Friday, December 31, 2010

How to Tell If a Man Sees You As His Future - Details That Would Confirm Your Status in His Life

There's just too much gambling when it comes to the game called love. Sometimes, women are so consumed with their feelings that they don't see the evident signs of a man who will only be playing around. If you want to see how you fair in his future, here are 7 ways that you could tell:

This man values your opinion.

This man will surely not ignore your views, in fact, he has a high regard for them. He's truly serious with you if he is mindful of your thoughts and opinions.

He is your ultimate protector.

If he could only stay up all night making sure that no bugs bite you as you sleep, he would gladly do it! He will also be the most chivalrous guy because he values you as his queen. He will make sure that your desires are met because you're very important to him.

You will hear him discuss about the future.

This man won't shun the topics of marriage and commitment. He will, in fact, welcome that you both discuss these things. You will also hear statements like - "I want you to become the mother of my children" or "I want to grow old with you."

He'll want to give you the best.

This man will brave anything and everything just to make sure that you're happy and contented. He believes that you're his responsibility and so he should take care of you. He also sees you as the fragile person that he has to take care of or else, he could easily lose you.

He has already taken you home to his parents.

He surely won't be hiding you to his folks if he's proud of you as his girlfriend. He will actually want you to meet them the soonest time possible. This is one of the ultimate tests on a guy's real feelings towards a woman. Meeting his folks is tantamount to saying - she's my future wife.

He will let you in on the financial aspect of his life.

Since you'll be his future wife anyway, he feels that he might as well let you see how his finances run. He will tell you how much he earns, how much he has on his savings account, what are his assets, and what are the liabilities that he will be taking into the marriage.

He no longer sees himself as a single man.

This guy will go about telling everyone that he's already committed to you. Others may even tease him and ask him when he's going to get married. And when they do this, you would see the pleasant reaction on his face because he's okay with the idea of marrying you!



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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

How Can He Move on So Quickly? Don't Be Disheartened! Here Are Some Explanations to Help You Cope

You've just about felt comfortable in this relationship because you like the guy. But you're taken unawares much too soon. You guy has decided to move on and you're disheartened. There are, however, some significant explanations that you could reason out to cope with this.

His feelings were shallow
The guy's feelings for you were shallow. In all probability he was just filling up a stop gap situation while his actual girlfriend has been out of town. The fact is that you had not spent much time with him to realize that he has a permanent girlfriend.

Not yet ready to be serious
Perhaps this guy is not yet ready to be serious or get committed to one person just yet. Perhaps he just wants to fool around and date girls without being serious. Lucky for you this happened before you got too involved and ended having a heart break.

Dissatisfied with your response
Perhaps your response to him has been cool and too restrained for him to handle. He may have wanted you to be by his side more often than you could spare time to do. This must have dissatisfied him and prompted him to move on.

Intentions of making you jealous
Do you sense jealousy as being the underlying factor of your guy moving on so quickly? It is very likely that he wanted to make you jealous about something so he decided to go out or date another girl. Perhaps he saw you with someone else and is getting it out on you.

Have you ignored him
Perhaps at some point of time or probably more often than acceptable, you have ignored him or well he may have felt like you did so! So he decided to move on rather than get hurt. You will need to recollect if you had something to do with his moving on.

Have you hurt him
Take time off to reflect whether you have hurt him in any way at some point of time. May be your manner of speaking or behaving with him was not acceptable and you hurt him beyond measure. So he decided to leave you and move on ever so quickly!

May be you have not matched up to him
A rather difficult aspect to accept, but a bitter truth that you must realize, has caused him to leave you and move on so quickly. You probably did not try to see what has been your shortcoming and to improve it, so he gave up on you eventually.



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Tuesday, December 28, 2010

What's Causing My Boyfriend's Indifference and Distance Towards Me - Learn Why He Cooled Off!

Are you devastated and afraid by the way your boyfriend has been behaving of late? Has he been ignoring you or neglecting you? There could be plenty of reasons for his behavior. Take a look at these reasons cited below and find out why he seems to have cooled off.

He could have found you boring
Too many times a man has gone all out to get the woman he has been chasing only to find out that she is not what he expected. If you just seem very attractive and too good to be true from afar, he could have found you really boring once he came to know you better and that is why he has cooled off!

You seem too serious for his liking
Check back and see if you were too serious in his company. Is he the type of person who is constantly on the look out for adventure? If he is impulsive and spontaneous and found that you were too much of an introvert and too cautious for his liking, his ardor must have cooled!

