Finding the right guy through a dating site can take some effort. It starts off with their dating profile, but that doesn't always mean he is a compatible match. Some guys pretend to be somewhat different from who they actually are.
They impress their date with their financial success, rather they have it or not. They win the girl's attention for more dates, so he starts sending her flowers, buying her expensive gifts and taking her to fancy restaurants.
It can be difficult to detect his deceitfulness, but there are ways to catch him at his own game. She was impressed with him on the first date and as they continue to see each other she has feelings for him. As time goes on, she starts to see a different side of him. He believes he has stolen her heart and can carry on his charade without suspicion.
He feels financial stress which makes it difficult for him to carry on his disguise, blaming her for his deception. He won't let down his guard showing his real self fearing she'll reject him, so he uses other tactics to pull out of the relationship without alarming her of his ignorance.
You need to know if you're dating the right guy so you won't end up with a broken heart. There are 4 things you must look for early in the dating process.
Don't fall for the money game-If a guy starts bragging about all the money he's got, he's just trying to impress you. Then when his pockets dry up, he bolts with no explanation. He will usually spend wildly and end up blaming you for his misfortune. Men with true financial success usually keep it to themselves. Make sure you go to a dating service that does a screen test and find out what he does for a living. It should be in his profile. That way if he tries to pull a fast one, you will know he is mistrusting from the start.
Watch his actions-He may treat you like a princess, but watch how he treats others, such as the waitress, busboy, cashier, or anyone. If you stand back, you'll get a better idea. For example, if someone drops a bag of groceries, see if he helps. If not, he's not the right guy. He has no respect for people and cares only about himself.
Out of control- If he is demanding of your time, shows too much jealousy and wants to hit the bed after he meets you, run in the opposite direction. He wants to have power and is after one thing. If you stick around, he will get worse as time goes on and it could be you that gets hurt.
Puts others down-If he talks bad about others such as exes', family, friends or anyone, he will talk bad about you. When he talks bad about someone, he is two-faced and usually fabricate the story that makes it worse than it actually is. Don't spend your life with someone like that.
These tips will help you when choosing the right guy on your last first date. Most singles are looking for a relationship with someone that's enjoyable to be around who's trusting and caring.
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