Get Your Ex Back Advice - What If Your Ex Girlfriend Is Rebounding?

You've found out what you already knew was going to happen and now you don't know how to handle it. You've found out that your ex girlfriend seems to be rebounding back from the break up and it makes you feel like maybe you should do the same thing. The only problem is, you are also feeling as if you want her back, so you are not sure if rebounding is the right thing to do. You are also not sure if the fact that she seems to be dating again means that you have missed the boat and you don't have a shot at winning her back. Yeah, this can be a confusing situation.

Rebounding Is NOT A Bad Thing to Do -

It's not going to be a bad thing for you to do a little rebounding back yourself, especially since you know that this is what your ex girlfriend is doing right now. She is not going to have some double standard where it is perfectly fine for her to do her thing but bad for you to do it as well. And if she does have that double standard, then you probably are better off without her. So, to answer the question of whether or not you should do the same thing and start dating again, the answer is YES. If you are wondering if that is going to sabotage any chance of you being able to win her back, the answer is that most of the time NO, that will not harm your chances. Most of the time.

Your Ex Girlfriend Is Still An Option -

The other thing that you are probably wondering is whether or not you still have a chance with her just because she seems to be doing her thing and rebounding back from the break up and most of the time the answer is that YES, you do still have a chance to get her back. Just not right now. Don't get too disappointed by that, because you may find that it doesn't take long for her to stop dating and start thinking about you again. All you really need to know is that you still have a chance of getting her back and if you are able to do the right things to make her feel like you are the right guy for her, then she probably will come back to you anyway.

No Matter What, You Can't Get Mad At Her -

One other thing that needs to be said is that if you want to have a chance with her again, then you can't get mad at her for rebounding. Like it or not, she is single and she can do what she wants and you can do the same thing. If you do get mad at her for dating now that you and her are broken up, you are going to come across as the bad guy and that is not the position that you want to be in if you want to get her back.

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5 Reasons Women Get Out Of The Dating Mood

Women in their late twenties and early thirties are divorced or never married. They go through online dating sites looking for a relationship hoping to find the one to settle down with.

They pick a guy that looks like their type only to get disappointed again. They're frustrated meeting so many losers so they get out of the dating mood.

Although they're young, they worry about their biological clock wanting to have children. Most women in that age group are a serious single looking for someone who wants a relationship too.

There are 5 reasons women get out of the dating mood.

1 - Online Dating Sites - They join these sites in hopes of finding Mr. Right only to find guys that don't want the same thing as them. The guys want to have a good time and use them for fun and sex.

Most are low quality singles that could care less about you. It's a never-ending hunt trying to find a sincere guy who wants to settle down and this is one reason women get out of the dating mood.

2 - Dating Profile - Most online dating profiles are not who the person says they are. They join, look through many profiles and when they see one they like they make their profile match it. They plan it so you'll pick his profile and go out with him and it usually works.

3 - Blind Dates - A friend will set you up on a date with someone you never met. You don't know if you like this person or what they look like. They are the worst when dating. They very seldom work out and are a waste of your time.

4 - Background Checks - The online dating sites are not monitored and they don't run background checks on their members. The software is unreliable matching you with someone totally opposite from who you're looking for. You don't know if you're dating a criminal, rapist or drug user. This is a risky way to date.

5 - Con Artists - With these sites you could get hooked up to a dating con artist. These guys are smart and know how to charm you so you'll trust them letting down your guard giving them the information they want.

They can steal your heart and rob you blind all at the same time before you realize what they've done. After they get what they want, they take off and you never see them again.

Women who date guys from these sites will never find the one. They'll eventually get fed up and get out of the dating mood. A reliable dating service talks to members on the phone and then has them come in to their office.

They give them dating advice, run a background check and screen all members. Most are relationship material and are high quality singles such as yourself.

How to Surely Find Your Perfect Mate

I will give you scientific and philosophical proof of the existence of a perfect mate. You should pay attention to my lessons and care about finding your other half while you are still very young. This way, you won't get involved with the wrong person and lose your real perfect mate in the crowd.

On the other hand, if you are already old but you are alone because you couldn't find the ideal partner in life, you can find your perfect mate now. The same happens if you are divorced and you had many deceptions in your first marriage.

You didn't find your real perfect mate from the beginning. This is why you had a traumatic relationship with the wrong person. However, now you can finally find the right person for you. It's never too late. When you positively transform your personality through dream translation, the unconscious mind helps you discover your soul mate.

You may believe that the idea of finding a perfect mate is based on having unreal expectations. Most people think that they have to get adapted to what they dislike in a relationship and concentrate their attention on what they like in the other person, without looking for perfection. However, this supposedly 'realistic' conclusion is not as logical as it seems to be.

I will give you an example so that you may understand my lessons.

The 'Symposium' is a philosophical text based on dialogues, written by the Greek philosopher Plato. This text is similar to the genesis because it talks about the purpose and nature of love. The 'Symposium' is responsible for the definition of a 'platonic love'.

For Socrates and for Plato, the most correct use of love is to love divinity. The original definition of the platonic love indicates that the person you love makes you pay attention to your spiritual reality. Platonic love is the perfect love, which makes you understand the spiritual dimension of your reality.

Many years later this definition was distorted by the world. Today platonic love is considered the impossible type of love. Platonic love is love from distance, love that never finds completion because it is characterized by the absence of sexual relationships.

This distortion doesn't represent Plato's idea about the perfect love. In the dialogue 'The Symposium', Love is examined in a sequence of speeches by men who attend a symposium, or drinking party. Each man must define the real meaning of Love.

Aristophanes talks about soul mates during the symposium. He explains that humans originally had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. However, Zeus was afraid of their power. He decided to split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to find completion.

This story seems to be based on the philosopher's imagination. However, the truth is that everyone has a soul mate. Plato's story is not a myth. It describes a real fact in a symbolic way.

Thanks to Carl Jung's discoveries about the meaning of dreams, today we have scientific proof that everyone can find their perfect mate. This statement is not based on suppositions that cannot be scientifically proved. This phenomenon is constantly observed into practice.

When you follow dream therapy, you learn how to find your perfect mate. Plato described a big irony. Your perfect mate characterizes your destiny.

When you become a perfect human being because you are following the divine guidance in dreams, you also find your soul mate. This is true.

I found my soul mate in the end of my studies about the meaning of dreams based on Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation. My love story proves that this phenomenon is real.

I couldn't believe that we have a soul mate. I used to think that love at first sight was a myth. However, to my surprise, I saw this phenomenon happening into practice.

I immediately fell in love with a man I had never met before. I knew nothing about him besides a few details. He immediately fell in love with me too, since there is reciprocity between the couple. When you find your perfect mach, this means that your perfect match finds you too. Both of you understand that you love one another because there is a magnetic field uniting you and the person you love.

This is a very strange phenomenon. I had never met my perfect mate before, but I felt as if we had lived together for years, and I could read his mind. I couldn't believe that this experience was real.

I had a dream about this meeting exactly the day before I met this man. I was following dream therapy for four years. At that time, I felt that I was able to finally understand Carl Jung's complicated method of dream interpretation.

This intriguing meeting with my perfect mate and the dream I had predicting this meeting the previous day, gave me the idea to start writing a scientific book in order to prove to the world with my own example that Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation is the only right one. The knowledge we acquire when we translate the meaning of dreams based on Jung's method gives us crucial information about the most important matters of our lives.

There are numerous real stories of people who found their soul mate and lived happily with them. They found the person who loves them as much as they love this person. This person is exactly like them, as if this person belonged to the same mind and body they do.

In other words, your perfect mate seems to be a part of yourself. Your perfect mate looks like you. Both of you have similar physical and psychological characteristics.

Therefore, Plato's definition about the soul mates is true. His definition is a symbolic representation of what happens in our lives.

Aristophanes explains that humans originally had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. However, Zeus was afraid of their power. He decided to split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to find completion.

We can translate the symbolic meaning of this philosophical story the same way we translate the symbolic dream language.

Humans were originally complete. However, they were separated because God was afraid of their powerful evilness.

In order to find their perfect mate and in order to be able to live happily with the special person, humans must eliminate their evilness. In other words, humans must pass through painful experiences in order to be transformed into real human beings.

This is why God condemns them to spend their lives looking for the other half instead of letting them live happily with their perfect mate from the beginning. First of all, human beings must purify their spirit and learn how to be perfect. After transforming their personality, they deserve to find happiness and completion with their soul mate.

This means that the unconscious mind helps you transform your personality in dreams. You find your soul mate and you learn what to do in order to live happily with the person you love. This is not a myth. The unconscious mind has a divine origin and proves God's existence. You should take advantage of my discoveries after continuing Carl Jung's research, and learn how to positively transform your personality. This is how you will deserve living a happy life with your perfect mate.

