Calling Men - Is It Better to Call or Not Call Him After Your First Date?

Have you ever been in the situation where you have given your number to a handsome man and you're waiting for him to ask you out? Just staring at the phone for hours hoping it will ring! Does it make you feel insecure because he didn't call you straight after your first date? Well you're not alone!

After a first date it's normal to be anxious because you're worried he may not call you for a second one. There are men who don't call straight away and there are the ones who don't call at all. It can be difficult to call men because it's hard to anticipate what to say. Who calls first him or you? Is it ok just to look at the phone? Would it seem too eager to call first?

It shouldn't be hard to call a man who you've had a date with. So here's some advice so you can stop worrying about his call.

The guy should be the first to call at the start of the relationship. Try not to call him first, and if you really have to, try not to sound too eager or desperate. Although interaction is the foundation of a relationship, there must be limitations. Making a phone call to see how his lunch was, or what he's up to at work, or trying to make him see you as soon as possible can make you look very frantic and weird! It's good to keep in mind he needs his own time to.

Answering every phone call, means you seem to have too much time. Of course there is a thing of looking like you have too much time, and it's NOT good for him to think you have too much time free if you want him to keep chasing after you. It's important to make sure when to answer and return his calls. Let his mind wonder what you are doing instead of you doing the same thing about him. Of course, don't ignore him, make sure you answer some of his calls every now and let him know what you're up to its important to get the balance right.

It's essential not to stay on the phone to long when calling a man. You want to want more. Also a quick phone call will encourage him to see you more. It's always better to actually see him than speak to him on the phone. When you meet each other you can actually spend time together and get to know each other more.