Friday, December 31, 2010

How to Tell If a Man Sees You As His Future - Details That Would Confirm Your Status in His Life

There's just too much gambling when it comes to the game called love. Sometimes, women are so consumed with their feelings that they don't see the evident signs of a man who will only be playing around. If you want to see how you fair in his future, here are 7 ways that you could tell:

This man values your opinion.

This man will surely not ignore your views, in fact, he has a high regard for them. He's truly serious with you if he is mindful of your thoughts and opinions.

He is your ultimate protector.

If he could only stay up all night making sure that no bugs bite you as you sleep, he would gladly do it! He will also be the most chivalrous guy because he values you as his queen. He will make sure that your desires are met because you're very important to him.

You will hear him discuss about the future.

This man won't shun the topics of marriage and commitment. He will, in fact, welcome that you both discuss these things. You will also hear statements like - "I want you to become the mother of my children" or "I want to grow old with you."

He'll want to give you the best.

This man will brave anything and everything just to make sure that you're happy and contented. He believes that you're his responsibility and so he should take care of you. He also sees you as the fragile person that he has to take care of or else, he could easily lose you.

He has already taken you home to his parents.

He surely won't be hiding you to his folks if he's proud of you as his girlfriend. He will actually want you to meet them the soonest time possible. This is one of the ultimate tests on a guy's real feelings towards a woman. Meeting his folks is tantamount to saying - she's my future wife.

He will let you in on the financial aspect of his life.

Since you'll be his future wife anyway, he feels that he might as well let you see how his finances run. He will tell you how much he earns, how much he has on his savings account, what are his assets, and what are the liabilities that he will be taking into the marriage.

He no longer sees himself as a single man.

This guy will go about telling everyone that he's already committed to you. Others may even tease him and ask him when he's going to get married. And when they do this, you would see the pleasant reaction on his face because he's okay with the idea of marrying you!



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Wednesday, December 29, 2010

How Can He Move on So Quickly? Don't Be Disheartened! Here Are Some Explanations to Help You Cope

You've just about felt comfortable in this relationship because you like the guy. But you're taken unawares much too soon. You guy has decided to move on and you're disheartened. There are, however, some significant explanations that you could reason out to cope with this.

His feelings were shallow
The guy's feelings for you were shallow. In all probability he was just filling up a stop gap situation while his actual girlfriend has been out of town. The fact is that you had not spent much time with him to realize that he has a permanent girlfriend.

Not yet ready to be serious
Perhaps this guy is not yet ready to be serious or get committed to one person just yet. Perhaps he just wants to fool around and date girls without being serious. Lucky for you this happened before you got too involved and ended having a heart break.

Dissatisfied with your response
Perhaps your response to him has been cool and too restrained for him to handle. He may have wanted you to be by his side more often than you could spare time to do. This must have dissatisfied him and prompted him to move on.

Intentions of making you jealous
Do you sense jealousy as being the underlying factor of your guy moving on so quickly? It is very likely that he wanted to make you jealous about something so he decided to go out or date another girl. Perhaps he saw you with someone else and is getting it out on you.

Have you ignored him
Perhaps at some point of time or probably more often than acceptable, you have ignored him or well he may have felt like you did so! So he decided to move on rather than get hurt. You will need to recollect if you had something to do with his moving on.

Have you hurt him
Take time off to reflect whether you have hurt him in any way at some point of time. May be your manner of speaking or behaving with him was not acceptable and you hurt him beyond measure. So he decided to leave you and move on ever so quickly!

May be you have not matched up to him
A rather difficult aspect to accept, but a bitter truth that you must realize, has caused him to leave you and move on so quickly. You probably did not try to see what has been your shortcoming and to improve it, so he gave up on you eventually.



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Tuesday, December 28, 2010

What's Causing My Boyfriend's Indifference and Distance Towards Me - Learn Why He Cooled Off!

Are you devastated and afraid by the way your boyfriend has been behaving of late? Has he been ignoring you or neglecting you? There could be plenty of reasons for his behavior. Take a look at these reasons cited below and find out why he seems to have cooled off.

He could have found you boring
Too many times a man has gone all out to get the woman he has been chasing only to find out that she is not what he expected. If you just seem very attractive and too good to be true from afar, he could have found you really boring once he came to know you better and that is why he has cooled off!

