This is the second part discussing how to find a date using the 8 personality types that naturally attract women discussing the four "Provider" personalities.
Introduction to how to find a date with the Four Provider Personalities
The Successful Guy: These are the guys that women are most often looking to marry. That's not a sexist comment. Obviously, money represents stability. So the more successful you are, the more stable. And, believe it or not, this represents a woman's ultimate goal in life. They may enjoy the occasional excitement of the "lovers", but when they start hearing they're "biological clock" getting louder in their inner ear, these are the first type of men they seek out.
To demonstrate you're this type is simple: live in a big home, drive a nice car, wear fine custom tailored suites, etc. If you're a doctor, lawyer or anyone else in a higher tax-bracket than the rest of us you're pretty much set.
These guys are dominant in the relationship by using the skills they've acquired climbing the ladder in their relationships.
If you're successful, then this one is easy. If you're not, then get to it! You've got all the inner hardware, just polish that into software by learning some marketable skills.
Find A Date...But Don't Spend Too Much!
A warning for all men: Almost all guys try to fake success when they're trying to find a date. They show off by the girls dinner, gifts, etc. This immediately causes a woman to go into the mode of 'hold off on the sex.'
Plus, it's just plain expensive.
Daddy: A lot of women like playing the submissive role of acting like little girls and being treated likewise. In fact, some take this to the extreme by dating much older men.
Some women seem get their way all the time from men and don't like it. And there's a sexual charge women seem to get from being controlled that even powerful women aren't immune to.
If you think you fit under this category, read the book the first 50-60 pages of 'Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns' by Philip Miller for it's discussion on dominance and submission.
But even if you don't want to act like a woman's Daddy, it's good to know when a woman's testing you and knowing how to handle it.
The dark side of the Daddy personality is that they are usually attracted to the world of S&M and are inclined to become stalkers. So be careful.
Regular Guy: This is the majority of the population and are the types of guys who will get the most benefit out of most guides on how to find a date. This type doesn't require much explanation besides that they're often under rated since they're the most stable, loyal, and down to earth. But in the relationship department, they usually start out adventurous and in control, but are soon take the submissive role with women.
This is because the average, regular guy is looking for stability and submissiveness almost as much as women are. They like to settle. There's nothing particularly wrong with this approach, but if you are one you should definitely incorporate some elements of the "adventurer" and "seducer" into your repertoire.
Ass Kisser: Ass Kissers use submissive body language and act passive aggressive. Dominant, controlling women are most attracted to the ass kisser and like to keep them around, most often, short-term. Yet sometimes (as you've probably witnessed first-hand) they marry their submissive boyfriends for a chance at artificial stability where they can at least control their relationship. Unfortunately, this isn't a happy life for either person.
Ass kissers would definitely benefit from a copy of double your dating and spend more time developing the qualities of of "adventurer" and "daddy".
Conclusion to How to Find a Date With the Four Provider Personalities
Well that does it. There's obviously a lot more to it than that, such as the unsuccessful personality types like: the hippie (careless about grooming and clothing), the nerd (uncharmingly antisocial), the Redneck, the insecure and needy (clingy and smothering physically and emotionally), p@s*y (doesn't take risks in life), the mama's boy (doesn't grow up), the arguer (argues with everything all the time), purposefully unattractive (think hippies -- although find a date with women who are the same).
Hopefully by now you should have been able to identify what type you are and can now take proactive measures to embrace the positives and shed the negatives. Doing so will not only help you find a date, but also with every aspect of your life...inside and out.
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