Is your boyfriend no longer giving you enough time and attention? Are you frustrated with the fact that he isn't interested in you any longer? Do you fear that he might leave you? If so, don't worry. You're about to learn some psychological tricks that will make your boyfriend feel attracted to you again. It will make him spend more time with you and shower you with tons of attention and love.
Here are the sure-fire tips to make your man spend more time with you...
Distance yourself from him
This is very counter-intuitive. But it works like magic when done right. It's likely that your boyfriend has lost interest in you because the two of you have gotten very close. At first, attraction drives the two of you to get together often. With time, the attraction fades. Unless you take steps to increase the attraction, he'll begin to lose interest.
Things will get too familiar and predictable in the relationship. When this happens, any guy will lose interest in you. The best thing you can do is to create distance between the two of you. Just completely ignore him for a couple of days. Otherwise, go out with your friends more often than you'd do with him/
Do not act desperate
Most women make this very DANGEROUS mistake. Making this mistake will cause him to leave you FOREVER. Desperation will lead any man out of your life right away. Have you done any of the following?
- Constantly nagged him
- Called him repeatedly when he wasn't calling you
- Left voicemails in his inbox saying messages like, "Call me, please".
- Expected him to talk to you daily and spend time with you regularly
- Spoke about commitment
If you've done any of the things above, your relationship is in BIG trouble. The best way to approach this situation is by distancing yourself from him as quickly as possible. Once you've done that, you must begin to do things to create attraction in him. There are lots of things you can to do to create attraction in him.
I strongly encourage you to get yourself a makeover and start meeting new guys right now. That's the only way you can create a feeling of jealousy in him and make him come after you. The relationship isn't certainly over yet. But your boyfriend will be your ex-boyfriend if you don't do this.
You don't have to start a relationship with the new guys you meet. But just meet and hang out with them for fun. That'll be more than enough. Invite him for a party where the guy friends (who are interested in you) are also attending. You'll find him try hard to get your attention. Do it only after you create space in the relationship.
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