You seem too serious for his liking
Check back and see if you were too serious in his company. Is he the type of person who is constantly on the look out for adventure? If he is impulsive and spontaneous and found that you were too much of an introvert and too cautious for his liking, his ardor must have cooled!

You are trying to get him to commit
Even if he has been dating you for some time now, it could be that he is not yet ready to make a commitment to you. If you have been trying to get him to commit or marry you, he is obviously going to try and get out of the relationship. You will have to give him more time and stop trying to get serious.

He was never serious about you in the first place
Many guys are just into the dating scene and are happy being single. This means that any sign of you expecting him to commit to a long term relationship would make him lose interest and he would try to back away from you. This proves that he was never serious about you and hence wants to walk away.

He is attracted to another woman
If he has lost interest in you and is already attracted to another woman, he will try to ignore and neglect you. This is a sure sign that he is not the serious place and is just a player. He is trying to let you know that he is moving on and is no longer interested.

He is angry with you and wants to teach you a lesson
If you have been mean and even cheated on him in the past, it could be that he is still smarting about it and wants to pay you back. Hence, he is indifferent and distant and hopes that you hurt as much as he did when you put him through the same sort of agony.

He has found you wanting and wants to back off
Don't jump to conclusions and assume that he is as much in love with you as you are with him. If he has found you wanting and feels that you are in fact boring and nothing like what he expected, his disappointment could make him lose interest in you and he might try to get out of the relationship.



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Mobile Matchmaking and Mobile Dating

Currently, there are close to 4 billion mobile phone users in the world, many of whom are single and seeking love by way of the mobile phone. This new way of connectivity will change the mobile matchmaking and mobile dating opportunities forever. This new platform will allow members who register on traditional matchmaking and dating sites, to search others via hand held devices such as iPhones and the BlackBerry, providing they are mobile ready.

Some important points to remember when signing up for a mobile matchmaking or mobile dating site. There are differences between the two.

First, mobile dating sites are totally automated and help the member identify a small section of a much larger pool of candidates that might attract them. This is the most economical and efficient way to find your true love via an online dating site. Members enter basic information and away they go as they create a profile and begin searching based on selected preferences.

On the other hand, mobile matchmaking sites may go one step further. To insure that members are marriage minded and not just looking for a date on Saturday night, these mobile matchmaking sites may ask more information and require prior approval before given access to its data base.

While requiring more information for a mobile matchmaking site will detract many who have no intention of maintaining a committed relationship, there is still no guarantee that your iphones will generate that tall, dark, handsome marriage minded man who appeared when you completed your search criteria.

Always meet for the first time in a public location, such as a coffee bar, restaurant or even the public library. Don't give out any personal information until you have both agreed to take the online encounter to a first date, a second and third date, ultimately leading towards a committment minded relationship that results in marriage.



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Monday, December 27, 2010

How to Make a New Man Kiss You - 7 Tricks to Help You Do It Without Coming Across As Too Pushy

You have a great new man in your life and have wonderful chemistry with him, you like hanging out with him and often think of ways to feel his lips on yours. The guy may be shy or uncertain to take the initiative, in that case you can encourage him to kiss you in number of ways.

Send positive signals
Do you know what kind of vibes you are sending when you are attracted to a new guy? Your body language and gestures should send signals to suggest that it is alright to kiss, he could be unsure of your feelings which may be the reason he is holding back.

Let him know that you like him
While hanging out with a new guy just let him know things you like about him in a natural and subtle way. When you say it in words it helps him to understand how you feel and you also make him feel comfortable. He may not show it but it pleases him no end when you say this.

Talk intimately
An intimate conversation where you sit close to him and whisper in his ears sensually is a great way to initiate. Talk slowly so that he needs to lean forward, touch him lightly while talking; all this should arouse his desires in him to kiss you. While at it you can say something nice about his tee or the perfume and get him interested.

Make subtle eye contact
One of the best signals you can send across is without saying anything and let your eyes send the message as effectively. Lock your eyes in his for a few seconds and shift your gaze to his lips to show what you are thinking, surely the guy will get the hint.

Make physical contact with him
When your body language sends encouraging signals that it is okay if he kisses you, like touching him while talking; he is assured of your reaction when he kisses you.

Make sure you smell good
Stimulate his sense by feeling fresh and smelling good and make sure to have a fresh breath if you want your man to kiss you. Go easy on perfumes and use the natural fragrance of your lotion or body wash to make him want to kiss you.

