The Easiest Way To Breakup With Your Girlfriend Or Someone Else

Falling in love is one of the most exciting feelings a person can ever feel in his entire lifetime. A man sees his girlfriend as the prettiest, sexiest, kindest lady in the world, the love of his life, the apple of his eye. But what if the relationship turns sour? We all know that a boy-girl relationship is not always for keeps. So, how does a boy break up with his girl?

It can really be very difficult to say "It's over" or "We've lost it" to the girl you have professed your love to, especially when you've been together for quite some time. You can imagine how she can feel, how it will break her heart into tiny little pieces once you say goodbye, but it has to be done. Think of it this way: it would be unfair for both of you to keep hanging on to something which no longer exists. It would be unfair for her to keep on loving you if you cannot love her back, and it would be unfair to you, because you won't have the chance to love again.

So, here are some tips on how to break up with the girl you loved once:

• First of all, do it in person. It might seem easier for you to just send her a text message or say it over the phone, but, don't you think that is totally rude? It's like calling a laundry service about terminating their services! Come on, be a man and face her. She deserves that.


• Once you come face to face, be utterly honest about what you feel, about what's going on inside your mind. Don't lie to her. Remember that you she had been a part of your life, so she deserves the right to know. If it's because of a third party, tell her. Of course, she will cry tremendously, which can make you feel so bad, but it's better if she got the truth from you than from hearing it from others.


• When you've finally made your goodbye speech, square your shoulders firmly for what's to come next. Yes, it's best to be prepared for the worst. Anticipate the volley of vindictive and hurtful words, even a slap on your face. Try to be polite and consider her feelings. She really doesn't want to hurt you, no. She just can't say "Don't leave me" or "I can't live without you" straight to your face. What if the tables were turned? Wouldn't you be terribly hurt if she was the one to leave you?

Never, ever fight back by hurling insults at her or by slapping her back. That's very disgusting. Yes, she hurt you, but you have to understand that it was just her reaction to a very stressful situation. And besides, a female's strength is no match with yours. Simply walk away without a word and don't look back.

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