Best Spots To Pick Up Women

In your journey to become an expert at picking up women, you've worked on improving your appearance, your self-confidence, heck, your life in general... now you are completely ready to take the next step - meeting women.

Probably your next question is where do you go about doing this? Where exactly do you meet women anyway? It is fun for me to question long-time couples about where they met. The answers vary from a safari in Africa to having grown up next door to one another.

However, those answers aren't necessarily going to help you when you want to know where to go to meet women. Here's the top three places I recommend guys go to meet women.

1. The neighborhood coffee shop. There are a few different reasons I have this at the top of the list. One - it's in your neighborhood and so the chance of meeting someone with similar values and styles is increased. If you have a big sprawling house in the suburbs, then you are going to meet women who like that area for whatever reason. If you live downtown, then the women you meet at the neighborhood coffee shop are going to share similar interests and values, which drew them to this area. In addition, it is a casual, environment where it is natural for strangers to talk to one another. The third reason I love coffee shops it that they are usually places where repeat customers go, which gives you a chance to gradually build up to asking a woman for a date. For example, if you see an intriguing woman at 9:30 a.m. on a Monday, make sure you are at that coffee shop the next week at the same time. During the first encounter smile and say hello and see what her reaction is. If it is very positive, you can initiate a conversation right then. If she smiles back, but seems shy, make sure you show up again the following week and keep the momentum building.

2. The market. I live in a big city and happen to live near a university. Because I have a main squeeze, I actually try to avoid going to the market on Sunday nights, because it is packed with single college kids shopping. It is a virtual meat market. There are hot looking young people everywhere. If me and my gal ever split, I'd make sure to schedule all my shopping for Sunday nights. It is easy to start a conversation. Get next to someone and ask her opinion about any product in front of you. A super easy way to strike up a conversation.

3. The Laundromat. I'm pretty sure my gal and I had a few misses, but close encounters, because after we met, we both discovered that the previous year we had frequented the same tiny Laundromat in our big city. Even if you have a washer and dryer at home, you can take advantage of the Laundromat's large machines to do blankets or whatever or just lie and say your machine at home is broken. Dress casually but nice, bring an interesting book or journal and plant yourself at a Laundromat near a college or near a known singles area.

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