Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Dating Advice for Men - The 4 Most Obvious Signs You Are in the Friendzone (or Getting There)

Sometimes, when men develop feelings for a woman, it can be difficult to see reality. You convince yourself that she just hasn't noticed yet. But she will come around eventually, and when she does, you will be there waiting.

I'm here to help you see reality.

The 4 Most Obvious Signs That You Are In the Friendzone

Obvious Sign #1 - When you hang out nothing ever happens (sexually). This one is obvious, but nevertheless, many men gaze right past it justifying the lack of "action" as not having the right opportunity to "make their move."

Tip - If you are waiting for her to make a move, you lose. Most women prefer men who go after what they want. If you find yourself watching movies and shopping, without any touching, you are on the wrong path my friend.

Obvious Sign #2 - She refers to your friendship... a lot.

This does not really need an explanation. If she throws the word "friend" around a lot, she's trying to tell you something. She knows you like her and wants to get it across that the feeling is not mutual.

However, most men see right past this obvious sign thinking that if they hold out long enough, they will snag her!

Tip - It doesn't matter how long you wait. If she only thinks of you as a friend, the longer you wait, the more frustrated you will become. Guaranteed. Youneed to change something before it's too late.

Obvious Sign #3 - She calls you to hang out and when you get there - there are already OTHER GIRLS hanging out too. Here's something to think about: When you have "the hots" for a super-attractive woman do you invite your best friends out on dates with the two of you?

OF COURSE NOT!

Women don't do this either! In fact, many of them tend to be very catty and definitely do not like competition if they are interested in a guy. If you are hanging out with "the girls" they probably consider you one of them.

Tip - Stop hanging out with the girls! It's getting you nowhere.

Obvious Sign #4 - She introduces you to people as, "my friend", or as your name only. The sentence, "This is my friend Jim," is blatantly obvious and should make you shudder to hear. It is considerably less obvious when she just says, "this is Jim." The latter can easily slip by unnoticed.

Tip - If she has an inkling of interest she'll say something like, "This is Jim, he's the guy I was telling you about!"

If you notice only one or two of these signs, I'm sorry to inform you that you are on your way to the friend zone.

If you notice all four, you are already there my friend.

However, there is still hope!

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