Get flirty
Flirt with him and stir the conversation around kissing and incite him verbally to get him to kiss you. Let him imagine how it feels to lock lips with you to kindle his desires.



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Online Dating and First Contact: Managing Email and Phone

When we post an online dating profile, we do so to excite interest and move the reader of it to contact us. By email, by instant message. In effect, they are self-promotional "marketing" pieces...some shamelessly so. No one likely to be reading this post will be surprised by that observation. There! We've just blown the lid of the obvious, someone is sure to be muttering as they read this. But bear with me...I have some dots to connect.

Let's start by clearing up a misnomer. We don't date online, as my readers know I'm fond of saying. We MEET online and take it offline as soon as possible, consistent with safety. For most of us, that means email(s) and phone contact, followed by a meeting, if you "click." This is all stuff anyone involved in online dating should know how to do and do very well. These are predictable, necessary steps on the way to meeting. So it never ceases to amaze me at how many women seem to leave so much of this phase to chance.

What's in the first email and the first phone call often determine if there will be a second. So if you want to stack the deck in your favor, read on. I'm going to give you one man's opinion on how to get an edge over your competition. Bear in mind, I'm not talking about every man. I'm talking about men who are interested in something that lasts. In fact, if you do this right, you will limit the number of men only interested in casual relationships...read that relationships of convenience. What follows isn't bullet proof, but it will definitely help you "up" your game.

Let's start with your first email to him. Whether you're responding to him or initiating contact based on his profile, you're signaling interest and trying to interest him. Two different situations, here.

1. If you're responding to an email from him, I would take your hint from the tone of his email. Respond to both the email and whatever stands out in his profile essay.

2. If you're initiating contact, you're (hopefully) doing so based on something in the profile that caught your eye because it is largely in line with your objectives. A flirtatious/teasing email is your best bet, unless "his" profile has a serious tone.

3. A great first email not only signals and gains interest, it makes the sender stand out for the right reasons. It show that you invested enough time to convey thoughtfulness or cleverness along with it. That investment of time is flattering, even if the email itself does not explicitly flatter. And yes, ladies, they are flattered and it does matter...for all the same reasons it matters to you.

If all goes well via email, the phone is next.

1. If you're ready to move to that step, don't wait for him to ask. Put it out there, invite him to call and give him your cellular phone. I have had women do that toward the end of my online meeting experiences and I never declined and never regretted making the call, even if it didn't work out. Not every woman is comfortable doing this, so if you do it, you immediately stand out...favorably in most men's minds. That's a great start, but more and more women are becoming comfortable taking the initiative, so to really stand out, you need to do even more.

2. So here's where you can really break out of the pack. When you give him your number, give him a best time(s) to call and make it a time when you're usually available, relaxed and content. You're trying to avoid him getting voicemail. Knowing when he is most likely to call also helps you in being ready for it when it comes. Have his profile available and a few questions you really want to ask him. They should help you improve on what you know of him, without putting him on the defensive.

3. Pick some things his profile suggests he's likely to be comfortable with. Be prepared to answer the complementary question, should he ask. Doing this will not only help the conversation flow and put both of you at ease. Don't feel like you must ask those questions, if the conversation is flowing. Just go with it. The profile and your questions are to give your conversation structure if it doesn't occur organically. Often just getting both of you started will be all it takes.

What this preparation does is set both of you up for success. It doesn't guarantee a connection and you shouldn't draw any immediate conclusions from success if you both have it. What you have done is helped both of you get past that initial awkwardness we all feel the first time we connect with someone new. It may go nowhere, but even if it doesn't, it won't feel as awkward the next time and you'll be that much better when the law of averages catches up with you and everything "clicks." Whether it results in something enduring or not, you're improving on your ability to orchestrate smoothness in your initial communications...among the most important skills we can have in online meeting.



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Saturday, December 25, 2010

Why Do Guys Go Cold After the First Date - The Biggest Reasons Why They Do a 180-Degree Turn

Guys are often most interested in a woman during the first few dates. But if the first date wasn't such a success, then he would surely turn cold. So what makes the first date such a disaster that some men don't want to see the girl once more?

Some men feel that the chase was cut short.
Perhaps he felt that you should have made him pursue you a bit longer. But when you suddenly said yes on his invite, then he felt that you were too easy. The only way that you could make him believe that there's still some amount of pursuit going on is to don an appearance of mystery.