You are trying to get him to commit
Even if he has been dating you for some time now, it could be that he is not yet ready to make a commitment to you. If you have been trying to get him to commit or marry you, he is obviously going to try and get out of the relationship. You will have to give him more time and stop trying to get serious.

He was never serious about you in the first place
Many guys are just into the dating scene and are happy being single. This means that any sign of you expecting him to commit to a long term relationship would make him lose interest and he would try to back away from you. This proves that he was never serious about you and hence wants to walk away.

He is attracted to another woman
If he has lost interest in you and is already attracted to another woman, he will try to ignore and neglect you. This is a sure sign that he is not the serious place and is just a player. He is trying to let you know that he is moving on and is no longer interested.

He is angry with you and wants to teach you a lesson
If you have been mean and even cheated on him in the past, it could be that he is still smarting about it and wants to pay you back. Hence, he is indifferent and distant and hopes that you hurt as much as he did when you put him through the same sort of agony.

He has found you wanting and wants to back off
Don't jump to conclusions and assume that he is as much in love with you as you are with him. If he has found you wanting and feels that you are in fact boring and nothing like what he expected, his disappointment could make him lose interest in you and he might try to get out of the relationship.



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Mobile Matchmaking and Mobile Dating

Currently, there are close to 4 billion mobile phone users in the world, many of whom are single and seeking love by way of the mobile phone. This new way of connectivity will change the mobile matchmaking and mobile dating opportunities forever. This new platform will allow members who register on traditional matchmaking and dating sites, to search others via hand held devices such as iPhones and the BlackBerry, providing they are mobile ready.

Some important points to remember when signing up for a mobile matchmaking or mobile dating site. There are differences between the two.

First, mobile dating sites are totally automated and help the member identify a small section of a much larger pool of candidates that might attract them. This is the most economical and efficient way to find your true love via an online dating site. Members enter basic information and away they go as they create a profile and begin searching based on selected preferences.

On the other hand, mobile matchmaking sites may go one step further. To insure that members are marriage minded and not just looking for a date on Saturday night, these mobile matchmaking sites may ask more information and require prior approval before given access to its data base.

While requiring more information for a mobile matchmaking site will detract many who have no intention of maintaining a committed relationship, there is still no guarantee that your iphones will generate that tall, dark, handsome marriage minded man who appeared when you completed your search criteria.

Always meet for the first time in a public location, such as a coffee bar, restaurant or even the public library. Don't give out any personal information until you have both agreed to take the online encounter to a first date, a second and third date, ultimately leading towards a committment minded relationship that results in marriage.



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Monday, December 27, 2010

How to Make a New Man Kiss You - 7 Tricks to Help You Do It Without Coming Across As Too Pushy

You have a great new man in your life and have wonderful chemistry with him, you like hanging out with him and often think of ways to feel his lips on yours. The guy may be shy or uncertain to take the initiative, in that case you can encourage him to kiss you in number of ways.

Send positive signals
Do you know what kind of vibes you are sending when you are attracted to a new guy? Your body language and gestures should send signals to suggest that it is alright to kiss, he could be unsure of your feelings which may be the reason he is holding back.

Let him know that you like him
While hanging out with a new guy just let him know things you like about him in a natural and subtle way. When you say it in words it helps him to understand how you feel and you also make him feel comfortable. He may not show it but it pleases him no end when you say this.

Talk intimately
An intimate conversation where you sit close to him and whisper in his ears sensually is a great way to initiate. Talk slowly so that he needs to lean forward, touch him lightly while talking; all this should arouse his desires in him to kiss you. While at it you can say something nice about his tee or the perfume and get him interested.

Make subtle eye contact
One of the best signals you can send across is without saying anything and let your eyes send the message as effectively. Lock your eyes in his for a few seconds and shift your gaze to his lips to show what you are thinking, surely the guy will get the hint.

Make physical contact with him
When your body language sends encouraging signals that it is okay if he kisses you, like touching him while talking; he is assured of your reaction when he kisses you.

Make sure you smell good
Stimulate his sense by feeling fresh and smelling good and make sure to have a fresh breath if you want your man to kiss you. Go easy on perfumes and use the natural fragrance of your lotion or body wash to make him want to kiss you.

Get flirty
Flirt with him and stir the conversation around kissing and incite him verbally to get him to kiss you. Let him imagine how it feels to lock lips with you to kindle his desires.



