If you've gotten the shock of your life by being rejected by a man, what do you think you could still do to make the situation work to your advantage? Making him still want you after he dumped you isn't impossible at all. Consider these 7 hot tips:
Moping isn't for you.
What this guy probably expects you to do is for you to turn into a hermit! Well, prove to him that he didn't even matter. This time, let him have the shock of his life as he sees you partying and dating other men!
Give yourself some due reward.
You have to believe that the confident woman is still in there and she needs to be pampered after receiving this blow. You can choose to buy some new wardrobes. Let his mouth fly wide open as he sees you in your stunning, new collection!
Let other guys crowd all around you.
Heck, imagine what he would think once he sees other men going crazy over you! This will make him think but one thing - "I just gave up on prize catch!"
Treat him nicely, still.
Having rejected you is no excuse to be nasty with him. Be sweet and friendly to him and all other people around you. Prove to him that you can take rejection as a mature person. Don't go all bitter on him by ignoring him when he's around.
Make it more painful for him by dating his friends.
Why not get back at him by dating his closest friends? And imagine the shock that he's going to get as his guy friends start talking about how wonderful you are! Just be careful as you come up with this scheme - don't get killed in the process!
Even if he comes back...
...if he ever apologizes for rejecting you and he comes back to woo you, make it extra hard for him to win you this time. Prove to him that you're not an easy target. Ignore his primary attempts, let him work hard at getting a date with you.
Show him that you've already moved on.
If you've been hurt badly by what he did, then you can choose to let go of this guy. Make yourself unattainable if you want to get back at him. And just when he's drooling to have you back, tell him that you've chosen to move on and that you enjoy what you have in your life right now.
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