Everything went wrong during your first date.
What could have been a romantic date turned into a market-like setting with all the people talking at the top of their lungs. Perhaps the food that you ordered made his stomach churn; perhaps the air conditioning wasn't too good; or there are so many other factors that could make your date a total wreck.

Sex happened soon after.
If you gave yourself away on the first date, then you probably couldn't blame the man if he'll think that you do this all the time. This is why it's important to maintain your distance during the first few dates so that he will get to know you as a person before getting physically intimate.

You blabbed on about you, you, and guess what - more of YOU.
This man probably spent hours listening to you and your life's achievements. Hey, you have to remember that he probably has achievements and other information that he wants to share, too. dating should be a give and take process, where the pleasure should come from both partners.

Your date burned a hole in his pocket.
He could have been turned off by the fact that you let him pay for everything during your date. Even if he was the one who asked you out, that doesn't give you the right to let him pay for every cent that you both splurged. Split the cost with the guy and he'll surely be impressed.

You discussed exclusive dating way too soon.
The first date isn't the proper moment to discuss commitment or exclusive dating! This is just the gateway, so to speak. Never pressure him to get into a commitment with you on the very first date. This would surely scare any man away!

His expectations of you weren't met.
Perhaps his friends talked highly of you that he expected too much. His friends might have said you looked gorgeous, yet in his taste, you're not. Ouch, you might say. But if a guy is dismayed in any way, he will surely not prolong his agony.



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Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Best Spots To Pick Up Women

In your journey to become an expert at picking up women, you've worked on improving your appearance, your self-confidence, heck, your life in general... now you are completely ready to take the next step - meeting women.

Probably your next question is where do you go about doing this? Where exactly do you meet women anyway? It is fun for me to question long-time couples about where they met. The answers vary from a safari in Africa to having grown up next door to one another.

However, those answers aren't necessarily going to help you when you want to know where to go to meet women. Here's the top three places I recommend guys go to meet women.

1. The neighborhood coffee shop. There are a few different reasons I have this at the top of the list. One - it's in your neighborhood and so the chance of meeting someone with similar values and styles is increased. If you have a big sprawling house in the suburbs, then you are going to meet women who like that area for whatever reason. If you live downtown, then the women you meet at the neighborhood coffee shop are going to share similar interests and values, which drew them to this area. In addition, it is a casual, environment where it is natural for strangers to talk to one another. The third reason I love coffee shops it that they are usually places where repeat customers go, which gives you a chance to gradually build up to asking a woman for a date. For example, if you see an intriguing woman at 9:30 a.m. on a Monday, make sure you are at that coffee shop the next week at the same time. During the first encounter smile and say hello and see what her reaction is. If it is very positive, you can initiate a conversation right then. If she smiles back, but seems shy, make sure you show up again the following week and keep the momentum building.

2. The market. I live in a big city and happen to live near a university. Because I have a main squeeze, I actually try to avoid going to the market on Sunday nights, because it is packed with single college kids shopping. It is a virtual meat market. There are hot looking young people everywhere. If me and my gal ever split, I'd make sure to schedule all my shopping for Sunday nights. It is easy to start a conversation. Get next to someone and ask her opinion about any product in front of you. A super easy way to strike up a conversation.

3. The Laundromat. I'm pretty sure my gal and I had a few misses, but close encounters, because after we met, we both discovered that the previous year we had frequented the same tiny Laundromat in our big city. Even if you have a washer and dryer at home, you can take advantage of the Laundromat's large machines to do blankets or whatever or just lie and say your machine at home is broken. Dress casually but nice, bring an interesting book or journal and plant yourself at a Laundromat near a college or near a known singles area.



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Friday, December 17, 2010

Great Conversation Starters For Your First Date

Okay so you have not been out in ages and finally you are going out on a date, but if you have been off of the dating scene for months or even years then you want to make sure that your first date goes okay. Well as we all know conversation can either make or break a first date so here are some great conversation ideas for your first date.

Firstly you need to find some common ground, in theory a good first date would be a movie followed by a meal, breaking the ice by talking about the movie, but people tend to think back to when they were in college, when they went to movies so nobody could see them in the back row! So maybe consider a some live music, the theatre, watching a play or a sport you may have in common.

