How To Talk To Girls Confidently

Do you ever feel anxious or nervous when you want to approach a girl you're attracted to? Recent studies have shown that women actually make up their mind if you are a viable partner within the first 2 minutes of meeting you!

So even if you are an awesome guy, if you don't know how to approach and make a good impression, you are ruining your chances.

I struggled with this issue for the longest time, but after years of "practice" and learning from experts I finally learned how to get rid of my fear forever. Here's what I did.

First of all, I realized that I was nervous and shy about talking to people in general, not just attractive women. The first thing that I did was I forced myself to smile at 10 people (that I didn't know) every day. I did this for about 4 days straight until I finally felt comfortable with it. Here's what I did next.

Each of the next four days I simply smiled and said "hi" to 10 strangers. To be completely honest I felt very nervous even doing this, but after I got through the first couple it got much easier. Once I did this, I smiled, said "hi," and started a conversation with 3 people per day, even if that only meant asking them how their day is going.

After about a month of doing this, by simply taking micro baby steps, I felt completely comfortable approaching people, however I still felt anxious about approaching beautiful women. Then I learned something amazing, from the world's number one rated relationships expert. It was amazing how just by learning this technique I felt much more comfortable with the though of approaching a pretty woman I didn't know. Here's the technique.

It's called, "Agree and take it to the absurd." One of my biggest fears was that the woman was going to reject me or make fun of me. When I learned this technique all those fears evaporated, because I had an awesome "comeback," that simultaneously created a lot of attraction. Here's how you do it.

If you approach her and start a conversation and she says something like, "I don't like your shirt," you simply agree, and then "take it to the absurd." Here's how you would respond using this technique, "It's the ugliest shirt in the world! Anyways..." Then you simply continue whatever you want to talk about.

If you try this technique in the field I guarantee it will work for you. If she does reject you (she probably won't though) you'll always have a witty response that passes all her "tests" and make her more attracted.

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