Do you find it confusing when everything seems rocky between you and your man? Do you feel absolutely agitated when he stops answering your phone calls, texts or emails?
Do you spend a lot of time checking his Facebook page for updates and then feel let down when you see that he has been active there but is ignoring you without any reason? Well, it's never an easy situation when a guy makes you run after him, but here are some possible solutions you can use...
He isn't making you do it you're rather doing it yourself -
The only reason why he has all the power right now is because you have given him this power. It's because you became submissive too early and put him on a pedestal. You showed him your weakness and now he can easily manipulate that weakness and make you dance to his tunes.
Therefore before we get to the solution I'd like to point out that it's not the man's fault for doing all this. It's rather your own fault for running after him and treating him like he's so special that he deserves your full and undivided attention.
The first step - Put an end to this dirty game -
The best way to change things around would be to get utterly honest with him. Instead of constantly trying to get in touch with him, it would be better if you leave him one final message.
Here is a good example -
"John! I have been trying to get in touch with you for quite some time now, and I am not sure where we truly stand. I honestly hate games and appreciate honesty. You either like me or you don't. And if you aren't interested then I see no point in dragging things further. If you're interested let me know and if not just ignore this message and there is no need to respond. Have a good life."
And that's it. Do not call him or text him no matter how difficult it might be for you presently. Any further calls will only make the situation rather worse for you.
But what if he doesn't respond?
Well, then you finally know what he truly feels about you. Now you finally know that you were only wasting your time on him and it wasn't going to turn into anything either way so it's better that you know about it now instead of knowing it several weeks or months down the road.
Life is too short to sit around and wait for some guy to make up his mind for you. If you feel that you can convince someone to like you or persuade him into the deal then you are strongly mistaken.
If you truly want to win in the dating game then it's absolutely vital that you never let a guy play with your emotions. Whenever you sense that something isn't right, it's really important to draw the line and ask him to be utterly honest about where you two stand.
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