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Online Dating and First Contact: Managing Email and Phone

When we post an online dating profile, we do so to excite interest and move the reader of it to contact us. By email, by instant message. In effect, they are self-promotional "marketing" pieces...some shamelessly so. No one likely to be reading this post will be surprised by that observation. There! We've just blown the lid of the obvious, someone is sure to be muttering as they read this. But bear with me...I have some dots to connect.

Let's start by clearing up a misnomer. We don't date online, as my readers know I'm fond of saying. We MEET online and take it offline as soon as possible, consistent with safety. For most of us, that means email(s) and phone contact, followed by a meeting, if you "click." This is all stuff anyone involved in online dating should know how to do and do very well. These are predictable, necessary steps on the way to meeting. So it never ceases to amaze me at how many women seem to leave so much of this phase to chance.

What's in the first email and the first phone call often determine if there will be a second. So if you want to stack the deck in your favor, read on. I'm going to give you one man's opinion on how to get an edge over your competition. Bear in mind, I'm not talking about every man. I'm talking about men who are interested in something that lasts. In fact, if you do this right, you will limit the number of men only interested in casual relationships...read that relationships of convenience. What follows isn't bullet proof, but it will definitely help you "up" your game.

Let's start with your first email to him. Whether you're responding to him or initiating contact based on his profile, you're signaling interest and trying to interest him. Two different situations, here.

1. If you're responding to an email from him, I would take your hint from the tone of his email. Respond to both the email and whatever stands out in his profile essay.

2. If you're initiating contact, you're (hopefully) doing so based on something in the profile that caught your eye because it is largely in line with your objectives. A flirtatious/teasing email is your best bet, unless "his" profile has a serious tone.

3. A great first email not only signals and gains interest, it makes the sender stand out for the right reasons. It show that you invested enough time to convey thoughtfulness or cleverness along with it. That investment of time is flattering, even if the email itself does not explicitly flatter. And yes, ladies, they are flattered and it does matter...for all the same reasons it matters to you.

If all goes well via email, the phone is next.

1. If you're ready to move to that step, don't wait for him to ask. Put it out there, invite him to call and give him your cellular phone. I have had women do that toward the end of my online meeting experiences and I never declined and never regretted making the call, even if it didn't work out. Not every woman is comfortable doing this, so if you do it, you immediately stand out...favorably in most men's minds. That's a great start, but more and more women are becoming comfortable taking the initiative, so to really stand out, you need to do even more.

2. So here's where you can really break out of the pack. When you give him your number, give him a best time(s) to call and make it a time when you're usually available, relaxed and content. You're trying to avoid him getting voicemail. Knowing when he is most likely to call also helps you in being ready for it when it comes. Have his profile available and a few questions you really want to ask him. They should help you improve on what you know of him, without putting him on the defensive.

3. Pick some things his profile suggests he's likely to be comfortable with. Be prepared to answer the complementary question, should he ask. Doing this will not only help the conversation flow and put both of you at ease. Don't feel like you must ask those questions, if the conversation is flowing. Just go with it. The profile and your questions are to give your conversation structure if it doesn't occur organically. Often just getting both of you started will be all it takes.

What this preparation does is set both of you up for success. It doesn't guarantee a connection and you shouldn't draw any immediate conclusions from success if you both have it. What you have done is helped both of you get past that initial awkwardness we all feel the first time we connect with someone new. It may go nowhere, but even if it doesn't, it won't feel as awkward the next time and you'll be that much better when the law of averages catches up with you and everything "clicks." Whether it results in something enduring or not, you're improving on your ability to orchestrate smoothness in your initial communications...among the most important skills we can have in online meeting.



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Saturday, December 25, 2010

Why Do Guys Go Cold After the First Date - The Biggest Reasons Why They Do a 180-Degree Turn

Guys are often most interested in a woman during the first few dates. But if the first date wasn't such a success, then he would surely turn cold. So what makes the first date such a disaster that some men don't want to see the girl once more?

Some men feel that the chase was cut short.
Perhaps he felt that you should have made him pursue you a bit longer. But when you suddenly said yes on his invite, then he felt that you were too easy. The only way that you could make him believe that there's still some amount of pursuit going on is to don an appearance of mystery.

Everything went wrong during your first date.
What could have been a romantic date turned into a market-like setting with all the people talking at the top of their lungs. Perhaps the food that you ordered made his stomach churn; perhaps the air conditioning wasn't too good; or there are so many other factors that could make your date a total wreck.

