Want to Make a Man Commit? Two Things to Consider Before Giving Him an Ultimatum

If you are reading this right now it is probably because you are at the end of your rope with your man and you would do anything to take your relationship to the next level - including giving him an ultimatum. You would do anything in your power to MAKE him commit to you. Makes sense! You have been together long enough to know that the two of you make a dynamic duo, and there isn't anything in the world that could make either of your lives better than simply being together - forever! He would agree, too, if he could just see things your way, right?

One of the first things you need to consider before you give him your "Commit to me or we're through!" chat is this: Is he really a fantastic man that you just know will make the world's greatest husband and dad (if kids are something you want), or is he some bad guy that you have fallen for and you desperately want to reform? This is something to seriously consider before you take things any further, because if you have any history of dating heart-breakers, there is a chance that you may be in a pattern that desperately needs to be broken.

Some men do NOT want to commit, no matter what. It doesn't matter what you try to do to break down their resistance, their "fear" of commitment, or their determination to spend the rest of their lives as the world's sexiest bachelor. It's not that they don't really care about you, or maybe even love you. They simply have issues that even Wonder Woman couldn't fix no matter what. And sometimes the fact that you are drawn to them reveals the issues that are inside of you. Don't worry though, everything is changeable!

Now if I have planted any fear in your heart that this adorable man that you love so much is a lost cause, please don't worry. Just take some time to reflect on the true qualities of this amazing man to really determine what the status is. Simply don't let your fear of being alone or a bad habit of trying to reform the broken men in your life lead you to do something that you may seriously regret later.

I know I said that there were two things to consider, and here comes the second one. If you determine that your man really is one of the "good" guys and is worth more than the sun and moon combined, be sure that you are ready for any outcome should you deliver your ultimatum. What exactly do I mean? Well, if you tell him, "Commit to me or we're through!" you had better mean it. Why? Because if he truly is a healthy man chances are that he will not be too keen on you forcing his hand in making a decision to be with you. This is a conclusion that he will want to come to on his own.