How to Let a Female Friend Know How You Feel About Her

You are about to discover a secret that can potentially turn you from "just a friend" into a boyfriend or a lover. This is a very powerful formula that I have used myself to attract my own female friends that I had a crush on.

It's important that you know exactly how to do it right so that you don't mess up your chances forever. Just follow the steps and very soon you could be walking arm in arm with a new girlfriend who loves you.

Before you go, you should know that the longer you have been friends the harder it may be to make this work. Also, if she is currently in a relationship, even if you succeed to a degree, you may find it difficult to make her stop seeing the other guy.

All right, so if you are ready, let's dive right it.

Step 1

The first thing you have to do is to start building sexual tension between the two of you. The sooner you start the better. That's because you want to get out of the friend category and let her start associating you with being a potential lover.

You can do this simply by flirting with her. You will also need to reduce your availability - if she has constant access to you she will only take you for granted.

This may seem counter-intuitive. Nevertheless, you can only build attraction if she truly values you.

Step 2

You have to stop doing her favours. Anything that you used to do to prove to her you are a good friend will only put you back in the friend zone.

Now, she may start getting upset, and this is a good thing. When you show her that you can say "No!" to her and be OK you make her feel a new type of respect. It is that respect that will lead to her feeling attraction for you.

Step 3

Here is the most important bit: you have to start ignoring her until she starts coming to you. In the mean time you need to do a little work on your attraction skills. You will need it to finally "close the deal".

At this point your goal has been to lose the previous image she had of you and replace it with a new one.

Once you gain your ground resist the temptation to go back else everything will mess up.

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