Sex happened soon after.
If you gave yourself away on the first date, then you probably couldn't blame the man if he'll think that you do this all the time. This is why it's important to maintain your distance during the first few dates so that he will get to know you as a person before getting physically intimate.

You blabbed on about you, you, and guess what - more of YOU.
This man probably spent hours listening to you and your life's achievements. Hey, you have to remember that he probably has achievements and other information that he wants to share, too. dating should be a give and take process, where the pleasure should come from both partners.

Your date burned a hole in his pocket.
He could have been turned off by the fact that you let him pay for everything during your date. Even if he was the one who asked you out, that doesn't give you the right to let him pay for every cent that you both splurged. Split the cost with the guy and he'll surely be impressed.

You discussed exclusive dating way too soon.
The first date isn't the proper moment to discuss commitment or exclusive dating! This is just the gateway, so to speak. Never pressure him to get into a commitment with you on the very first date. This would surely scare any man away!

His expectations of you weren't met.
Perhaps his friends talked highly of you that he expected too much. His friends might have said you looked gorgeous, yet in his taste, you're not. Ouch, you might say. But if a guy is dismayed in any way, he will surely not prolong his agony.



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Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Best Spots To Pick Up Women

In your journey to become an expert at picking up women, you've worked on improving your appearance, your self-confidence, heck, your life in general... now you are completely ready to take the next step - meeting women.

Probably your next question is where do you go about doing this? Where exactly do you meet women anyway? It is fun for me to question long-time couples about where they met. The answers vary from a safari in Africa to having grown up next door to one another.

However, those answers aren't necessarily going to help you when you want to know where to go to meet women. Here's the top three places I recommend guys go to meet women.

1. The neighborhood coffee shop. There are a few different reasons I have this at the top of the list. One - it's in your neighborhood and so the chance of meeting someone with similar values and styles is increased. If you have a big sprawling house in the suburbs, then you are going to meet women who like that area for whatever reason. If you live downtown, then the women you meet at the neighborhood coffee shop are going to share similar interests and values, which drew them to this area. In addition, it is a casual, environment where it is natural for strangers to talk to one another. The third reason I love coffee shops it that they are usually places where repeat customers go, which gives you a chance to gradually build up to asking a woman for a date. For example, if you see an intriguing woman at 9:30 a.m. on a Monday, make sure you are at that coffee shop the next week at the same time. During the first encounter smile and say hello and see what her reaction is. If it is very positive, you can initiate a conversation right then. If she smiles back, but seems shy, make sure you show up again the following week and keep the momentum building.

2. The market. I live in a big city and happen to live near a university. Because I have a main squeeze, I actually try to avoid going to the market on Sunday nights, because it is packed with single college kids shopping. It is a virtual meat market. There are hot looking young people everywhere. If me and my gal ever split, I'd make sure to schedule all my shopping for Sunday nights. It is easy to start a conversation. Get next to someone and ask her opinion about any product in front of you. A super easy way to strike up a conversation.

3. The Laundromat. I'm pretty sure my gal and I had a few misses, but close encounters, because after we met, we both discovered that the previous year we had frequented the same tiny Laundromat in our big city. Even if you have a washer and dryer at home, you can take advantage of the Laundromat's large machines to do blankets or whatever or just lie and say your machine at home is broken. Dress casually but nice, bring an interesting book or journal and plant yourself at a Laundromat near a college or near a known singles area.



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Friday, December 17, 2010

Great Conversation Starters For Your First Date

Okay so you have not been out in ages and finally you are going out on a date, but if you have been off of the dating scene for months or even years then you want to make sure that your first date goes okay. Well as we all know conversation can either make or break a first date so here are some great conversation ideas for your first date.

Firstly you need to find some common ground, in theory a good first date would be a movie followed by a meal, breaking the ice by talking about the movie, but people tend to think back to when they were in college, when they went to movies so nobody could see them in the back row! So maybe consider a some live music, the theatre, watching a play or a sport you may have in common.

Thing to avoid talking about at all costs are religion and politics. These can kill a date off within minutes, result in major arguments and have been known to start small wars. Also steer well clear of sexual preferences on the first few dates. Being into bondage is one thing, dropping it in to conversation over a bowl of soup is not!

A few good conversation starters are detailed below, all of which are designed as ice breakers to get conversation flowing and not the start of chatting the other person up.