Thing to avoid talking about at all costs are religion and politics. These can kill a date off within minutes, result in major arguments and have been known to start small wars. Also steer well clear of sexual preferences on the first few dates. Being into bondage is one thing, dropping it in to conversation over a bowl of soup is not!

A few good conversation starters are detailed below, all of which are designed as ice breakers to get conversation flowing and not the start of chatting the other person up.

1.) "Look around this room. Who do you think will be dead before the years out?" - This is a great opening one if you're in a restaurant and "People watching"

2.) "Have you lived in this area long?" - Simple but effective, if the answer is yes you can ask them where they grew up, went to school etc. If it is no, then you can ask them what drew them to the area.

3.) Travel? - Ask them where they have been and what is their favourite place. Nearly everyone loves traveling and likes to talk about where they have been to. A sure fire ice breaker on a date.

4.) Work? - "If you were to live your life again what would be your ideal job?" This gives the other person a great deal of scope and is highly likely to result in some form of humorous response breaking the ice. The question is likely to then be asked of you, and hey presto your conversation is off and running

Lastly always be yourself, the other person is human as well so talk as though you normally would. With the Internet and online dating it is now easy to find a date, particularly useful if you move in to a new area with no friends. For more dating advice please see my resource box below.



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Wednesday, December 15, 2010

How Can I Figure Out If a Man Is Emotionally Open Towards Me or Not? These Tips Will Answer This

Figuring out men is not an easy task. But it is not an impossible task either. All you need to do is know the signs to look for when you are trying to figure out is he is emotionally connected to you or not.

He communicates with you openly
When a man begins to get emotionally connected to you he begins to communicate with you more openly. He will not be just trying to impress you at all times but will be feeling free to express more clearly what he wants as well in the relationship.

He is always watching out for you
If a man is emotionally connected with you he will be there for you. You will know that he is the one person who is always going to be watching out for you. If you need advice then he will be the one to offer you an unbiased one.

He is concerned about your happiness and success
When a man begins to feel emotionally connected to you he begins to get concerned about your happiness and her success. If you see that your man tries to keep you happy at all times by doing sweet things and is genuinely happy for your success then he is emotionally connected to you.

He listens to you
As a man develops an emotional connection with you he involuntarily begins to pay attention to what you are saying. His interest in you will go beyond the physical and he will begin to take an intellectual interest in you. To understand how you think and feel your man will begin to listen to you with a lot more attention.

He begins to trust you with him intimate feelings
If a man is getting emotionally connected to you he will be able to trust you a whole lot more. It is mainly his emotional investment with which he will trust you and will feel safe talking to you and sharing his insecurities, fears and disappointments.

He spends more time with her when he could be doing other things
When a man gets emotionally connected to you he begins to spend a lot of time with her. In fact at times he will prefer to spend time with you instead of doing stuff that he normally wouldn't give up.

He works hard to keep the relationship strong
Finally, when a man begins to feel emotionally connected to you he tries to work hard to keep the relationship strong. He listens to what you want and makes the changes accordingly.



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Tuesday, December 14, 2010

7 Signs He Is Starting to See You As More Than a Friend! Discover If He Wants You As His Lover

Having a guy friend means you have a pal who can honestly tell you that your outfit doesn't fit you at all. Guys are more frank about such things while girls tend to sugarcoat their sentences. Having a good guy pal by your side is something great but what if he starts seeing you in a different way? How can you tell if he's transforming into someone nice or he's already interested in you?

He'll tend to notice the things that he ignored before.
This guy is now more prone to see all the things that he didn't pay attention to before. He'll now praise you when it comes to your choice of outfit, your perfume, even the mere opinions that you give.

He'll hold your hand like he never did before.
If a guy starts seeing you as more than a friend, he'll want to have more physical contact with you. Perhaps he'll slowly put his arm around you like he used to, but now, there seems to be more feelings or passion as he does it. He'll also caress your hand as he holds it in his.

He will have an appreciative look for you.
Where all your other common friends are just common sights to him, with you, a smile seems to automatically creep onto his face the moment he sees you. His eyes will lock with yours and he'll try to communicate what he's actually feeling.

He'll break away from the group.
If there are any group parties that you have to attend, he will now make sure that you will have alone moments with him. It would seem like he doesn't want to share you with the group anymore because he wants to get to know you on a deeper level.

