Find A Soul Mate

If men are looking to find a soul mate, why would they set traps for 'themselves'?

Most of the time, they probably don't even realize they are doing it. So here are some good pieces of advice, if you would like him to willingly take the next step in a relationship and be on the path to find a soul mate. The best thing is he will come to this decision all on his own without you needing to drag him there. He will be a happy and committed partner. Isn't that what we are all looking for?

Here are a couple of insights into the traps and tips on things you must avoid if you would like to be on the path to find a soul mate. Firstly, a little known secret about men which could help you to stop wasting years of your life wondering why he never called you again. Here it is men need feel that you understand who he truly is. Now while that might sound very easy, men then set invisible traps that lead him to understand if you truly understand him or not. For women it is very easy to fall into the trap with ever knowing it. By the way it is not your fault!

Trap number one - men need to be wanted for who they are, not what they can provide. A tip to avoiding this trap is making sure that you show appreciation to him in the right way. If he feels that you are only after his money or what he can provide, it will send him running for the hills. So make sure that you reassure him that it is him that you are interested in not. Maybe organize a nice outing for the two of you where it is all about spending time together and let know that you don't need fancy restaurants to be happy with him.

Tip number two to find your soul mate and avoid trap number two - every man feels like he is on an important journey in life. You know that when you are going on a journey you need to feel light on your feet, so do men. They are not looking to find a soul mate that will not weigh them down. As he gets to know you he will slowly take of his armor, if he senses that you don't know the real him, the armor will go back on. A tip to keeping his armor off is to build deep connections with him, have conservations with him that allow him to share the real him. Then focus your conversations on the real him and he will reward you for it by keeping his armor off and moving forward in the relationship.

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