How To Talk To Women Anywhere

Do you ever wonder how to talk to women? Some guys seem to be able to talk to women as naturally as breathing and yet other guys hit a brick wall as soon as they come face to face with the opposite sex.

If you want to improve how you talk to women, then listen to a few tips from the experts and you will be chatting away in no time.

Mistake number 1: 'approaching' women.
Don't 'approach' women. What, don't talk to women? How is that supposed to help me! What I mean by this is don't switch into 'approach mode' when you go talk to a woman. As soon as you go into approach mode, your whole body language changes. You change into some kind of sales person selling yourself, and the pressure and nervousness instantly begins to build up. You start to mumble, mince your words and your mind goes blank of interesting conversation. So you need to get yourself out of the mindset of 'approach mode' and instead engage in more natural conversation.

Speak to a woman who you like and in the same way as you would speak to anyone else. Chat to her about the same stuff you would chat to your friends about and you will immediately begin to feel familiar to her. Also, remember that women also struggle to talk to men and they are just as likely to be as nervous as you, if not more. So put her at ease by relaxing and taking off the pressure.

Mistake number 2: Break the mold
When some guys go to talk to women, all they are focused on is the end product - getting a telephone number. This is an instant turnoff and will make you look like a 2 dimensional cardboard cutout. Women can see straight through guys like this and unless they are desperate, they will blow you straight out of the water. Forget all about telephone numbers and just have a great conversation. Be a little mysterious and confident about yourself - women love it, and soon enough she will be asking for your number.

Mistake number 3: Thinking its all about what you say.
Many men who are no good at talking to women blame their failure on what they say. The constantly rerun old conversations in their heads, trying to decipher hidden meanings and trying to work out what they said wrong. 80% of communication is down to body language, and talking to women is no different.

Watch a guy who is good at talking to women, study his body movements and you will see that it is his body that does the talking. How he stands, where he stands, where he looks when he talks, what he does with his hands. All these little things have a huge impact when talking to women, so you need to become a master of body language. Also look Women in the eye when you talk to them and smile, this shows confidence and character. It takes time to master body language, but with time you will find it much easier to talk to women, even when you don't know what to say.

Above all the best way to learn how to talk to women is by approaching women more frequently.

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