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Dealing With Difficult Conflict: There Is No Opponent There

What does this quotation by Morihei Ueshiba say to you?

"Opponents confront us continually, but actually there is no opponent there."

Morihei Ueshiba, 1883-1969, is the founder of Aikido, the martial art I practice, teach, and use as a metaphor in my work. Aikido -- "The Way of Blending With Energy" -- teaches us to unite with the "opponent's" energy and redirect it, keeping both defender and attacker free from harm and re-establishing harmony.

Dealing With Difficult Conflict

Lately I've had the opportunity to coach and teach about difficult conflict, the kind that's hard on body, mind and spirit, that's a shock to the system and can take time to understand and resolve.

And while I've written many articles about dealing with difficult people, difficult conflict, and suggestions for reclaiming perspective, this question about the opponent deserves a closer look.

There Is No Opponent There

If the quotation is true--there is no opponent there--then why do we continue to fight? Why do we make others the source of the problem? Ueshiba's quote suggests we are fighting something in ourselves, and when we look at that opponent, we will find solutions. For if I cannot change the other, there is only one option left.

Just STOP

Stop doing what isn't working. See a big red STOP sign in front of your face when you begin to react in ways you know don't serve you, have never served you. You don't have to have a backup plan, though it will help. Just STOP what isn't working. Something else--more useful and more intentional--will take its place.

Center Yourself

I've written and taught so long on this foundational life skill, I begin to wonder: "Do you want to hear it again?" I look forward to your comments.

You probably know how: Stop. Breathe. Reconnect with your mind and body. Do it now, when there is no pressure. Remind yourself how easy it is:

• Focus on an internal point about two inches below your belt buckle.
• Breathe into that point.
• Feel your feet on the floor.
• Lengthen your spine and the back of your neck.
• Relax your shoulders, jaw, and facial muscles.
• Feel gratitude for something or someone.

Creating a Backup Plan

Recall a recent argument in which you lost control and replay the tape in your head. See yourself in your mind's eye. What happened just before you lost it? What were you feeling, thinking, hearing? And what happened just before that? Find the juncture where if you'd told yourself to STOP and center--and had actually done that--it would have changed everything.

Possible backup plans:

• Leave. Walk out the door.
• Walk around the block until you're centered and have your self back--your best self.
• Drive safely to a centering location: park; woods; riverbank.
• Call your friend, sister, brother, therapist.
• Sit down with a cup of tea or a glass of lemonade--not drugs or alcohol. Your goal is acknowledging and learning from your emotions, not avoiding or drowning them.

Then What?

Are you thinking, "Now what? What do I do the next day? How do I resolve the conflict? Stopping isn't enough. Centering isn't enough. What if they don't change?"

Stopping and centering are enough.

When you stop and center, you vanquish the inner opponent. That's the only fight you can win. And when you've won that fight, you'll find you have limitless options.

Options such as:

• Talk it through.
• Let it go. When you're centered, you may realize the conflict is really yours. When you stop struggling and resisting what is, the conflict goes away.
• Leave the relationship.
• Cope. If leaving isn't an option you choose right now, change the conversation or find other strategies that will allow you to stay in the relationship, keep your job, or relate respectfully.

When you change, everything changes.

Unlikely Teachers

If we are alive, we will have conflict. And sometimes there isn't an easy answer. But there is power in asking the questions and in looking inward. Difficult people and conflict are teachers in disguise. They invite us to see things about ourselves that we've avoided or ignored.

Conflict knocks on the door until we invite her in. The longer you wait, the harder she knocks.

The theme of conflict as an Unlikely Teacher is the central premise of my book, Unlikely Teachers: Finding the Hidden Gifts in Daily Conflict and my work. Watch for a new story from Unlikely Teachers in each Ki Moments post this spring and summer.

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Interracial Love, Dating and Getting Permission From Your Parents

True story.

I came across a Google alert for interracial dating the other day and found people getting crazy about a rule they read in a student handbook from a christian college and I quote:

Interracial dating must be approved in writing and verbally by the parents of both students.

You can imagine the conversation running rampant in the comments over this.

I did a little research and found that it is private college so if you are willing to pay to be in this environment, you probably will have no problem with this rule or any of the other rules which may be difficult for a lot of people to understand.

Permission from your parents to date someone outside of your race is a real surrender of power. And at the heart of interracial dating is a power struggle that has existed since forever and especially in power structures like organized religion.

Let's see what we have to deal with:

• how to achieve everlasting life
• a male dominated authority
• celibacy
• science as heresy
• how to deal with sexuality and the material world
• who gets to be a saint

All this gets in the way of a date?

Let's talk about Mary

Mary who?

Good question.

There are several Marys - not least, of course, Mary the mother of Jesus.

Then there is Mary of Bethany, sister of Martha and Lazarus.

Mary, the mother of James and Joseph, and Mary the wife of Clopas. Equally important, there are three unnamed women who are expressly identified as sexual sinners-the woman with a "bad name" who wipes Jesus' feet with ointment as a signal of repentance, a Samaritan woman whom Jesus meets at a well and an adulteress. Jesus' attitude toward women with sexual histories was one of the things that set him apart from other teachers of the time.

He is remembered as treating women with respect, as equals in his circle; not only did he refuse to reduce them to their sexuality; Jesus was a man who loved women, and whom women loved.

Remember the rock opera Jesus Christ Superstar, where Mary Magdalene sings, "I don't know how to love him... He's just a man, and I've had so many men before... I want him so. I love him so." The story has timeless appeal, first, because that problem of "how" - whether love should be erotic or platonic; sensual or spiritual; a matter of longing or consummation-defines the human condition. What makes the conflict universal is the dual experience of sex: the necessary means of reproduction and the madness of passionate encounter.

For women, the struggle is maternal/erotic, a tension that men can be reduced to the Madonna/whore opposites fantasy.

Mary was a trusted apostle of Jesus, and that was a major obstacle to establishing that male dominance, which is why, her image had to be recast as one of subservience. The dominance of males established itself in the church of the "Fathers," and the Gospel of Mary was one of the texts shunted aside in the fourth century. Thus Mary of Magdala, who began as a powerful woman at Jesus' side, "became," "the redeemed whore and Christianity's model of repentance, a manageable, controllable figure, and effective weapon and instrument of propaganda against her own sex."

Let's take a closer look at what actually happened with Mary, shall we?

There was a harnessing of sexual restlessness to her image. There was the humane appeal of forgiveness and redemption. But what most drove the anti-sexual sexualizing of Mary Magdalene was the male need to dominate women.

In the Church, as elsewhere, that need is still being met.

And these are the real power struggles behind your interracial date.

So here's what I would say to your parents:

1. Man was originally created in the image and likeness of God; I am going out on a date with someone who was created in the image and likeness of God.

2. Jesus Christ was conceived by the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary. See what happens when you date outside your species?

3. There is one God, who is infinitely perfect, existing eternally in three persons. How do you expect to get three people to agree on anything?

Stay strong in your belief in your choice to be with another human being.

What You Need to Know About Tao of Badass Review

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How to Deal With Bullies - Part Four - Boundaries

Welcome to Part Four in our series of How to Deal With Bullies entitled Boundaries. Boundaries is where we draw a line in the sand in our relationships and we deal directly with anyone who crosses it.

All of us need to set boundaries in our relationships. If we don't, people will walk all over us. Have you ever seen someone in a relationship where the other person is in complete control? Most of us have. Maybe you have been controlled by someone or you have controlled someone. That is unhealthy plain and simple. It is bullying.

You see this everywhere. Husbands, wives, parents, children, boyfriends, girlfriends, friends, schoolmates, and also in the workplace with bosses, employers, employees and co-workers.

Let me give you a few examples. A husband coming home and displaying irritation or even belittling his wife if the dinner isn't ready or the house isn't clean. Parents may intimidate, bully or try to control their children to get them to do chores or to behave. I have seen children rule the house and parents let them get away with whatever they want. Kids not eating what is set before them or asking for something again and again until their parents cave in to their wishes. Boyfriends keeping girlfriends from seeing their friends or family. Schoolmates picking on and intimidating others. How about the workplace? I was so close to punching my foreman about 20 years ago for his constant yelling at me and other employees. He was twice my size and I didn't know karate back then, but I would have at least thrown one good punch before he pummeled me. Maybe there is sexual harassment in the office taking place.

In all of the above examples boundaries need to be set. If boundaries are not established, one of two things will happen. Either the bullying and controlling will continue and often get worse or the one being bullied will one day explode. This is when someone shows up with a gun and starts shooting.

OK, now that we see where lines are crossed, let's set some boundaries. The first, foremost and primary boundary everyone should set is the word NO. No means no. Let me say that again. NO means NO! How do we apply this? Anytime when someone does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to vocalize that. Sometimes people will do things intentionally to make you feel uncomfortable just to test your reaction and see if they can go further. Other times it may simply be ignorance on their part about how it makes you feel and a simple no is sufficient to stop the situation. In either case, set the boundary of no and stand your ground.

