Dating Tips for Men - Don't Bother Trying to Eliminate Rejection When You Can Minimize It

It's pretty common for guys to want to know if there is anything that they can do so that they can eliminate rejection from women. While it is easy to understand why you may want to do that, because rejection isn't the best feeling in the world, the fact is - you can't. The only way to eliminate it 100 percent is to just stop trying and I don't think that you want to do that. You may not get rejected any more, but you also won't get accepted, either. A much better and realistic approach is to learn to minimize it.

How do you do that?

1) Stop approaching women who are obviously not interested in you.

You can try to make a certain woman like you all that you want to, and it probably still won't happen is she is giving you signs that she is just not into you at all. A lot of men will get caught up in the "challenge" of trying to make a certain woman who doesn't want anything to do with them in that way like them, but you know what? All that does is set you up for rejection from her at some point in time. Instead, stop approaching women who are too cold and start approaching those that are already a little bit "warmed" up.

2) Become better at making conversation with women.

It's so much easier to get a woman to go out on a date with you AFTER you have already won her over with a little bit of clever conversation. She is already warmed up by that point, so it's not much of a stretch to ask her out on a date. I can't believe how many guys will make a couple of minutes worth of bad conversation and then ask a woman out and then wonder why they didn't get a Yes. You have to win her over a little bit with your conversation first and THEN ask for the date.

3) You need to know how to read a woman so that you know when the time is right to ask her out.

This is another GOOD way to reduce the risk of rejection. When you can totally read a woman's body language and other mannerisms to know if she likes you or not, then you will know the PERFECT time to ask her out. When you can do this, the odds that you get a Yes from her will jump through the roof.