He seems to be more interested in you now.
He pays attention when you want to say something and he asks so many questions about you. He will also be asking your best female friends about your likes and dislikes.

He seems to want to protect you.
If he didn't care whether you walked on the safe side of the road before, now, this guy is a reformed man! He'll want to shield you from the onrushing traffic. He'll also stand up for you if there's a need to.

He suddenly seems to flirt around you.
If you see your guy friend starting to look at you differently, or if he makes gestures that he didn't do before, then he's definitely onto something. See if he pretends to brush off something from your cheek or if he holds you closer during a slow dance - these are things that he never did before so now that he's doing them, it could only mean that he's already attracted to you.



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How to Teasingly Flirt With a Guy and Get Him Attracted to You? 7 Tips You Need to Know Here

If you are a woman who believes that you have the power to attract a guy, then you probably already know that teasing is a great part of this. In order to let him look your way, you have to do some subtle moves that are sure to charm him. Here are 7 of the top moves that would make a guy fall for you in no time:

Tease with your eyes.
Remember how everyone says that the eyes are the windows to a man's soul? Well you can use your eyes to your advantage by subtly flirting with them. Try looking at him from under your beautiful, curly lashes. See how he'd react the moment you look with longing at him.

Tease him with your sensuous lips.
A lot of guys have fallen for women simply by seeing them lick their lips sexily! Even the way you drink from your champagne glass can make him feel wanted and titillated. Add the surefire move of biting your lower lip and he's already caught in your trap!

Tease with your hair.
It is said that men find women with long hair to be sexy. If you trust this notion, then you can go ahead and wear your hair down. Simply flip it when he's looking at you and he'll definitely be blown away. Just make sure that you do this as sexily as you can and not in a manner that would make him think that - you absolutely need a haircut!

Tease with your hips.
What makes a woman distinctly feminine is the way she is shaped on her hips. You can capitalize on your female asset - your hips - by swaying them as sexily as you could. With the right rhythm, you would be able to make every man look your way as you enter a room.

Tease him with the clothes that you wear.
If you want to prove to him that you're sensual, then you've got to don clothes that depict that. Don't even think that he'll think sexy thoughts of you if your skirt goes all the way down to your ankle! Make sure to invest on sexy clothing that complements your body shape. Buy some lingerie too so that you won't be caught wearing grandma panties.

Tease him with your perfume.
Man thinks that he's no longer dependent on his primal instincts - nothing could be more wrong. You're a woman so it's wise to invest on sexy scents that would surely captivate your man. Invest on a bottle of perfume that is uniquely you. Combine this with a fresh-smelling breath and he'd definitely go mushy.

Tease him with your words.
Play your words right - don't go for cheap, dirty talk. All it takes to be perceived as a sexy woman is to be intelligent and witty in a conversation. And when it comes to sexual innuendos, it doesn't mean that you can't have them - just make sure to do it subtly so you wouldn't appear cheap.



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Monday, December 13, 2010

Do You Want a Guy to Really Like You When He Has Already Rejected You Once? Learn What to Do

If you've gotten the shock of your life by being rejected by a man, what do you think you could still do to make the situation work to your advantage? Making him still want you after he dumped you isn't impossible at all. Consider these 7 hot tips:

Moping isn't for you.
What this guy probably expects you to do is for you to turn into a hermit! Well, prove to him that he didn't even matter. This time, let him have the shock of his life as he sees you partying and dating other men!

Give yourself some due reward.
You have to believe that the confident woman is still in there and she needs to be pampered after receiving this blow. You can choose to buy some new wardrobes. Let his mouth fly wide open as he sees you in your stunning, new collection!

Let other guys crowd all around you.
Heck, imagine what he would think once he sees other men going crazy over you! This will make him think but one thing - "I just gave up on prize catch!"

Treat him nicely, still.
Having rejected you is no excuse to be nasty with him. Be sweet and friendly to him and all other people around you. Prove to him that you can take rejection as a mature person. Don't go all bitter on him by ignoring him when he's around.

Make it more painful for him by dating his friends.
Why not get back at him by dating his closest friends? And imagine the shock that he's going to get as his guy friends start talking about how wonderful you are! Just be careful as you come up with this scheme - don't get killed in the process!

Even if he comes back...
...if he ever apologizes for rejecting you and he comes back to woo you, make it extra hard for him to win you this time. Prove to him that you're not an easy target. Ignore his primary attempts, let him work hard at getting a date with you.