Husbands and wives need to love, respect and honor each other, not control or belittle. Parents need to establish rules in the house that are clear for their children to follow. Friends and schoolmates - respect each other and stand up for each other. In the workplace, check your company's policy (if they have one) for how to properly handle workplace relationship conflicts.

Stand up for yourself. Have confidence. Set your boundaries.

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How To Speak With A Woman Without Feeling Like A Fool

You might be one amongst many guys in the world that have no idea whatsoever about how to talk to girls. Perhaps you feel completely idiotic whenever you try to converse with a member of the opposite sex. Don't fret, all you need to do is learn how to talk to girls by following a few good pointers. Once you start implementing these strategies, you might find it much easier to talk to girls and you will surely impress many of them. In the article that follows we will give you some hints on how to talk to girls in a way which they will like.

An important factor which guys should know is that they need to be themselves when talking to a girl. If they are attempting to put on an act they are going to come across all wrong. A guy being himself will be much more relaxed and able to give all of his attention to the conversation. Just be yourself and see if the girl likes you.

Most guys find it tough to think about a topic to talk about while conversing with girls and this could possibly be one of the main reasons why they hesitate so much while talking to girls. It so happens many a times that the guy keeps cracking his brain trying to choose a perfect topic to talk about so that the girl gets impressed by him right away. If that sounds unrealistic it's because it is! Sitting there in embarrassed silence trying to think of the right topic is not going to help, the guy needs to say just about anything to get the conversation going. Starting the discussion on a common subject is an excellent idea and then after getting to know what the girl is interested in, he can shift the conversation on subjects which is likely to catch her interest.

There are a few ways which guys could use to get started when talking to girls. One thing they could do is bring up a topic that they are interested in and see if the girl is interested in it too. They need not feel discouraged if she is not interested. They just need to keep the conversation going by asking questions to learn more about what she likes and dislikes. Almost all people love to talk about themselves so guys can get a good conversation going without having to do much talking themselves. But guys should understand that they should never talk big about themselves because girls generally do not like such behavior.

Humor is a good thing to introduce into the discussion and so is light flirting. Guys can reveal their interest in a girl by flirting with them in a humorous way and keeping the conversation light. Keeping eye contact with the girl is a good idea but guys need to make sure that they don't stare at the girl a lot lest she should feel uncomfortable sitting there. Keeping the conversation low key and non threatening is very important otherwise the girl might feel scared. Getting her to laugh is actually a good sign that she is enjoying talking to you. A surefire way to charm a girl is by displaying some chivalry. You can open doors for her and hold the chair while she is trying to sit down or get up from the dining table. You can even lend a hand to carry her bags. Girls love to receive compliments so be sure that you throw some genuine compliments about her looks or it could be even on something that she has accomplished in her life.

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Relationship Advice - What Are The Benefits of Online Dating Services?

Even with the help of friends and family, finding the right person to date can be pretty difficult. Chances are you are going to go through a few "duds" before you find the right one, which is why any help that can be thrown your way is gladly appreciated. With the convenience of the Internet, it was only a matter of time before it starting helping us narrow down the dating possibilities, too. But is it a good way to go?

Despite the non-personal feel and cliche' that some people associate with online dating, there are benefits to using these services.

For one, they broadcast your availability to a tremendously large audience... far more than you could ever expect to achieve by using word-of-mouth. Since so many people are now relying on these services to make a connection, it improves the odds that you will be found by the "right" person.

Online dating also does some of the homework for you. Seeing someone's profile online can allow you the discretion to overlook those who do not seem appealing to you... for whatever the reason. That alone could save you a lot of wasted nights dating people you have no interest in or attraction to.

Dating services also cut down on "phonies". Having to post a lot of personal information about yourself and who you are, means it cuts down on the counterfeits. There's nothing worse than being set up with someone who is supposed to be perfect for you... only to find they are not the person they described themselves to be.

Another benefit is usually the people who go to the trouble and expense, to use an online dating service are the real deal. They aren't looking for meaningless relationships. They are really just like you, which is what you are looking for.

So your chances of finding someone who is looking for the same type of relationship you are, just went up exponentially.

One of the best features of online dating is it allows you to remain anonymous until you are ready to make a decision. If you don't feel a connection or a have a "feeling" someone might be of interest to you, you don't have to worry because your information hasn't already been made available to them.

When used properly, online dating services are an excellent way to screen a large number of people privately and discreetly. This makes it much safer for everyone and allows prospects to feel unrestrained in their decisions.

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DIY Wedding 4: T Minus 8 Months, Continued

Eight months out from your wedding there's a lot to do! While you're registering for gifts, researching and booking entertainment, and booking photographers, you'll also need to meet with caterers, assuming that your venue does not provide on site catering. Just as you wouldn't hire a DJ or a band without hearing them, you surely wouldn't hire a caterer without tasting the food. This means you have to attend multiple tastings while still maintaining some semblance of a reasonable eating plan. Remember, you're also going to be shopping for a wedding dress this month! When you find a caterer you like, go ahead and hire them this month if possible, or early next month. Just like all the other good wedding services, they tend to get snapped up pretty far in advance. Once again, at this point it's not so much about specifics. You don't have to know your menu (unless you have some particularly exotic cuisine or fusion theme that you're dead set on, then it helps to at least know the flavor profiles you want the chef to be familiar with), but you want to know that the caterer is familiar with the ingredients that you hope to see in in your wedding feast. If you're vegan or have other special dietary requirements, you'll want to make that clear to the caterer and make sure they can work within those strictures early on, as well.

If you're expecting out of town guests, research hotels close to your venue and reserve a block of rooms at a couple of options in different price ranges. Contact the hotels you're interested in, explain to them the reason you're interested in reserving a block of rooms, and inquire as to whether there's a discount for reserving multiple rooms far in advance. Don't be afraid to play the "gosh we're just so excited about getting married and we really want our guests coming from Piddletydink, Iowa to have a wonderful time, on an okay-time budget" card. Ask to speak to a manager, particularly if you're looking to book a large number of rooms. If your wedding is a smaller event or you don't have as many out of town guests coming, look to see if there's a smaller hotel or bed and breakfast option where more personal service might be available. Speaking directly to an owner/innkeeper and telling the sweet story of your engagement might net you a discount with a sole proprietor where the manager of the Hampton Inn would have neither the authority nor the desire to help you out. Smaller B&B locations can also be a great place to host a Bridesmaids' Luncheon or other event, and doubling up the events can net you a discount, as well.

When you launch your wedding website this month, you'll put the information for all the accommodation options there for your guests to choose from. If reserving a block of rooms in advance is not in the cards for you, at least contact local hotels in advance and find out what options are available so that you can have the info available for your out of town guests instead of making them do their own homework. If there are other local events going on in your area that conflict with your wedding date and make rooms hard to come by, make sure to let out of town guests know to reserve rooms early so they won't be left with no place to stay!

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Living With a Perfectionist

It can be very challenging living with a perfectionist, and of course much will depend upon the degree of their perfectionism and your own personality. But there is no doubt that being on the receiving end of their obsessions and their demanding behaviour can be very painful and contribute to a wide spectrum of interpersonal problems. In the end you may decide to end the relationship, but there are some strategies that might help bring about positive change. Most of the following suggestions are aimed at partners of perfectionists, however they will also be helpful if you have a perfectionist in your household or in your immediate family:

Don't become a slave to their perfectionism just because they want things done their way. For example if they are obsessive about tidiness and order it wouldn't be right for you to spend all your time trying to appease them to try and keep the peace. Instead offer to help, but don't allow things to get to the stage where you're doing all the work just to satisfy their demand for things to be done a certain way.

Don't take it personally. If you feel relentlessly criticised by your perfectionist, remember that their senses are so finely tuned that they would find fault with the most saintly of people. If they seem to always ignore or discount your ideas or opinions, remember they do truly fear being influenced or controlled by others. That means that they would behave in this way with anyone they were close to. I'm not suggesting you make endless excuses for bad behaviour, however remembering that it isn't about you can make their actions and comments a great deal less hurtful.

Avoid digging your heels in or acting defensively as this will only cause you to take up opposing positions and exacerbate the situation. Decide what you can tolerate (and perhaps choose to ignore) and what you can't put up with. Then focus on improving communication and understanding with regard to the latter specifically.

Your opinions are valid! Don't be tempted to agree with everything the other person says or deny your own personal values, opinions, likes and dislikes. Obsessives tend to spend their lives analysing what is the most logical or efficient course of action, but that still doesn't mean you should be bullied or shamed into going along with it. You're entitled to have your own ideas as to what's important, what's trivial, right or wrong. Think about it before you agree to do something you don't agree with - take time to think it over. You may of course decide to agree to it because you care for them, but don't feel obliged to ignore your own wishes and opinions just to keep the peace.

