How Can He Move on So Quickly? Don't Be Disheartened! Here Are Some Explanations to Help You Cope

You've just about felt comfortable in this relationship because you like the guy. But you're taken unawares much too soon. You guy has decided to move on and you're disheartened. There are, however, some significant explanations that you could reason out to cope with this.

His feelings were shallow
The guy's feelings for you were shallow. In all probability he was just filling up a stop gap situation while his actual girlfriend has been out of town. The fact is that you had not spent much time with him to realize that he has a permanent girlfriend.

Not yet ready to be serious
Perhaps this guy is not yet ready to be serious or get committed to one person just yet. Perhaps he just wants to fool around and date girls without being serious. Lucky for you this happened before you got too involved and ended having a heart break.

Dissatisfied with your response
Perhaps your response to him has been cool and too restrained for him to handle. He may have wanted you to be by his side more often than you could spare time to do. This must have dissatisfied him and prompted him to move on.

Intentions of making you jealous
Do you sense jealousy as being the underlying factor of your guy moving on so quickly? It is very likely that he wanted to make you jealous about something so he decided to go out or date another girl. Perhaps he saw you with someone else and is getting it out on you.

Have you ignored him
Perhaps at some point of time or probably more often than acceptable, you have ignored him or well he may have felt like you did so! So he decided to move on rather than get hurt. You will need to recollect if you had something to do with his moving on.

Have you hurt him
Take time off to reflect whether you have hurt him in any way at some point of time. May be your manner of speaking or behaving with him was not acceptable and you hurt him beyond measure. So he decided to leave you and move on ever so quickly!

May be you have not matched up to him
A rather difficult aspect to accept, but a bitter truth that you must realize, has caused him to leave you and move on so quickly. You probably did not try to see what has been your shortcoming and to improve it, so he gave up on you eventually.

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