Show him that you've already moved on.
If you've been hurt badly by what he did, then you can choose to let go of this guy. Make yourself unattainable if you want to get back at him. And just when he's drooling to have you back, tell him that you've chosen to move on and that you enjoy what you have in your life right now.



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Saturday, December 11, 2010

How to Be a Tempting Woman to Men? 7 Ways to Drive Men Crazy With Desire to Be With You

A woman can tempt men and drive them crazy with desire by number of ways. Their body language, the way they talk all contribute to a woman being tempting to men. If you are looking for ways to tempt men, try the following tactics.

Have an attitude
Of course outer beauty is important, but men get turned on by the women who have attitude. The first step is that you believe in yourself as being a temptress, let them know that he has to value you and that you take no nonsense, this quality will be very tempting to men.

Get sexy outfits
Right attitude coupled with great sexy outfit will make you stand out and make an impression. Wear dresses that flatter your body and enhance your figure and see men having tough time resisting you and they will want to get to know you. Men need to be interested first and dressing right is a great way to get noticed.

Be stylish and sharp
For the men to be drawn to you, you should turn up being stylish and be intelligent enough to keep them hooked. Keep yourself aware of current issues so that you can have an intelligent conversation with them and keep them on edge with your remarks. Your ability to converse meaningfully makes you desirable.

Have sense of humor
Let sense of humor be your best ornament. Apart from looking great and dressing well, your sense of humor will make you more attractive and someone who is fun to be with. Men are drawn to such personality.

Work on your individuality
You can be as tempting you want to be if you learn how to conduct yourself with elegance. Attract them with your charm and acquaint them with your talent and achievements. No one is more tempting and desirous than a woman who is attractive and has substance to her personality.

Use your body language
Use your body language to your advantage to attract and be tempting to men. The eye contact, the way your smile, the way you use your hands the right way with confidence shows how sexy you are and men will not be able to resist your charm.

Be different and in control
You have to be different to stand out and make other women pale in comparison. Be better turned up and intelligent who men find attractive. In your quest to be tempting to men make sure you are in control of yourself. This makes men want you more and find you more tempting when you are in control.



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Monday, December 6, 2010

Being Superior, Being the Prize, and Winning Her

Before you knew about the secrets of dating, you probably think that the best way to a woman's heart is by being the "nice guy". Over the years, you have probably tried to land a date by putting on this nice guy character and over and over again you always get rejected. Then you find yourself wondering what is wrong with you. Since no one is there to explain all these phenomena to you, you grew up believing that you are inadequate and that nobody is attracted to you because you are a loser.

Due to this feeling of inadequacy, you have the tendency to idolize and patronize the girl who has feelings for you. You do anything she asks; you give up all your aspirations and dreams just to please her. You may think that you are doing this in order to win her over you. What you do not know is that you are actually pushing her away. Why is that possible? That is because when you do everything she says you are actually relinquishing your superiority. To her eyes, you are no longer the price and your value just dropped.

This is the very reason why you always end up being rejected when you are being Mr. Nice Guy. You see, Mr. Nice Guy is not the character you need to win her. If you want to win her over you must make her feel that you are valuable, that you are superior and that you are the prize. Do not make her feel that you are depending on her because in the end, she will manipulate you and you will lose you your dominance over her.

However, if you want to dominate her you must dominate yourself first. This means that you must be happy with what you have and you are capable of using what you have in order to become the prize.



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Sunday, December 5, 2010

7 Signs That He Likes You in a Serious Way! Now You Will Know What He Really Feels Towards You

If you see a guy who you really like you definitely want to know if he is romantically interested in you. Here are a few signs that will help you figure out if he is romantically interested in you especially if you feel you are getting mixed signals.

You find him calling you a lot
You will see that when a guy is romantically interested in you he will call you a lot. The calls will be random and will mostly be without an agenda. If you find your man calling you to give you a general update of things that have been going on that day then he is romantically interested in you.

You catch him staring at you
When a guy is romantically interested in a woman he involuntarily keeps looking at her. You will see that this guy will keep looking in your direction especially when he thinks you are not looking.

He wants to help you at all times
If a guy wants to be your man Friday and wants to help you out at all times even when you don't ask for his help then he is definitely interested in you romantically. He is trying hard to create a good impression on you and wants to become indispensable for you.