One thing you can do which can help considerably is to show you are trustworthy, reliable and consistent. Because perfectionists yearn for certainty and predictability, they tend to place a lot of importance on honesty and straight-talking. If you tend to be a 'people pleaser' and find it difficult to say what you want and need, this can be interpreted as indecisiveness or a weakness by a perfectionist. It would be well worth learning to be more assertive.

It's important to recognize when perfectionism becomes abusive. Although of course it would be ridiculous to suggest that all perfectionists become abusive, perfectionism can set the stage for abuse. If you feel compelled to bow to your partner's demands out of fear of retribution - physical or otherwise - then this isn't a healthy situation. A person who is a perfectionist does not have the right to impose his or her will on someone in an unhealthy way.

Focus on building your own self-esteem and independence. If you can nurture your own self-worth then you won't depend on positive feedback from anyone else. You are setting yourself up for a life of emotional turbulence if you rely on the approval or praise of a perfectionist, after all they are much better at expressing what's wrong, not what's right! They feel the need to keep their emotions in check in order to avoid feeling vulnerable, which is why they find it difficult to show positive feelings or appreciation.

Being needy or too dependent on a perfectionist is not a good idea - it will make them anxious and may lead to them withdrawing from you. They are more likely to remain close to you (and respect you) if you are involved in your own interests and not putting all your energy into your relationship with them. If you sense you are becoming too dependent then take steps to rediscover who you are, and strive to become a whole person, independent of any relationship. It may feel strange to start with, but fight any feelings of anxiety or isolation, and you have so much to gain. Never give the perfectionist the idea that your happiness depends entirely on reassurance from them - and make sure it doesn't!

Don't pressurise them. Any direct confrontation or effort to force the person to change will almost certainly end in failure. Instead it's more likely to encourage them to reassert their dominance and result in a power struggle. Of course, that doesn't mean you should silently tolerate the situation. Tell them clearly how you feel and your reasons for asking them to make changes. Rather than making judgemental or demanding statements such as "you must change", try "I would prefer you to do this because (give reason)".

Blaming and criticising will not help, and try to avoid exaggeration, 'always/never' or 'all or nothing' statements. Forget who's wrong or right, instead focus on being reasonable and looking for solutions. Remember that we can only control our own behaviour, but that when one person changes, it changes the dynamics of the relationship and encourages the other person to change too.

Appreciate and re-enforce positive changes. Show appreciation where appropriate (don't overdo it) and try to adopt a more light-hearted cheerful attitude. And even if you feel inclined to, don't deliberately withhold affection as a means of on-going punishment. Better to be up front about what's upset you and deal with it in an adult way.

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How To Stop Thinking About Your Ex - A Must Read

It's impossible to get over your ex and move on with your life if you can't stop thinking about her. The more you think about her, the more you miss her and the worse you will feel. Whether you want to get her back or simply move on with your life you need to be able to control your thoughts in a constructive way. That's exactly what I want to teach you in this article!

Before I start I just want to let you know that whatever your current situation, whether you just want to move on or get her back, this article can help you. For moving on it's obvious why this article is useful but for those looking to try and get her back let me explain. After the break up I highly recommend that you go through a 30 day no contact phase and if you are constantly thinking about her it may cause you to have a moment of weakness and call her which would destroy your chances of getting her back. This article can help you avoid being those moments of weakness.

I remember when I broke up with my ex I couldn't sleep properly for the first two weeks. It was horrible! When I was awake I felt like a zombie because my mind was constantly analysing where things had gone wrong and asking questions like "How could she do this to me?". I had felt very betrayed as she cheated on me. I spent a lot of time and energy focusing on how/why she did that. This is what I like to kill victim thinking.

Victim thinking is so detrimental to leading a good life. You may have friends who are victim thinkers who often say things like "Why does this always happen to me?" or "Why don't good things happen to me?". Perhaps you may even have these thoughts yourself.

The thing is... our brains are really really powerful and whatever questions we ask ourselves our brain will answer them. So when people ask themselves "Why does this always happen to me?" their brain then gives them answer to that question "It's because you are poor/short/fat/bald/stupid etc. etc.". This is obviously not healthy to carry these mental beliefs.

Our questions control our focus and our focus controls what we do!

To stop thinking about your ex girlfriend you need to change the questions running through your mind. One of the greatest and most powerful questions when something bad happens is - "What's great about this?" you may be thinking "Nothing! This is shit!"... OK well then ask yourself "What could be great about this?". You may start thinking well I now have time to hang out with friends or go travelling or whatever takes your fancy.

So the key is to ask better questions. Focus on what can be great in your life now that you are single again. It's also important that you try to remove triggers or reminders of her. For example if you have pictures of her lying about or texts on your phone get rid of it.

Focus on improving your life and keeping yourself busy and the new possibilities available to you. Every cloud has a silver lining and it's up to you to find it.

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Text Your Ex Boyfriend Back - The Team Plan Vs The Solo Plan

If you just went through a breakup, then you might be wondering if you can text your ex boyfriend back and get him back in your arms soon. While thinking about doing this, you might wonder whether it would be best to get your girl friends together and work as a team to text your ex boyfriend back or to try and do things on your own. Which way would really be best? Read on.

The Team Plan

If you want to text your ex boyfriend back, you might want to get your girl friends together and talk about your breakup. You might ask them for advice that can help you get your ex back in the future, as well. Naturally, being such good friends, they will probably offer up a slew of advice for you, some of which will just be downright crazy, while others may sound sensible.

See, although running to your girl friends for help might seem like a good idea in your head, it really isn't if you think about it - most of all if your girl friends are also friends with your ex. For starters, they might feel like they are caught in the middle because they want to help you out, but don't want to get on your ex's bad side at the same time.

Aside from that, if some of them are better friends with your ex, there are chances that he will know exactly what you are doing and thus avoid you altogether, too. He might end up resenting and losing respect for you, as well.

The Solo Plan

So, if you really want to text your ex boyfriend back as quickly as possible, it would be best to just work on your own. If you want to succeed, all you really have to do is learn how to text full advantage of texts. Here are some tips to help you out.:

• Only send your ex positive text messages, so that he doesn't get annoyed whenever he receives a text from you.

• Always be happy and cheerful in your texts, so that you can pass positive vibes back onto him.

• Keep your text messages light, so he doesn't feel pressured to reply to you.

• Do not mention the past or your old relationship in any way to keep the positive vibes going.

• Do not text him too much; otherwise, you will look clingy and desperate.

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Words to Attract Beautiful Women

Attracting women is easy and through proper research, observation and practice you will have women calling you all the time. It can be done by use of both verbal and non verbal methods. By combining both of these factors you will have a higher chance of getting the girl of your dreams.

The use of words is very effective in picking up women. There are no specific set of words that can magically attract women to you. It is all about the delivery of the words. This means how you say the words, and what you say.

Non verbal in this case refers to your body language. This is very important and will play a big role in attracting her. Your body language will tell a lot about you and can be used to make a good first impression.

You should approach her with confidence. Women love guys who are confident. This can be shown by both your body language and your words. Your approach is the first step towards getting her. Once you have established that you are a confident guy, she will consider what you have to say as important.

You should watch what you say so that she does not get the wrong idea. Putting your statements in an intelligent way also works. You can communicate something without actually saying it directly. This will help especially when you want to tell her something and not seem like you are bragging.

Good conversational skills make it easier for you to be able to relate and make a connection with her. You should talk a little bit about yourself before shifting the conversation to be about her. It is advisable not to ask her the common and boring questions. Instead lead her to what you want to talk about. Listening is also important. Listen to what she has to say. Women love men who listen.

You should compliment her. The compliment should sound genuine and should be unique. It should be on something above her neckline. Teasing her and the use of humor also works. When teasing her you should, however, be careful so that it does not come off as if you are being rude. Hot women are not used to being teased hence it will make you different from other guys. Women also love guys who can make them laugh. If you manage to achieve this through the use of words then you are half way there.

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Being Single in a Relationship

In a relationship one of the first mistakes people make, is in depending on the other to an unrealistic extreme. People repeatedly wonder where they went wrong once they realize that they fear the loss of their partner only because of the fear of being alone, and/or when they lost their ability to be independent of another. Unless you were born a twin, or were forced to be very dependent on someone throughout your life, being alone is one of the most natural ways of being. A relationship should not be about surviving on your partners air that they breathe. It should however be about allowing that person to breathe along with you in your space, vice-verse.

We can be single in a relationship, single in the sense of continuing to be you. I am not talking about being selfish when I speak of being single, I am talking about being your own person first. Being single in a relationship, is also the sense of knowing full well that even if there are days, months, even a lifetime that you will not be able to spend with that certain someone, that you will survive and be happy within yourself. This is not to say that, people do not miss a partner that they have lost, or the happiness that they have shared. Being single in a relationship means being dependent on you because at the end of the day... it is only you in reality.

