Before you knew about the secrets of dating, you probably think that the best way to a woman's heart is by being the "nice guy". Over the years, you have probably tried to land a date by putting on this nice guy character and over and over again you always get rejected. Then you find yourself wondering what is wrong with you. Since no one is there to explain all these phenomena to you, you grew up believing that you are inadequate and that nobody is attracted to you because you are a loser.
Due to this feeling of inadequacy, you have the tendency to idolize and patronize the girl who has feelings for you. You do anything she asks; you give up all your aspirations and dreams just to please her. You may think that you are doing this in order to win her over you. What you do not know is that you are actually pushing her away. Why is that possible? That is because when you do everything she says you are actually relinquishing your superiority. To her eyes, you are no longer the price and your value just dropped.
This is the very reason why you always end up being rejected when you are being Mr. Nice Guy. You see, Mr. Nice Guy is not the character you need to win her. If you want to win her over you must make her feel that you are valuable, that you are superior and that you are the prize. Do not make her feel that you are depending on her because in the end, she will manipulate you and you will lose you your dominance over her.
However, if you want to dominate her you must dominate yourself first. This means that you must be happy with what you have and you are capable of using what you have in order to become the prize.
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