3 Things You Need to Do After You Approach a Woman

For some guys, the hardest thing about making the approach is that they don't know what to do after they have actually walked on over to her. And since they don't know what to do at that point, it can become easy for them to talk themselves out of making approaches, because they can rationalize that there is no point if they don't know what to do next. You should be able to see the problem with that, the fact that if you don't approach women at all, you really can't expect to have a thriving dating life.

Here are 3 things that you want to do after you have approached a woman:

1) Introduce yourself in a casual way.

Trying to be too formal when you introduce yourself to a woman can make things seem a little bit weird, as most of the places that you are probably going to meet women are going to be a little on the casual side of things. Bars and night clubs tend to be the most popular places that guys go to meet women and coming across as being too formal can send out a vibe that you are not really a fun guy to be around.

2) Try to use something around you to start a conversation with her.

One of the easier ways to get a conversation started with a woman is to use something in the environment around you as a catalyst. For example, in the night club you can make a comment about the music that is playing or how cool the strobe lights look or whatever else that you can think of. It can be an easy way to get her talking and it can be effective because it doesn't feel like you are dropping a pick up line on her.

3) You have to build some rapport with her.

The more rapport that you can build with a woman you have approached, the more likely it is going to end up being a successful one. Meaning, it's more likely that you are going to be able to get to know her better or get a date or a number. Try to get her talking about herself so that you can get to know her and build rapport by focusing on the things that interest her that you may have in common. The more time that you spend doing this, the better your success rate will usually be.