If you are dating, you must have experienced a bad one where you thought about escaping through the back door. Maybe you're dissapointed with her looks if it was a blind date, maybe her interests and stories are boring you, maybe she is too self-obsessed, but maybe you are just not a good match. There are many possible reasons for a date to go wrong, but only a few good solutions for that situation. These few guidelines might help you get out of bad date in a most pleasant and fair way.
First of all, if things are not going well and you are not enjoying, there is no reason to fake that everything is great. Use the direct approach and just say how you feel. If the date is not working out for you, there is a great chance that she feels the same way. But, we cannot assume that with certainty.
Honesty is always a good idea. Do it in a way that you do not offend your date or hurt her feelings. Be polite and say something like ''I am sorry and I don't want to seem like a jerk but I don't feel this is going well'', or ''I really appreciate your time and the fact that you accepted to see me, but I don't think we match well''. It won't be pleasant, but, that's life. She may appreciate your honesty even if she doesn't feel the same way.
Never send the wrong signals, especially if you are not interested and you don't want to take it to the next level. If you don't wish to see her again, do not give her reason to assume that you do. You don't have to say, ''This was our last date'' or ''I don't want to see you again'', but don't say what you don't mean. Something like ''I just want to be friends''.
Don't let her hold your hand and you should also avoid kissing her. Because of this situations, be very careful from the beginning with providing your personal contact info. If she is desperate or little crazy, she may give you a hard time over phone, or maybe even come to your home and bother you.
Plain disappearing and routines like fake emergency phone call, headache or illness sure are easy way out from a bad date, but sure are not in a good maner. You want to be a man, and handle this awkward situation with grace and tact, don't you? And even if you don't know about concept of karma, you sure know that what goes around - comes around. You should always keep in mind that the girl you are on a date with is also human and has feelings.
But you should also have in mind that you don't have to suffer in an unpleasant situation because of someone else. Be sure about how you feel and just thank her, say a good-night and leave as an honest and polite person.
You don't have to think about this situation a lot and over-analyze it. The fact is that some people match better, some do not at all. After this, you will appreciate more when you meet the girl you have a lot in common with.
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