Whether you like Night Game or not, clubs and bars are great locations to practice your game. You may not find your future wife there, but these kinds of places can definitely help you improve your game fast.
You improve because Night Game is generally more difficult than Day Game.
That being said, the most important aspect you have to develop is your confidence. Your inner game is very important when it comes to attracting women at night. However, there's one little problem: It takes time to build up confidence.
That is why I'm going to show you 3 tips that can help you "appear" confident at clubs even if your inner game is not solid enough.
1. Befriend the bartenders.
Bartenders can help you show social proof automatically. People in general perceive bartenders as individuals who are fun to be around. If anyone sees you shaking hands, exchanging smiles and hugs, or simply getting special treatment from bartenders, they will, consciously or not, assume you are as cool as they are.
This is how you should make friends with bartenders:
• Arrive a bit early at the club.
• Go straight to the bar, introduce yourself, and order a drink.
• Establish a conversation by asking questions like:
o "What are the best days to come to this place?"
o "Does this place get really packed?"
o "How long have you been here for?"
• Tip fairly well. Nothing crazy, just enough for the bartender to remember your face later on.
By following the tips mentioned above you can guarantee that the bartender will at least remember your face throughout the course of the night. A much better strategy is to become a familiar face at your local bar/club, and to get to know not only the bartender but the whole staff. Just be social, say "Hi", and shake hands with everyone who works there. After a couple of visits they will know who you are.
2. Use the Power of "Cheers" and Smiles.
Not only is this a good opener, but also a good way to show others that you are a social and friendly person. Note that you don't have to stay there and have a conversation with people. Simply walk around the venue and do the "cheers!!" while sharing a smile. Do not discriminate anyone but try not to overdo it. This is an opener that should look natural. Depending on the reactions you get from women you can immediately transition into a conversation.
3. Dance
Go to the dance floor and have some fun. You don't have to be a professional dancer or John Travolta in "Grease". Just show everybody you are enjoying the moment.
If you don't know how to dance, keep it simple and just follow the beat. Clap, wave your arms a bit, and smile a lot. Remember, you are having a good time.
Try not to grind women from behind. You can see many guys just coming from behind and putting their penises on women's butts. More often than not, this kind of lame move fails. Women will perceive you as a creepy guy and your social value will decrease. Avoid being the creepy guy around.
Last Thoughts
These are very simple tips you can do tonight at your local club. They don't require a lot of practice or planning, and you can instantly show confidence without doing anything special.
Remember that perceived social value is something women can't resist. Become the social guy everybody loves and girls will certainly make it easy for you.
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