Dealing With Rejection - What To Do If You Get Rejected By A Girl You Like

Rejection doesn't always blow your chances with a hot girl. When rejection comes in the form of a question like "What do you look like or Who are You?" a day after meeting a girl somewhere, chances are you still have a shot at more interaction and a possible date. This is because some of the girls you meet, especially if they're hot, will have tons of guys asking them out or at least flirting with them. It's your job to handle rejection gracefully. Here's how:

Don't sweat it and Learn To Counter Rejection

The last thing you want to do if you're getting the cold shoulder from a girl, is act like it bothers you. Negative attitudes will never lead a girl to your bedroom. Girls want to have fun as much as possible and taking a rejection personally will display a lack of confidence, which is definitely unattractive. If you get a text that asks:

Do I know you?
What do you look like?
How did you get my number?

Here, you are being rejected politely. The best way to respond to these types of questions is with a little humor or playfulness. A response like:

Of course you know me. I'm that guy you were staring at half the night.

or

I look like the envy of Ryan Gosling.

or

Your number was given to me in a dream. I didn't get the area code so I've been trying 999 times to get to you.

Some of these texts may seem a little cheesy at first but girls have been known to eat them up. They love texts that display your funny or even corny side. The reason for this is the fact that these kinds of texts display your personality. You're confident and you're not bothered by the fact that she doesn't remember your name, where she met you or what you look like. This attitude will open up the possibilities to meeting up in the future since now she will start to trust you.

Persistence and Patience Go A Long Way

Some girls are just bad at interacting, no matter how interesting you are. Sometimes it takes a few text messages over a period of a few days to get her to respond and start a mini-conversation that leads to a date. If the girl is worth the effort, there's no reason you should give up.

Hang in there. She'll come around.