What Do Men Want? Discover Their Thoughts, Their Desires, and Their Needs

So many women ask the question, what do men want? This is because men are somewhat difficult to understand. Men are naturally reserved, and women tend to be suspicious of body languages or facial expressions that men often show in their interpersonal relationships.

It is worth stating that many women have had an experience of rejection because they fell short of the expectations of the men they dated at a point in time in their lives. In order to date a man and keep him faithful to you, you should try as much as possible to know men for who they are and what they are.

In short, what do men really want? In other words, what do men want in a relationship? The following are basic needs of men.

1. Ingenuity: Be smart and intelligent. Men don't want silly women. They want women who have ingenuity and creativity. Develop your areas of strengths and potentials. Be a go-getter.

2. Complements: Sincere men know that they are not complete in themselves. So, they want women who will fit into certain areas of their lives. For instance, a quiet, easy-going man may want an outspoken woman. A short man may be attracted to a tall woman. Another man may want a woman who has a good sense of judgment when it comes to money management - such a man wants a lady that will be able to checkmate his excesses in finance. If you want him, complement him.

3. Tolerance: Men don't want women who will nag in their masculine weaknesses, but rather be tolerant. Women are supposed to forbear with them. For instance, when a thing goes bad with him and you snarl, saying, 'Dave, wouldn't you just use your senses sometimes', you will drive him wild. Bear with him; help him to deal with his moral or interpersonal relationship problems. Accept him for his person but help him to improve.

4. Appreciation: When he does well in a thing, appreciate him. When he performs below your expectations in a certain area, don't nag but encourage him. Say, 'Sweetheart, you have shown some measure of manly courage. That's good of you. You can do better.' In whatever he does at home or outside the home, first look for a point of appreciation before you wisely suggest essential adjustments in his poor areas of performance.

5. Faithfulness: Men desire women who keep to them. The importance of faithfulness cannot be over-emphasized. If you are the type who keeps other lovers or dates, you will be seen as someone who is not fit to be a wife. Give yourself to one man before and after marriage.

Lastly, make yourself loveable. Being loveable is associated to good virtue, of which the above are part.