When it comes down to it, most men don't feel very suave when trying to pick up on a woman. Knowing what to look for in a girl's body language, both good and bad, can help you to utilize your own nonverbal communications to say you're interested. Just be careful of certain flirting pitfall to avoid and you'll be well on your way.
There is a thin between getting close and invading someone's bubble. Try it some time when you are talking with your buddy take a small step towards him and watch as he backs away. When flirting with a girl lean in slightly, if she doesn't immediately back away you're good. Or, try taking a step back and if she leans in or takes a step towards you she is indicating interest.
Eye contact in flirting is key, too much is creepy, not enough and you are not confident enough. Women do want a strong, confident male, and eye contact says it better than just about anything else you can do. However if her eyes keep darting away and she isn't making direct eye contact back, then you are probably laying it on a little thick. Let her know you are interested without a staring contest.
Flirting is the fun, playful courtship before intimate involvement and should be used as such. If you're mistaking flirting for bedding, then you're probably going to show that in your body language and will probably come on too strong for all but the most aggressive of women. Keep your thoughts, words, and actions light, because too hot and heavy is going to frighten her off.
We are all prone to wanting to exaggerate, but lying will be the end before you get a chance to begin. We have involuntary responses when we lie that you probably don't mask very well if you're not a con artist. Chances are she can pick up on these lies subconsciously too and they will ruin chances before they arise.
Girls love a guy that can make them laugh, but trying too hard to be funny can quickly come off as cheesy or worse. Saying the wrong thing can easily turn an attempt at flirting into something awkward or embarrassing. Know your humor limitations and work within them.
Avoiding these pit falls coupled with a confident smile and appropriate body language will do most of the heavy lifting for you when it comes to getting a girl. Try practicing your flirting techniques to hone them like any other skill.
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