they are likely to bolt right out the door after making a lame excuse. In order to play the dating game like a pro (which means winning) you need to know how men think and what makes them tick. Once you know how a man thinks you will start attracting them instead of repelling them. Here are a few common mistakes women make when it comes to dating:

Talk About Your Ex
Women like to talk about themselves and the topic of conversation is usually men. Talking with your girlfriends is ok, but you should never talk about your exes with a date. If you talk to them about other guys they assume you will talk about them to others as well.

Dress too sexy
When going on a first date it is important to dress appropriately, this means conservatively. You want to show off your best assets but that does not mean dressing slutty. A dress that is too low cut or too short will have him thinking of sex instead of listening to what you have to say. If things work out you can dress any way you want later when the two of you are intimate.

Try Too Hard to Impress
The best advice when dating someone new is to just be yourself. Often times we try too hard to impress someone and end up turning them off instead. Never try too hard to get a guy. You do not have to like the same football team he does or like the same food or have the same habits. It is nice to have some things in common but it is not required. Never lie about what you like or do not like just to impress him. Eventually he will find out you lied and it will bow up in your face.

Drink Too Much
Make it a rule never to have more than two drinks on a date. It is very easy to overdo it and end up spilling the beans on everything. Everyone has their emotional baggage but when you drink too much you get too relaxed and before you know it you have told him everything that has happened in your life since high school. It is a good idea to have a mental list of topics for conversation to avoid those awkward moments of silence that often cause people to drink too much to begin with.

Talk Too Much
Women love to talk, it is a part of our nature but there is such a thing as talking too much. Let him talk about himself to avoid monopolizing the conversation. It is better to retain a little mystery and let him want to find out more about you. To do that,he will have to ask you out again.



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