People tend to depend on their partners to make them happy, and/or to make their day a good day. This is another mistake made repeatedly in relationships. It is utterly impossible for one person to make another happy unless that person wants to be happy first. A single-minded person chooses to be happy before they expect another to make them happy. A single-minded person can sleep in a separate bedroom and not feel in any way, that it will make or break their relationship. When we are new to a relationship, we genuinely lose ourselves in our partners. This is a time when we must be very aware of how easily we can lose our independence. Our independence gives us a certain strength which is vital to our ability to continue to grow in a healthy and balanced direction, which in turn creates a healthy and happy partner. I have met many people that seem to think they need to constantly be around others, which for many of those, that same need has played havoc on their relationships. In not realizing that it is because they do not think independently or choose to not think independently, they have allowed that fear of being alone to control them. Our thoughts do very much control our destiny.

A relationship can only be successful when the partners involved are there out of true commitment and choice and not out of a dependency on the other.

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Guys Decoded: How To Tell He's Into You

Back in the caveman days, it was simple to know if a guy liked you; if he grabbed you and took you back to his cave, things were pretty clear! But ever since we've become more civilized, it's become more difficult for women to tell whether or not a man was interested.

It seems like attraction should be one of the easiest things in the world, but sometimes it's just not easy to tell if you're reading the signs correctly. In that case, here are 5 tips we've gathered; signals that should let you know if he's got a thing for you.

1. He Brings You Unexpected Gifts

This is one of the top giveaways that a guy has feelings for you. If he suddenly brings you an unexpected gift, you know that you've been on his mind and he'd probably like to be more than friends.

Giving someone a gift is a very personal act; it's not something normally done for just anyone. Gifts are something we give to the people who are important to us. If a guy gives you a present of some sort - especially an expensive one - you can take that as a sign that he's thinking of you in a special way.

2. He Teases You But Not Other Girls

When a guy teases a girl, odds are that he likes her. For many guys, teasing is a form of flirting. If she responds favorably, great; if not, well then he can say he was "just teasing."

It's an especially strong sign if he teases you a lot, but rarely teases other girls. If that is the case, then it's a pretty sure sign of his interest in you.

3. He Smiles A Lot When You're Together

If you've ever had a big crush on someone, you know how it brings a giant smile to your face every time they come around.

If a guy like you, then he'll probably get that same big smile whenever you come near; it's a sure sign that the sight of you makes him happy.

There's a difference between the normal polite smiles that people share when they pass in the halls and the smile of genuine happiness that you'll see on the face of someone truly pleased to see you.

4. He Will Do Things To Impress You

If a guy is interested in you, he's going to do whatever he can to make sure that the interest is mutual. This means he'll do things to try and impress you; to try and prove that he's the man you should want to be with.

He may boast about his great job with a good company so that you'll know he can afford to provide a good life for you; it's the same reason some men like to show off an expensive car or home.

Other guys will try to show off their prowess in sports, as a show of strength is another (subconscious) way of showing you that he is able to take care of you. However he does it, it's a sign that he is trying to convince you that he's your man!

5. He Emails Or Calls You Frequently

Does he text you often or leave lots of messages on your Facebook page? That's a great way to know that he's really interested in you.

People will often text you or leave you a message when there's actually something to say or share - but if a guy's interested in you, he'll text, email, or call frequently, just to find out what you're doing or to say "Hi." It's a sure sign that he's interested in you!

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3 Steps on How To Fix A Broken Relationship

Broken relationships can be a huge burden on someone's emotional wellbeing. If you are a man or woman suffering from such a relationship you know very well the heartache and pain involved with such a situation. There are many reasons a relationship ends up being broken, and these situations don't discriminate. These types of issues can happen to men and woman that are just getting serious with the relationship all the way up to couples who have been married for years. A lot of people in broken relationships don't want the relationship to end, but thinks the situation is impossible to fix. I want to let you know that even though your feelings are normal, your situation is not impossible to fix. I want to show you how to fix your relationship.

There are many reasons a relationship can become broken. Problems in relationships can stem from simple arguments, financial problems, insecurities, and many more. There are 3 important steps to take in order to fix a broken relationship.

Step 1: Identify

Step 2: Communication

Step 3 Forgiveness

The first step to fixing a relationship is to identify why your having problems in the first place. Do the problems you are having because of something you did or didn't do? Do the issues deal with finances or maybe insecurities you or the people you're in the relationship have? Whatever the issue is you first need to identify what is causing the problem.

The second step to fixing your broken relationship is communication. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. People are raised differently growing up, and have different life experiences, so of course there are going to be arguments between two people in a relationship. Now to avoid a broken relationship or to fix one for that matter, you need to know how to communicate effectively. In order to communicate effectively you need to listen to the other person and stay calm and patient. You can't communicate effectively if you are going off on the other person yelling, calling names, and saying hurtful things. You will only cause more damage to the relationship. If you aren't able to stay calm right now take a break and come back when you can communicate more effectively.

The last step on how to fix a broken relationship is forgiveness. If you've really messed things up no matter what it is you need to own up to it. Everyone makes mistakes, so if you made one don't try to point the blame elsewhere. Just own your mistake, give a sincere apology and ask for forgiveness for that mistake. If you created a huge mistake and the other person in the relationship can't forgive you after you asked right away, just give them a little time. At least you gave them a sincere apology and asked for forgiveness. You did your part now the ball is in their court. But you will feel much better when you take that step to forgiveness, and it will help you fix your broken relationship.

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Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back by Avoiding the Following Texting Mistakes

Breakups have got to be some of the hardest things people have to go experience in life. If you just recently got dumped by your ex boyfriend, you might be in this state wherein you're trying to think of ways to fix things and get your ex boyfriend back. If you really want to learn how to get your ex boyfriend back, you have to master the right skills. Believe it or not, you can make him fall in love with you all over again and you can do it through text.

If you are just like any other typical woman, you might have been texting him incessantly in the hope that this would make him want to get back with you. This is a wrong state of mind, though. Texting him 24/7 won't get you what you want. Your incessant texting just might make him run away from you.

Constantly texting him will make you look clingy and immature, too. Men don't like women like that and if you come off as such, he'll like you less and less. But, still, you can use text messages to your advantage and get your ex boyfriend back - just not in the way you think you should.

So, how do you use text messages to your advantage? Simple: don't use them at all. This may sound odd to you, but it's the right thing to do. Live normally and go text other people. You can text everyone and anyone, just not your ex boyfriend. You have to show him that you are capable of living without him in your life. The nonchalance you'll exude will draw out his curiosity. He'll end up wondering what you have been up to and what's keeping you busy now that he's gone.

Remember: men want what they can't have. Use this knowledge and use it to draw him closer towards you. Let him wonder about you. Let him miss you. Let him run after you. But don't give in just yet. Wait it out a bit and let things cool down first, since you just recently broke up.

This doesn't mean that you aren't supposed to text to get your ex boyfriend back again, though. Just wait for a few weeks or maybe even a month. After that, you can start texting him using certain text message strategies to get him where you want him to be. But before taking this route, you have to make sure you've got him interested in you again.

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How Do I Know He Is What I Need?

Relationships are prized quite high in the spiritual realm. I say this because relationships either bring out our best or worst personalities. It is therefore always important to be mindful of who we associate with, and what they bring into our lives. Always.

There is a difference between patience and wasting time. We know what situation we are in, regardless of whether we are willing to admit this to ourselves or not. The question is what to do with our realizations.

There is a lot of joy found in giving, and giving without expecting reward or action in kind. There is however a lot of grief in giving to someone who not only takes, but makes it quite clear that he is not interested in reciprocating pure gifts. We have to be careful about what we give, and to whom.

Terrible experiences are not meant to define our self-worth, they are there to teach us. If we are still able to hold our heads high, check our dream of companionship and find it still intact, then nothing was lost. In time, we see how great it actually was that some relationships did not work out. Sometimes, we see how we dropped the ball, and can decide what to do with the lesson the next time.

If we are meant to get married, please believe me when I say that no amount of bad experience or words will take that away from us. If God has intended a union, it will be done. The question is how willing we are to work on ourselves in the interim. This is very important.

The man who steps in beside you while you are busy doing you, is the one who is meant for you. To get the best, ensure that you are doing your best with what you need to do for you. In this sense, you are not waiting for someone to complete you, rather, you will find a companion to walk beside you, as you continue on your journey called life.

