Would you like to give him a great first date? Want to leave an unforgettable impression on a man you're meeting for the first time? Want to instantly make him wonder what it would be like to be your boyfriend? Learn the secrets of a great first date that less than half of all single women know!
Secret #1 - Be Different!
The biggest thing that turns off men during a first date is boredom. And the quickest way to be boring is to try to be the same as most other women. After all, how would YOU feel if the guy you're meeting today seems like a carbon copy of the guy you met last week?
Bored? Frustrated? Turned off? Well, it goes both ways!
So try to be different! A good thing to try is to improve your personality, and adopt an "Old World" approach to dating. These days, women tend to flirt outrageously and rush into relationships. By being a little conservative, polite, and sweet, you'll catch men off-guard and make them think: "Wow... this girl is really different."
Secret #2 - Dress Modestly!
Here's another thing that goes both ways in the dating game -- physical attraction. Dressing provocatively only attracts the weaker, more immature, more commitment-phobic men.
It's the same way how men who build their muscles -- but don't build their intelligence -- attracts only the weaker, more immature women. There's no substance behind the looks!
So here's a tip: Dress modestly for the first date. Yes, physical attraction is important -- but like most things, it's best when administered in small doses. You'll want him to want to discover you more and more as your relationship grows.
Secret #3 - Be Positive!
Here's something that should go without saying! Men are very quickly turned off by whiny, sarcastic, or overdramatic women. You may want to save your rants for your next get-together with your girlfriends. For the first date, you'll want to simply have a good time with him.
Don't talk about your problems -- talk about your goals and dreams. Don't talk about your past -- talk about your present and your future. And yes, do listen as much as you talk. Believe it or not, men like to talk about themselves, too. Give him a chance and be genuinely interested!
Now, it's best if these three habits came naturally to you. If they don't, then it may take a few weeks or months of practice and self-awareness before they become second-nature to you. But that should be your goal... otherwise, you're just fooling yourself!
Want to know how to develop these fantastic first date habits, and instantly make a man interested in you? Then I'd love to help you out!
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