First Conversations On Dates

If you want to get a man to fall in love with you, then make sure the initial contact is memorable. The first conversation you have on a date can make or break the future relationship. Make sure that the conversation is stimulating enough for a second conversation, and a third, and so on. The best way to do that is to dig deeper into the real man and not try to gather stats. Love at first sight is a rare thing, so you'll probably have to do a little work to find out if this guy is for you. Most women will use interview style questions which are okay when they first meet someone, but they don't make the date stimulating or memorable. "What do you do? Where do you work? How long have you been there? Where are you from? Come here often?" Maybe a better question would be "Where are you going?" That way you would know where his future is headed and if you're going in the same direction.

You know that most men put on a facade when they first meet a woman and try to impress her to the point where they exaggerate a little. Try to get past that and let him know that you are interested in the real man inside. You're not satisfied with the first date facade and want to know what his passions and interests are. If you're truly want to know, then he'll probably want to know what your passions are, what your interests are, and who is the real you.

Any first conversation will begin with small talk. That's natural. Just make sure that before things wrap up that you let him know you want to know more. Give him a reason to want to talk with you again. Ask him to tell you more about something in his life next time and tell him something about yourself that will make him curious enough to see you again. When guys pull away maybe it's because you're asking the wrong questions. Find out what you can about the real him and don't just try to find out his job history! For more tips on how to tell if he's giving you a green light to go ahead, check out T Dub Jackson's video where he discusses the "Magic Traffic Light" that most men have as well as the Male Hero Avatar Principal.