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How to Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend the Right Way

After 30 years of providing Psychic Readings, I would say 60% of the readings are based around exes, mainly ex-boyfriends. And these readings usually contain a million and one questions. Clients asking if their ex still misses them, will they get back together, has my ex met someone else and so on. I often wonder why people chose to go backwards rather than forwards in their life and I believe the reason is because, an ex-partner is a security blanket. It's a cliche of 'better the devil you know' but in some cases, your ex is not the better devil, he may just simply be the devil!

You don't actually need a Psychic Readings to bring him back; because it won't and in some cases neither will a spell. But what a reading will give you is advice and guidance on HOW to get back the one that got away and some insight into how your ex-partner is feeling about you. Over the 30 years of reading I have seen many scenario's where people are going the wrong way about getting their ex back. I have seen people who call and communicate with their ex all the time, will continue to have passionate times together, will suddenly turn into the bunny boiler that they never thought they could be. Sometimes it can take someone from the outside to bring you knowledge, on how to get your back and do it the right way with pride and dignity.

Failing on a mission to get your ex back is a frustrating situation. It's the one thing you cannot control, if you want your old career back you can go get it, if you want a new car then you can get that too. But you cannot simply say to him were getting back together and they automatically say yes, because 80% of the time it doesn't work that easy.

Ever heard people say women are very different to men? It's a boring thing to hear but very true.The way that someone could win us back, is not the same way to win a man back. Men are like children and simply ALWAYS want what they cannot have. It's human nature and more so a tendency in men. If you are there calling, texting, showing your interest then you are little miss available, why would he need to chase something he already has?

We always recommend when having a reading regarding you and your ex, to not ask for timings on when they are coming back. Timings are often not guaranteed and cause people to literally sit and wait and this does not help.

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How To Prepare Yourself To Take Part In Dating Competently

As artists learn some skills to excel in their profession, in the same way, a pick artist also has to learn some skills to take part in dating completely. Preparing oneself with these skills, everyone would be able to attract women in dating. You can be attracted to a woman; however, it doesn't guarantee that she will be attracted to you. To grab her attention towards you and to fix date with her, you have to take some initiatives. However, any step taken from your end should be matured one. Otherwise, it may not be effective to fulfill your desire.

Whether you are a natural pick up artist or not, doesn't matter. By following some important tips, you would be able to take part importantly in dating. Everything will happen as per your desire. Your partner would respond to you pleasantly. She will be admired at your postures and would like to stick to you. This is your ultimate desire also. As you know, a role played by a legendary actor seems natural, in the same way; you can also be a good pick up artist by playing your role as a dating-partner naturally. However, to reach to your destination you have to work hard. Some of the important tips are mentioned below, those are effective in date.

Dressing: Dressing plays an important role in dating. When you meet your dating-partner, you must wear a good dress. Your dress describes many things about yourself. Therefore, being careful in choosing dresses at the time of meeting your partner, you can take a great advantage. At the very first meeting with your partner you will impress her greatly. It would be a pleasant experience to you. You will start to play a leading role since the very first meet. Topics will be discussed as per your choice and a lot more advantages you would get in this way.

Listening skill: Try to enhance your listening skill, It is not effective in dating but in normal conversation as well. People like to talk with the people, who listen to others. By improving your listening skill, you would perform well in dating. On the other hand, when you will listen to her, she will feel closeness. She will find you as a reliable and empathetic personality. Therefore, always try to work on improving your listening skill so that you can grab every opportunity of dating well.

Self confidence: At the time of making conversation self confidence also plays important role. Try to keep on your self-confidence while talking with others. When you chat with your date partner, try to pose as if you are a confident person. Your partner will try to keep faith on you. Otherwise, if you suffer from lack of confidence, your partner will try to avoid you. Therefore, you have to choose the appropriate. Choice is yours. You will set your destination and you would select the way also to achieve your aim.

There are some other advantageous tips also that can prepare you to become a better PUA or pick up artist. By practicing these skills perfectly in dating, you will be able to fulfill your dream in the best way.

Top Ten Signs He Might Be Mr Wrong

I hear it all the time, "How did I miss the signs?" At the end of a relationship hindsight is 20/20. It's not because you were stupid. It's because falling in love causes temporary insanity, literally. So how's a girl to know?

Top ten signs he might be Mr. Wrong.

1. Your friends and family don't like him. Like it or not, they are usually a pretty good judge of what will work for you. If you are consistently getting the thumbs down, think twice.


2. Your friends and family notice you are different when you're around him. You may not notice it, but if you aren't comfortable to be yourself when you're around him, that's saying something about long term potential.


3. He wasn't honest on his profile. If he fudged his online dating profile that most likely means he isn't comfortable with who is he or where he's at. You want a man who knows himself and isn't afraid to be who he is.


4. He tells you upfront he isn't ready to commit. Men will do this a lot and women will tend to ignore it. Proceed at your own peril.


5. He has another life that you only get to hear about. He has friends you don't meet and goes places with people you don't know, often. That doesn't mean he's hiding things from you, but it does mean he's keeping you on the outside of his real life.


6. He doesn't have other close relationships in his life. He isn't close to his family. He doesn't have close friends. This is quite possibly a guy who doesn't value intimate relationships.


7. He talks sh*t about his ex. Sure, someday you're going to hear his story, but a gentleman is just that, gentlemanly. Talking bad about the ex isn't.


8. He doesn't take no for an answer about anything. He wants it his way. He pushes you to get it. He won't stop and you won't like where that takes you.


9. He's quick to get angry. He might be just as quick to get over it. However, buyer beware with a guy has flashes of anger. Grown men you want to play with have learned to control their tempers.


10. You feel it in your gut and you don't know why.

There is no higher source of wisdom than your intuition. If your gut says it's time to go, go. Period. No excuses needed.

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Mending A Broken Heart

Most people find it hard to return to normal life after experiencing a broken engagement or an unhappy romance. The hurt that has established in them is so humiliating that in order to stay away from it they often throw themselves wildly into work and other things that will keep them very busy. Others become chain-smokers, and drink heavily, and even go into drugs. Because they feel inadequate, these people tend to stay away from parties or any other social gatherings which involve meeting other people, especially of the opposite sex. This negative attitude tends to retard the return of a state of mind which makes happiness or contentment possible.

Usually, when a woman has loved a man so much, she will have avoided other male friendships and often seen less of her female friends. Same is also true with men. This kind of faithfulness is one of the whole-hearted attributes of a person in love, but when it comes to picking himself or herself up out of a broken relationship, it does make life more difficult. There are also persons who, after a break-up, become successful in their studies, career, or even in business. But, the truth remains that the hurt is still inside that needs to be cured in order to free themselves from the sad past, or else they will be a captive of it for as long as it exist.

The important thing to remember at this point is that if a person were attractive, charming, and interesting enough in the first place to attract love, then it is very likely that he or she will be so again. If a person sees himself or herself looking a mess, and feeling thoroughly lacking in heart, this is probably because emotional turmoil has taken its toll. But, definitely, good looks, good health, and happiness will eventually return. When a person sees that no one else is showing him or her tender loving care, then it is the time to lavish it on himself or herself. This signifies the start of the process of rejoining life with confidence, with something to offer in the shape of a charming and happy appearance.

After the process of restoring self-confidence, which every person needs to a greater or lesser extent when he or she has been hit by any kind of ego-destroying experience, the appropriate time has come for him or her to plan his or her social life. This is a preparation to an eventual return to normal life. But, to meet a new love straight away cannot be expected at once. It is better for a person to just concentrate on making himself or herself as pleasant as possible to the world at large. The primary aim here is to make friends. The more friends he or she has, the more likely he or she is to meet the good and kind person of his or her dreams, somewhere, sometime. He or she should not worry too much about where and when. A person needs time to recover from an emotional setback just as he or she would need time to convalesce after an illness.

Being a little bit more tolerant than usual about accepting even potentially boring invitations is an opportunity to join groups of people. It is also a big opportunity to be able to share mutual interests with other people. This is one of the best ways to make friends. If a person is still shy and bruised by a painful experience, he or she will find that his or her mental equilibrium and confidence will be regained faster among new acquaintances.

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Online Dating Sites - The Whole Dating Process Made Easier

In this technology oriented 21st century, the world has shifted online. The internet has been regarded by some as the 8th wonder of the world and it is without doubt the most powerful media in this age. All companies and businesses are seeking to set a strong base online. The dating industry has not been left behind. online dating sites have increased in popularity with singles now looking for a chance to spot a better half online. Although some dating sites are fakes with people posting fake pictures and exaggerated profiles, there are some genuine dating sites out there that have helped many singles get hooked.

Ancient couples had go through hardships to meet while dating due to the undeveloped means of transport and modes of communication. Men would sail for long periods or ride on donkeys for long distances in order to meet their loved ones. Now thanks to technology, you can hit a button, login to a dating site and chat with your lover as if you were in the same room. Online dating is real fun! By simply joining one of the best online dating sites, you are connected to many singles like you looking for a date. With a neat profile and a good vibe, it's easy to get a hook up.