1.) "Look around this room. Who do you think will be dead before the years out?" - This is a great opening one if you're in a restaurant and "People watching"

2.) "Have you lived in this area long?" - Simple but effective, if the answer is yes you can ask them where they grew up, went to school etc. If it is no, then you can ask them what drew them to the area.

3.) Travel? - Ask them where they have been and what is their favourite place. Nearly everyone loves traveling and likes to talk about where they have been to. A sure fire ice breaker on a date.

4.) Work? - "If you were to live your life again what would be your ideal job?" This gives the other person a great deal of scope and is highly likely to result in some form of humorous response breaking the ice. The question is likely to then be asked of you, and hey presto your conversation is off and running

Lastly always be yourself, the other person is human as well so talk as though you normally would. With the Internet and online dating it is now easy to find a date, particularly useful if you move in to a new area with no friends. For more dating advice please see my resource box below.



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Wednesday, December 15, 2010

How Can I Figure Out If a Man Is Emotionally Open Towards Me or Not? These Tips Will Answer This

Figuring out men is not an easy task. But it is not an impossible task either. All you need to do is know the signs to look for when you are trying to figure out is he is emotionally connected to you or not.

He communicates with you openly
When a man begins to get emotionally connected to you he begins to communicate with you more openly. He will not be just trying to impress you at all times but will be feeling free to express more clearly what he wants as well in the relationship.

He is always watching out for you
If a man is emotionally connected with you he will be there for you. You will know that he is the one person who is always going to be watching out for you. If you need advice then he will be the one to offer you an unbiased one.

He is concerned about your happiness and success
When a man begins to feel emotionally connected to you he begins to get concerned about your happiness and her success. If you see that your man tries to keep you happy at all times by doing sweet things and is genuinely happy for your success then he is emotionally connected to you.

He listens to you
As a man develops an emotional connection with you he involuntarily begins to pay attention to what you are saying. His interest in you will go beyond the physical and he will begin to take an intellectual interest in you. To understand how you think and feel your man will begin to listen to you with a lot more attention.

He begins to trust you with him intimate feelings
If a man is getting emotionally connected to you he will be able to trust you a whole lot more. It is mainly his emotional investment with which he will trust you and will feel safe talking to you and sharing his insecurities, fears and disappointments.

He spends more time with her when he could be doing other things
When a man gets emotionally connected to you he begins to spend a lot of time with her. In fact at times he will prefer to spend time with you instead of doing stuff that he normally wouldn't give up.

He works hard to keep the relationship strong
Finally, when a man begins to feel emotionally connected to you he tries to work hard to keep the relationship strong. He listens to what you want and makes the changes accordingly.



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Tuesday, December 14, 2010

7 Signs He Is Starting to See You As More Than a Friend! Discover If He Wants You As His Lover

Having a guy friend means you have a pal who can honestly tell you that your outfit doesn't fit you at all. Guys are more frank about such things while girls tend to sugarcoat their sentences. Having a good guy pal by your side is something great but what if he starts seeing you in a different way? How can you tell if he's transforming into someone nice or he's already interested in you?

He'll tend to notice the things that he ignored before.
This guy is now more prone to see all the things that he didn't pay attention to before. He'll now praise you when it comes to your choice of outfit, your perfume, even the mere opinions that you give.

He'll hold your hand like he never did before.
If a guy starts seeing you as more than a friend, he'll want to have more physical contact with you. Perhaps he'll slowly put his arm around you like he used to, but now, there seems to be more feelings or passion as he does it. He'll also caress your hand as he holds it in his.

He will have an appreciative look for you.
Where all your other common friends are just common sights to him, with you, a smile seems to automatically creep onto his face the moment he sees you. His eyes will lock with yours and he'll try to communicate what he's actually feeling.

He'll break away from the group.
If there are any group parties that you have to attend, he will now make sure that you will have alone moments with him. It would seem like he doesn't want to share you with the group anymore because he wants to get to know you on a deeper level.

He seems to be more interested in you now.
He pays attention when you want to say something and he asks so many questions about you. He will also be asking your best female friends about your likes and dislikes.

He seems to want to protect you.
If he didn't care whether you walked on the safe side of the road before, now, this guy is a reformed man! He'll want to shield you from the onrushing traffic. He'll also stand up for you if there's a need to.

He suddenly seems to flirt around you.
If you see your guy friend starting to look at you differently, or if he makes gestures that he didn't do before, then he's definitely onto something. See if he pretends to brush off something from your cheek or if he holds you closer during a slow dance - these are things that he never did before so now that he's doing them, it could only mean that he's already attracted to you.



