Is He Ready For A Relationship? How To REALLY Tell If A Man Loves You

You may be feeling like you are falling hard for the new guy in your life, but how do you tell if your goals align with his? Is he in it for the long run or does he just want to have fun? If you are too intimidated to ask outright for fear of scaring him off then you have come to the right place. There are a few clues your man could be giving you that will tell you if he is here to stay.

Don't Ask -- Instead, Pay Attention

You may understand guys a little more than you think if you chose to wait to ask him how into you he is. There are few things that move faster than light, but a man that has been asked to reveal his feelings could definitely beat the record.

Men are easily intimidated creatures, especially when it comes to talking about romance and their feelings. Questions focused on how much they do or do not like a girl can make them run, so move slowly and act with patience. Pay attention the way he treats you and you will see that the age old wisdom that says "actions speak louder than words," is correct. You know that anyone can spout words, but it is in his actions that a man really tells you how he feels.

Does He Make Long-Term Plans With You?

One sign that he may be into you for more than just fun, is whether or not he makes long term and thought out plans with you. If your guy wants to show how much he cares he will make plans with you that go further than the "now" that demonstrates he wants to spend quality time with you.

If your guy continually calls you last-minute to simply hang out to watch TV or play the Wii, then he is clearly not too worried about impressing you and probably doesn't care too deeply about keeping you around.

Is He Willing To Wait For Sex?

The most blatant sign that your man wants to stick to you like glue is his reaction to whether or not you are ready to have sex with him. If flees the scene, then he is obviously not the right guy for you and was only hanging around for one thing- sex.

If your guy is supportive of your decision and agrees to wait for you (for ten more years if he has to) it is safe to say he may be around for awhile. His commitment to you, for more than just sex, shows you that he is really into you and looking for something a little more long term.

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