Signing up is easy as you are only required to fill in some basic information about yourself along with a nice profile picture. You then fill out the qualities that you are looking for in a mate in order to narrow the search. You will be constantly updated on the positive matches that meet your criteria and then you can hit them up for a chat and who knows... you might have landed yourself a Mrs. Right or a Mr. Future. Sometimes meeting physically and on regularly can be very hard especially for young professionals who are absorbed with career establishment and day jobs. Online dating is the perfect solution.

Spending a few minutes online per day is like a daily meal. You can check on your friends and colleagues across different social networks like Twitter and LinkedIn. You can also get updated on what's new and buzzing. You can also develop your love life online by being a member of a top online dating site. By simply having a neat presentable profile, you are guaranteed to encounter some interested partners who share similar likes and interests. You can spend a few minutes daily chatting online and getting to explore each other. As time goes by, you might find yourself a spouse.

You can sign up a good online dating site. Among the most renowned ones are Plenty of Fish, International Cupid, Redromance.org and Afro Introductions. You don't know when the urge will strike and so by joining established dating sites, you might just wake up one morning and find that email from an interested partner. After a few chats you get to mingle with each other and without even realizing it; your dating journey may be on course. You get to know things about each other such as the profession that each one of you pursues, hobbies and interests, expectations in life, the number of kids you'd wish to have... and so on.

All that is required is that you show seriousness and respect. These are crucial to laying a strong foundation and building any relationship. You should never ignore an online friendship. It might lead to online dating and eventually marriage.

Breaking News - Your Feelings Don't Matter

As deliberate creators we think we need to feel it to get it. We place a lot of emphasis on feeling it first or getting lined up with our feelings, because we think feelings are the magic juice in creation. Science however, is beginning to paint a very different picture about the creation process.

We are all aware of the phenomenon called the observer effect. It basically shows that just by our observation we have an effect on the outcome. Generally speaking just the words observer effect are an oxymoron, because it's impossible to observe without participating. Scientists will spend decades unraveling the meaning of the recent discovery of the Higgs Boson. However, what we know for sure is that what was theoretical physics a few months ago, is now hard science and in very simplistic terms we are focus machines. Feelings might be a byproduct of focus. They may be an indicator, however, they may not, and it doesn't really matter. After all these years science is proving what deliberate creators have known all along. We create our reality. The curveball is, feelings are irrelevant.

Today I cleaned my whole dining room for one vase of flowers. Those flowers reminded me of flowers in English manors I've visited that came out of the gardens on the grounds. That oozes wealth to me. That focus gets me one step closer to wealth. Even if I'm not "feeling it" I can still navigate with my focus by looking for other things that represent wealth to me. Will that cause me to feel wealthy? Probably. However, even if I don't, it doesn't matter. Focus is the key.

For a lot of deliberate creators feelings can be sticky. We know how we want to feel, but we can't always seem to wrangle those pesky emotions into behaving the way we want them too. Sometimes you feel bad and can't shake it. Sometimes when we feel bad we worry about what we are creating.

A lot of emphasis on feelings is great when they are lining up, but when they don't it's frustrating. We get hyper-focused on trying to manage the feeling, and when it doesn't work we feel like we won't get where we want to go. However, the science says it doesn't matter.

I in fact can be feeling a lot of worry about money, but if I'm focusing my attention on wealth, fresh flowers, fast cars, English manors, and such, my observation of wealth is what has an impact on matter around me. I can focus on how much money I have instead of how much I don't have. I can focus on incredible love and the romance of a lifetime instead of loneliness. I can focus on health and a vibrant body instead of focusing on aches and pains or extra pounds. We know this stuff, and it might sound like I'm splitting hairs here, because chances are high if I'm really focused on these things I'll feel better. But I don't have to feel better for it to start navigating intentionally towards my next reality - and that's all it is, my next reality, not a new reality or a whole different creation. We are always creating a new experience of reality. Noticing what we are noticing is how we deliberately get there.

The focus work is fun. It's like a treasure hunt. How can I notice what I want more of next? The science community is using the word, "interact" a lot today. The concept of interaction can be quite literal. How can I interact with health, wealth, great romance? Interaction is magic.

Putting feelings before focus is like having a car without an engine. You aren't going to go anywhere. We do not live in an emotional universe. We live in an energetic field. When you change your focus you can change anything. Feelings are an optional by product.

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Do You Miss Your Ex? Here Are Some Ways To Get Your Ex Back

Were you recently dumped by the greatest man/woman of your life? Or maybe you let go of a great boyfriend/girlfriend and don't realize how good you had it until the other person was gone? In either case, if you're reading this, you most likely miss your ex and wonder about ways to get the ex back.

Although relationships can be difficult to maintain, this often does not compare to the hardship endured after the relationship seems over. Some people will go through months or even years of a bad relationship before ending it. Other people may have a way of ending a relationship before it has even had time to solidify. Either way, here are four ways to get your ex back:

1. Take a time-out from each other.

Avoiding all communication might seem counter-intuitive or the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish. But ask yourself: have you been begging, pleading, or harassing your ex? Did any of this work? I'll bet you a steak dinner that none of this has been working. Taking a break will allow you time to get out of your rut and give the other person a chance to miss you. If you keep hounding him or her, he/she will only be more convinced that breaking up was the right decision.

2. Make time to better yourself.

You need to feel good about yourself and have healthy self-esteem in order to be in a state of mind that will win your ex back. Although you might not feel very good about yourself now, there are things you can do to improve your mood and overall state of mind. You might not feel like making time or effort to do any of this at first, but just keep your eye on the prize (think about how great it would be to have your ex back in your arms once again). Most likely you haven't been eating right or getting enough exercise or sleep. You can boost and maintain your overall health, well-being, and state of mind by eating the right foods (fresh fruits, vegetables, going easy on junk food, etc.), exercising at least 30 minutes a day three times a week, and getting adequate sleep.

3. Get yourself out there.

This is also another way to better yourself; since this is so important it gets a section of its own. Rather than stay home and remain depressed or unmotivated, you need to go out (even if you have to force yourself to get out). This might mean joining a club, taking up a new hobby, and/or meeting with friends whenever you can. Just don't dive into any new meaningless relationships. If your ex were to find out, then he or she would just be more convinced that the breakup was the right decision.

4. Once you are ready, take action.

After you feel more comfortable with yourself in your "separation stage" and feel a sense of healthy self-esteem and well-being, then you can consider contacting your ex. By taking the time to improve your self-image (and image to others), you will be establishing an excellent foundation for getting your ex back and having an even better relationship than before. Best wishes to you.

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Finding and Attracting Your Dream Man - What Women Should Know

Every woman wants to find their dream man and have the kind of relationship they've always wanted. As we all know, finding and attracting your dream man is a real challenge and it is not something that could happen in a snap. Are you one of those women who believe that your prince will just drop in front of you and sweep you off your feet and ask you to be his princess? If you are just waiting for love to find you, chances are; you will keep waiting and opportunities will pass you by. Although love is something you cannot impose or dictate on someone, you can do something to find and meet the man of your dreams. With the right planning and techniques, meeting and attracting the man of your dreams is not as hard as you think. The following tips can be very helpful in designing your plan of finding and attracting your dream man.

Avoid negativity. One hindrance in finding and attracting your dream man is the thinking that you will never find the man of your dreams. If you are on your 30s, you will hear people around you saying that your chances of meeting your life partner are getting smaller and smaller. Instead of getting depressed, stop listening to negative people and avoid getting affected by those negative vibes. Choose to be positive and avoid negativity.

To find your dream man, you have to seek. Many people will tell you that love will find you and you will find love when you are not looking for it. But in today's generation where a lot of single people are out there looking for their Mr. Right, can you just wait and not do anything about it? In life, if you want something, you have to work for it. For instance, if you want a job, you will contact a recruiter and prepare your resume. You cannot find a job if you will not seek and do something about it. Seek if you want to find the man of your dreams. Finding and attracting your dream man can be really difficult if you will just sit at home or spend time with people you normally go out with. In the olden days, life is so much simpler and dating is much less complicated. Men and women got married at very young age and there seemed to be someone for everyone. Today, things have changed. Dating or connecting with someone can be really challenging as people are too busy working and attending to the daily challenges of life. If you will not do something to meet new people, you will end up waiting all your life for a prince who may never come. Expand your network of friends and go out to meet new people. Seek and you will find.

Stop thinking that physical appearance is the main attraction women have. One hindrance that could prevent you from finding and attracting your dream man is the thinking that only beautiful women are entitled to meet their dream man. Most average looking women are discouraged that they will not find the man of their dreams because they have this mind-set that a Prince Charming prefers a woman as beautiful as a princess. Most women think that men are looking for pretty blonde with sexy body and big breasts but do you think a respectable man would like to be with someone whose only selling point is her physical appearance? Of course, men are looking for qualities far greater than physical unless he is just looking for someone good for just a one night stand. There are beautiful women who are not successful with men because they lack the important qualities men are looking for.