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How to Teasingly Flirt With a Guy and Get Him Attracted to You? 7 Tips You Need to Know Here

If you are a woman who believes that you have the power to attract a guy, then you probably already know that teasing is a great part of this. In order to let him look your way, you have to do some subtle moves that are sure to charm him. Here are 7 of the top moves that would make a guy fall for you in no time:

Tease with your eyes.
Remember how everyone says that the eyes are the windows to a man's soul? Well you can use your eyes to your advantage by subtly flirting with them. Try looking at him from under your beautiful, curly lashes. See how he'd react the moment you look with longing at him.

Tease him with your sensuous lips.
A lot of guys have fallen for women simply by seeing them lick their lips sexily! Even the way you drink from your champagne glass can make him feel wanted and titillated. Add the surefire move of biting your lower lip and he's already caught in your trap!

Tease with your hair.
It is said that men find women with long hair to be sexy. If you trust this notion, then you can go ahead and wear your hair down. Simply flip it when he's looking at you and he'll definitely be blown away. Just make sure that you do this as sexily as you can and not in a manner that would make him think that - you absolutely need a haircut!

Tease with your hips.
What makes a woman distinctly feminine is the way she is shaped on her hips. You can capitalize on your female asset - your hips - by swaying them as sexily as you could. With the right rhythm, you would be able to make every man look your way as you enter a room.

Tease him with the clothes that you wear.
If you want to prove to him that you're sensual, then you've got to don clothes that depict that. Don't even think that he'll think sexy thoughts of you if your skirt goes all the way down to your ankle! Make sure to invest on sexy clothing that complements your body shape. Buy some lingerie too so that you won't be caught wearing grandma panties.

Tease him with your perfume.
Man thinks that he's no longer dependent on his primal instincts - nothing could be more wrong. You're a woman so it's wise to invest on sexy scents that would surely captivate your man. Invest on a bottle of perfume that is uniquely you. Combine this with a fresh-smelling breath and he'd definitely go mushy.

Tease him with your words.
Play your words right - don't go for cheap, dirty talk. All it takes to be perceived as a sexy woman is to be intelligent and witty in a conversation. And when it comes to sexual innuendos, it doesn't mean that you can't have them - just make sure to do it subtly so you wouldn't appear cheap.



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Monday, December 13, 2010

Do You Want a Guy to Really Like You When He Has Already Rejected You Once? Learn What to Do

If you've gotten the shock of your life by being rejected by a man, what do you think you could still do to make the situation work to your advantage? Making him still want you after he dumped you isn't impossible at all. Consider these 7 hot tips:

Moping isn't for you.
What this guy probably expects you to do is for you to turn into a hermit! Well, prove to him that he didn't even matter. This time, let him have the shock of his life as he sees you partying and dating other men!

Give yourself some due reward.
You have to believe that the confident woman is still in there and she needs to be pampered after receiving this blow. You can choose to buy some new wardrobes. Let his mouth fly wide open as he sees you in your stunning, new collection!

Let other guys crowd all around you.
Heck, imagine what he would think once he sees other men going crazy over you! This will make him think but one thing - "I just gave up on prize catch!"

Treat him nicely, still.
Having rejected you is no excuse to be nasty with him. Be sweet and friendly to him and all other people around you. Prove to him that you can take rejection as a mature person. Don't go all bitter on him by ignoring him when he's around.

Make it more painful for him by dating his friends.
Why not get back at him by dating his closest friends? And imagine the shock that he's going to get as his guy friends start talking about how wonderful you are! Just be careful as you come up with this scheme - don't get killed in the process!

Even if he comes back...
...if he ever apologizes for rejecting you and he comes back to woo you, make it extra hard for him to win you this time. Prove to him that you're not an easy target. Ignore his primary attempts, let him work hard at getting a date with you.

Show him that you've already moved on.
If you've been hurt badly by what he did, then you can choose to let go of this guy. Make yourself unattainable if you want to get back at him. And just when he's drooling to have you back, tell him that you've chosen to move on and that you enjoy what you have in your life right now.



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Saturday, December 11, 2010

How to Be a Tempting Woman to Men? 7 Ways to Drive Men Crazy With Desire to Be With You

A woman can tempt men and drive them crazy with desire by number of ways. Their body language, the way they talk all contribute to a woman being tempting to men. If you are looking for ways to tempt men, try the following tactics.

