Saturday, March 12, 2011

How to Crawl OUT of the Friend Zone (And Make Her Crave You)

Are you currently stuck in the friend zone with a woman you've wanted for a while? It is one of the most frustrating situations a man can find himself in. And to be honest, I would usually recommend moving on as there are tons of beautiful, intelligent, and sexy women out there. BUT - if this woman is really something special to you, then here is how you can crawl out of the friend zone and make her see you as a sex-worthy man.

How to Crawl OUT of the Friend Zone (and Make Her Crave You)

Beta Role

One of the main reasons you fell into the friend zone in the first place is simply because she did not see you as a sexy worthy man. In other words, she viewed you as a beta male who held a lower internal value than her.

What you need to do is STOP cementing this role in her mind - by acting like a MAN (what you were born to be).

Stop being passive, stop smiling so much, and stop just "going with flow". Now if your time to be more assertive. This can include something as small as being the one who dictates what your plans are on the weekend (rather than letting your friends decide) or it could be as important and going after a goal of yours that you've been wanting but avoiding.

To put it simply, women find assertiveness SEXY. They are deeply attracted to a man who knows what he wants, and is not afraid to voice his opinion.

Stop Being the "Shoulder to Cry On"

Usually, being a woman's shoulder to cry on is a GREAT way to move towards a sexual relationship. However, if you have fallen deep into the friend zone - then you need to get FAR away from this role.

The reason is because she will stop viewing you as a man after a while - and you will soon fulfill the same role as one of her girlfriends - someone to watch girly movies with, cry with, and eat ice cream straight from the container with.

Don't be rude with this - but slowly separate yourself from these situations.

Make Yourself a Limited Resource

This one is huge. Women want what they see as a limited resource.

One of the reasons you probably fell into the friend zone is because you were too 'available'.

She would want to do something - and then BAM - there you were 10 minutes later, at her house ready to cater to her every whim.

Instead, show her that you have a busy schedule and that you cannot hang out whenever she is ready. She will notice the fact that you're not around so much - and she will CRAVE your company again.



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