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How to Get a Girlfriend Online - 6 Online Dating Tips to Keep in Mind

Aside from the usual ways of getting a date, you can now get a girlfriend through online dating. It's true, online dating is now in. You no longer have to rely on your friends to find you a date or go to bar. Now, you can talk to a girl and get to know her through the Internet.

But if you want to get a girlfriend online, there are a few things you need to remember. The getting-to-know process would be trickier and you have to work extra hard for her to trust you enough to go out with you on an actual date.

So what are the tips to remember when it comes to online dating?

· What type of girl are you looking for?

You can't just barge in and try to contact every girl on the dating site. You first need to determine the kind of girl you're looking for before you do your search. What are the qualities you want in a girl? You also need to consider her location because it might be very inconvenient if you meet someone several states away.

· Does the dating site fit your needs?

Another thing you need to consider is if the dating site would fit your needs. There are several sites for online dating and each has different offers and services. There are sites that are more specific such as catering to certain type of people like religion, race, or even hobbies.

· Make sure your profile is suitable

It's essential to work on your profile. After all, you want to make a good impression because you're selling yourself to someone and making them believe that you are a good match to them. Even if it's online dating, you still need to practice honesty and don't lie about who you are. Don't make up cool stories or interests just so more girls will be interested in you.

· You need to use your most recent and best photo

Just because you want to look young doesn't mean that you should post your photo from when you were in college. They need to know what you look like today. Be sure that you post your most recent photo. This is also another way of being honest.

· Search for girls that share your interest

Don't just pick a random stranger. Choose those girls who also share your interest. It would make conversations a lot easier and it would also be easier for the two of you to click. If you choose a girl for her looks and it turns out you have completely different interests, then you won't enjoy talking to her. Just like in real dating, you want to be with someone who you are comfortable with.

· Consistency

When you give online dating a shot, it's important to be consistent especially if you met someone online. You need to show up to chat because she may think that you are unreliable if you disappear for several days or weeks. She may not want to get to know you better or continue having an online relationship with you if she feels like she can't count on you.

Proceed with caution when you're trying to get a girlfriend online. You don't want to scare her off if you're too aggressive or in a rush to meet in person. It's better to take things slow because it will be a while before she feels like she can trust you enough to really go out with you. For now, enjoy talking with her and just get to know her better.

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3 Things You Need to Do After You Approach a Woman

For some guys, the hardest thing about making the approach is that they don't know what to do after they have actually walked on over to her. And since they don't know what to do at that point, it can become easy for them to talk themselves out of making approaches, because they can rationalize that there is no point if they don't know what to do next. You should be able to see the problem with that, the fact that if you don't approach women at all, you really can't expect to have a thriving dating life.

Here are 3 things that you want to do after you have approached a woman:

1) Introduce yourself in a casual way.

Trying to be too formal when you introduce yourself to a woman can make things seem a little bit weird, as most of the places that you are probably going to meet women are going to be a little on the casual side of things. Bars and night clubs tend to be the most popular places that guys go to meet women and coming across as being too formal can send out a vibe that you are not really a fun guy to be around.

2) Try to use something around you to start a conversation with her.

One of the easier ways to get a conversation started with a woman is to use something in the environment around you as a catalyst. For example, in the night club you can make a comment about the music that is playing or how cool the strobe lights look or whatever else that you can think of. It can be an easy way to get her talking and it can be effective because it doesn't feel like you are dropping a pick up line on her.

3) You have to build some rapport with her.

The more rapport that you can build with a woman you have approached, the more likely it is going to end up being a successful one. Meaning, it's more likely that you are going to be able to get to know her better or get a date or a number. Try to get her talking about herself so that you can get to know her and build rapport by focusing on the things that interest her that you may have in common. The more time that you spend doing this, the better your success rate will usually be.

Top Tips for Meeting People Online

It's Fast and Fun to Meet People Online

Where would we be without the internet? Well, you wouldn't be reading this article for a start. In fact, this article wouldn't even exist - and we can't have that, can we?

The influence of the internet plays a major factor on almost everything we do; smartphones, email, gaming... the list is almost endless.

So why does meeting people online still have a certain stigma attached to it?

Social networking is hardly a new notion; MySpace, Bebo, Facebook, Google+... we're all familiar with how these concepts click. Connecting with old friends or colleagues and sparking new relationships is a fundamental notion of a social network - but imagine taking it one step further.

Putting away the keyboard and meeting your online companion face-to-face can be a daunting experience. For less experienced users of virtual romance it may be difficult to lift the barriers of traditional cautiousness when meeting a relative stranger.

However, putting your faith in a dating-focused social networking site with a good reputation is priority if you are to stay safe when making your switch from online to offline. Read on for a bunch of top tips for squeezing the most out of your experience - and make sure your comfort and wellbeing are never compromised.

Meeting New People Is Good For You!

For many of us, meeting new people brings new experiences and challenges that provoke thought and enrich our everyday lives. However, having the time to meet a fresh group of friends can be challenging if your time has been consumed by work or family commitments - but don't be deterred!

Expanding your circle of friends in the digital age can be exciting and easy - and many social networking sites offer other experiences such as dating. Building lasting relationships is important and here are the reasons why...

Establish New Friendships

We all enjoy the company of others - some are even reliant on it. Constructing a group of friends allows for a support network of physical and emotional help when the grind of life gets you down. And, get this; it has even been scientifically proven that making more friends extends your life. So what's stopping you... ?

Companionship = Knowledge

Interacting with a new group of friends or acquaintances can invoke a transfer of knowledge - and that can only be a good thing. Learning is a lifelong process so involving yourself with as many different folk as possible will increase your skills for a variety of different areas.

Love Is All You Need

Forming relationships with a new group can inspire appreciation - on both sides - of different cultural beliefs and values. Implementing the teachings of new cultures can allow both spiritual and educational enlightenment - and interacting with other societies is essential to becoming a well-rounded individual.

Network Online & Offline

Building a network of useful contacts can improve your relationship and career flight path - and we all want to take that next step on the ladder. Social networking online can be ideal for these purposes as you widen the net in search of your life goals. Attending conferences relevant to your industry is also essential if career progression is your aim..

Increase Your Self Confidence

Is there a difference between ACTING confident and BEING confident? I don't know - but what I do know is there is no greater feeling than going about your daily business with a self-assured glint in your eye. It may surprise you to learn there ARE people out there who are fascinated by you - and meeting new folk can boost your self-esteem further as their behaviours will influence your own. What have you got to lose... ?

Handy Hints for Successful Online Dating

Perception Is Reality

Just because you've chatted to Roger from London for the past three weeks, it does NOT mean he is who he says. Use the same judgement as you would if chatting to a stranger in a bar - if your gut tells you it's not right then it's usually best to trust it. Hanging around chatrooms with a bad reputation can lead to a list of undesirables desperate to meet your acquaintance - use a reputable site to reduce this risk.

Be Honest

We all have skeletons in the closet, some past misadventures we'd rather forget about. However, being ashamed of who you are leads to one of the worst mistakes you can make when meeting people online - the fabricated life story! Exaggerating your career achievements or body type will inevitably lead to trouble further down the line. Most people appreciate honesty and the internet is no different; avoid playing games and companionship can be found just around the corner...
Safety Is Paramount

Chatting online is worlds away from making that initial physical connection. Be careful not to give out personal information such as your home or work address and avoid requests for financial information, no matter how trustworthy they seem. Common sense is vital when making new connections so if you do decide to meet then it's best to do so somewhere public. Having plenty of folk around avoids anything going wrong - always keep it neutral!

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Public Places Are Best

It doesn't matter how long you've been chatting online - a stranger is a stranger. The virtual world allows people to create personas nothing like reality. Stay safe and meet in a public place with plenty of people around.

Plan For The Worst - Just In Case!

So you've met up with hunkyboy21 and it hasn't quite gone to plan. He's not hunky, he's not a boy and he's certainly NOT 21. It's always worth having an escape route in case you find yourself in a sticky situation - but claiming a relative has suddenly died, or your dog has been run over won't cut it. A phone call from a friend should usually signal the end of proceedings so keep them informed of progress.

Trust Your Gut

Hunkyboy21 may be the man of your dreams online, but if that personality translates into a creepy Norman Bates lookalike offline, then it's time to take off. Don't be ashamed to make a quick exit if you feel uncomfortable - it's probably best for both of you.

Bring A Friend

It's never a good idea to go along with a date if you have doubts - but if you feel the need to give them a chance then it's perhaps worth bringing a friend along for the ride. If things don't spark then it's good to have an acquaintance to share the pain.

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