Have an attitude
Of course outer beauty is important, but men get turned on by the women who have attitude. The first step is that you believe in yourself as being a temptress, let them know that he has to value you and that you take no nonsense, this quality will be very tempting to men.

Get sexy outfits
Right attitude coupled with great sexy outfit will make you stand out and make an impression. Wear dresses that flatter your body and enhance your figure and see men having tough time resisting you and they will want to get to know you. Men need to be interested first and dressing right is a great way to get noticed.

Be stylish and sharp
For the men to be drawn to you, you should turn up being stylish and be intelligent enough to keep them hooked. Keep yourself aware of current issues so that you can have an intelligent conversation with them and keep them on edge with your remarks. Your ability to converse meaningfully makes you desirable.

Have sense of humor
Let sense of humor be your best ornament. Apart from looking great and dressing well, your sense of humor will make you more attractive and someone who is fun to be with. Men are drawn to such personality.

Work on your individuality
You can be as tempting you want to be if you learn how to conduct yourself with elegance. Attract them with your charm and acquaint them with your talent and achievements. No one is more tempting and desirous than a woman who is attractive and has substance to her personality.

Use your body language
Use your body language to your advantage to attract and be tempting to men. The eye contact, the way your smile, the way you use your hands the right way with confidence shows how sexy you are and men will not be able to resist your charm.

Be different and in control
You have to be different to stand out and make other women pale in comparison. Be better turned up and intelligent who men find attractive. In your quest to be tempting to men make sure you are in control of yourself. This makes men want you more and find you more tempting when you are in control.



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Monday, December 6, 2010

Being Superior, Being the Prize, and Winning Her

Before you knew about the secrets of dating, you probably think that the best way to a woman's heart is by being the "nice guy". Over the years, you have probably tried to land a date by putting on this nice guy character and over and over again you always get rejected. Then you find yourself wondering what is wrong with you. Since no one is there to explain all these phenomena to you, you grew up believing that you are inadequate and that nobody is attracted to you because you are a loser.

Due to this feeling of inadequacy, you have the tendency to idolize and patronize the girl who has feelings for you. You do anything she asks; you give up all your aspirations and dreams just to please her. You may think that you are doing this in order to win her over you. What you do not know is that you are actually pushing her away. Why is that possible? That is because when you do everything she says you are actually relinquishing your superiority. To her eyes, you are no longer the price and your value just dropped.

This is the very reason why you always end up being rejected when you are being Mr. Nice Guy. You see, Mr. Nice Guy is not the character you need to win her. If you want to win her over you must make her feel that you are valuable, that you are superior and that you are the prize. Do not make her feel that you are depending on her because in the end, she will manipulate you and you will lose you your dominance over her.

However, if you want to dominate her you must dominate yourself first. This means that you must be happy with what you have and you are capable of using what you have in order to become the prize.



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Sunday, December 5, 2010

7 Signs That He Likes You in a Serious Way! Now You Will Know What He Really Feels Towards You

If you see a guy who you really like you definitely want to know if he is romantically interested in you. Here are a few signs that will help you figure out if he is romantically interested in you especially if you feel you are getting mixed signals.

You find him calling you a lot
You will see that when a guy is romantically interested in you he will call you a lot. The calls will be random and will mostly be without an agenda. If you find your man calling you to give you a general update of things that have been going on that day then he is romantically interested in you.

You catch him staring at you
When a guy is romantically interested in a woman he involuntarily keeps looking at her. You will see that this guy will keep looking in your direction especially when he thinks you are not looking.

He wants to help you at all times
If a guy wants to be your man Friday and wants to help you out at all times even when you don't ask for his help then he is definitely interested in you romantically. He is trying hard to create a good impression on you and wants to become indispensable for you.

He takes active interest in things that you like to do
When a guy is romantically interested in you then he will take an active interest in things that you like to do. This will be an effort to get to know you better so that he can suitably impress you when the time comes.

He sacrifices things that he likes to do to be with you
If you see a guy sacrificing his time to make sure that he is able to spend that time with you then he is definitely romantically interested in you. Especially if he sacrifices the time that he dedicates to his boy activities then his interest in you is purely romantic.

He shows a lot of respect towards you
A man respects a woman that he likes. If you see that this guy is respectful towards your views and opinions then he likes you a lot. If you see him standing up for you to defend your views and opinions then his interest is romantic in nature.

He keeps trying to take you out
Finally, if you find a guy asking you out for some activity or the other of your choice then his interest in you is romantic. He is trying to establish a connection here so that you too begin to feel for him the way he feels for you.



