Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Approaching Women - 3 Tips to Approach Her the Right Way

It's hard enough to just get the courage up to approach a woman without having to think about doing the right things that will make her feel attracted to you. However, as you probably already know, just being able to make the approach is not always enough. You usually have to do more than that to make a woman feel attracted to you. For most guys, that can pose a pretty big challenge. However, when you know how to approach a woman the right way, it will seem easy and you will see that it DOES make a huge difference.

Here are 3 tips to approach a woman the RIGHT way:

1) No matter what, you need to be able to start a conversation with her.

You don't get a prize for just being able to walk up to her. You can't approach her and then have absolutely nothing at all to say. You have to be able to make conversation with a woman and that conversation has to be able to trigger feelings of attraction and desire in her or else you are probably not going to get much more than a few minutes of her time and a polite smile and that's it.'

2) You need to make her feel like you are not just there to pick her up.

Women tend to feel a bit iffy about guys who are obviously out for a pick up and that's not the best way to start things off, especially if you really do find yourself attracted to her. You want to instead make it clear to her that you are really into her and that happens by having good conversation that includes questions that let her know that you are really trying to get to know her and who she is.

3) If you have a goal in mind like getting a number or getting a date, then you can't deviate from that goal.

While there may be some instances where you just want to approach a woman for the sake of making the approach, most of the time you want to get a number or get a date with that woman. And you have to keep that in mind, you can't just walk away without getting her digits or lining up a date with her and call it a successful approach. When you can get to the point that you know how to move things in the right direction and you end up with her number or plans for another night - that is when you'll know that you are good at approaching women.

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