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Wednesday, December 1, 2010

What Kind of Women Do Guys Like? Here Is a Sneak Peak Into What Men Truly Prefer in a Woman

It can be a little confusing when you want to figure out what kinds of women do men really like. While all men are different there are some traits that all sane men look for in women. Here are some of the things men like in women

They like a woman who is sure of herself
The first thing that a man sees in a woman is her level of confidence. A man wants to be with that kind of a woman who is sure of who she is and isn't scared to admit who and what she is. This confidence is what makes her most attractive to a man.

They like women who can be 'women'
No matter how evolved women become men do not find those women attractive who have to assert this fact at all times. A woman who is sure of herself will never have a problem with a man being protective and chivalrous. Men like those women who have found a balance in their evolved selves and their femininity.

They like women who can trust
A man also likes that woman who he can trust and who has the ability to trust him. A woman' security is reflected in the way that she can trust her man. If she makes his life a lie detection test then he wouldn't want her.

The like women who are understanding and caring
Men also like those women who have the ability to be understanding and have a tendency to care for others. That shows her nurturing side and at some level all men need to be nurtured and pampered. There qualities assure a man that a woman will look after him.

They like women who understand and need space
A lot of women tend to take over all the space in a man's life when he gets into a relationship with her. That makes his life suffocating. Men like those women who need space themselves and are willing to give the men in their life space without making them feel guilty.

They like women who are not control freaks
Some women morph into controlling dictators the moment a man is a part of their life. These women get in and out of relationships pretty fast as men don't want to be controlled. If you want to be a woman that guys like then you have to make sure that you are not a control freak.

They like women who are spontaneous and fun
Finally, men like those women who can have uninhibited and unadulterated fun. She has to be spontaneous and have a sense of humor to be the one that all men want.



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Be Yourself and Attract Your Kind of Woman

Life is on its own the perfect reality of what anybody can get. To get the fullest of it, there is a need for you to be yourself. It makes things easier and allows things move well for you. When relating with a person there is every tendency that one person might be hiding his true nature, but it won't take long for it to be discovered. For you to have a mutually balanced co-existence, you have to be your real self. You are a unique individual. The law of attraction is inevitable because you will get back what you have. This article shows how you can be yourself and still get the best out of a woman life is on its own the perfect reality of what anybody can get. To get the fullest of it, there is a need for you to be yourself. It makes things easier and allows things move well for you. When relating with a person there is every tendency that one person might be hiding his true nature, but it won't take long for it to be discovered. For you to have a mutually balanced co-existence, you have to be your real self. You are a unique individual. The law of attraction is inevitable because you will get back what you have. This article shows how you can be yourself and still get the best out of a woman you desire to have.

When a man wants to have a woman to love, he expects to get it. But the first thing he has to do is to avoid creating an impression that is not real. What makes you lose focus of what you want is if you start acting up and creating an unrealistic personality. This can be dangerous because when a woman discovers the real person in you, she walks away. Knowing that there is a strong quality a woman has; the ability to understand things well. Know that nothings work well when the foundation is all deceit. Always be yourself and influence your likes.

When you want a woman you like, don't go pursuing her. Allow things to flow naturally. There is no formula to be applied when searching for your dream woman. Where ever you are, whatever you do and say is just enough to drive the search for you. That doesn't necessarily mean you have to start moving from place to another. You mustn't be going to cinemas, mall, parks and parties all with the intention to see what you want. When you condition your mind towards such avenues, you are going to put yourself under pressure and it won't give you any result. Any woman who discovers your tactics will definitely play along with you and eventually leaves you.

Don't be easily predictable. Don't come out openly to show the world what you are searching for. Once you open up a woman may manipulate your heart with the hope that you are getting what you want. Don't spell out what you want to avoid falling into danger. Don't do things to expect a woman to feel sorry for or have sympathy for you. This will make her take you as a man who lacks self-will and integrity. Being diplomatic in your dealings with a woman won't help you at all. Be a man who is true to his words and stands his ground. A woman will like to know more when she discovers something unique about you.

Change your pattern of thinking and reasoning towards women. Have a good mind for a woman and good things will come your way. Live your life well and with hope that things will work itself out. If you go out in full force thinking that you will get woman through that means, I bet you will fall into the wrong hands. Treat the women around you with care and respect. You ever can tell where your star will shine from.
Be sure you know what you want. There is a difference between what you want and what you think you want. Be yourself and allow things to unfold it.



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