He takes active interest in things that you like to do
When a guy is romantically interested in you then he will take an active interest in things that you like to do. This will be an effort to get to know you better so that he can suitably impress you when the time comes.

He sacrifices things that he likes to do to be with you
If you see a guy sacrificing his time to make sure that he is able to spend that time with you then he is definitely romantically interested in you. Especially if he sacrifices the time that he dedicates to his boy activities then his interest in you is purely romantic.

He shows a lot of respect towards you
A man respects a woman that he likes. If you see that this guy is respectful towards your views and opinions then he likes you a lot. If you see him standing up for you to defend your views and opinions then his interest is romantic in nature.

He keeps trying to take you out
Finally, if you find a guy asking you out for some activity or the other of your choice then his interest in you is romantic. He is trying to establish a connection here so that you too begin to feel for him the way he feels for you.



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Wednesday, December 1, 2010

What Kind of Women Do Guys Like? Here Is a Sneak Peak Into What Men Truly Prefer in a Woman

It can be a little confusing when you want to figure out what kinds of women do men really like. While all men are different there are some traits that all sane men look for in women. Here are some of the things men like in women

They like a woman who is sure of herself
The first thing that a man sees in a woman is her level of confidence. A man wants to be with that kind of a woman who is sure of who she is and isn't scared to admit who and what she is. This confidence is what makes her most attractive to a man.

They like women who can be 'women'
No matter how evolved women become men do not find those women attractive who have to assert this fact at all times. A woman who is sure of herself will never have a problem with a man being protective and chivalrous. Men like those women who have found a balance in their evolved selves and their femininity.

They like women who can trust
A man also likes that woman who he can trust and who has the ability to trust him. A woman' security is reflected in the way that she can trust her man. If she makes his life a lie detection test then he wouldn't want her.

The like women who are understanding and caring
Men also like those women who have the ability to be understanding and have a tendency to care for others. That shows her nurturing side and at some level all men need to be nurtured and pampered. There qualities assure a man that a woman will look after him.

They like women who understand and need space
A lot of women tend to take over all the space in a man's life when he gets into a relationship with her. That makes his life suffocating. Men like those women who need space themselves and are willing to give the men in their life space without making them feel guilty.

They like women who are not control freaks
Some women morph into controlling dictators the moment a man is a part of their life. These women get in and out of relationships pretty fast as men don't want to be controlled. If you want to be a woman that guys like then you have to make sure that you are not a control freak.

They like women who are spontaneous and fun
Finally, men like those women who can have uninhibited and unadulterated fun. She has to be spontaneous and have a sense of humor to be the one that all men want.



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Be Yourself and Attract Your Kind of Woman

Life is on its own the perfect reality of what anybody can get. To get the fullest of it, there is a need for you to be yourself. It makes things easier and allows things move well for you. When relating with a person there is every tendency that one person might be hiding his true nature, but it won't take long for it to be discovered. For you to have a mutually balanced co-existence, you have to be your real self. You are a unique individual. The law of attraction is inevitable because you will get back what you have. This article shows how you can be yourself and still get the best out of a woman life is on its own the perfect reality of what anybody can get. To get the fullest of it, there is a need for you to be yourself. It makes things easier and allows things move well for you. When relating with a person there is every tendency that one person might be hiding his true nature, but it won't take long for it to be discovered. For you to have a mutually balanced co-existence, you have to be your real self. You are a unique individual. The law of attraction is inevitable because you will get back what you have. This article shows how you can be yourself and still get the best out of a woman you desire to have.

When a man wants to have a woman to love, he expects to get it. But the first thing he has to do is to avoid creating an impression that is not real. What makes you lose focus of what you want is if you start acting up and creating an unrealistic personality. This can be dangerous because when a woman discovers the real person in you, she walks away. Knowing that there is a strong quality a woman has; the ability to understand things well. Know that nothings work well when the foundation is all deceit. Always be yourself and influence your likes.

When you want a woman you like, don't go pursuing her. Allow things to flow naturally. There is no formula to be applied when searching for your dream woman. Where ever you are, whatever you do and say is just enough to drive the search for you. That doesn't necessarily mean you have to start moving from place to another. You mustn't be going to cinemas, mall, parks and parties all with the intention to see what you want. When you condition your mind towards such avenues, you are going to put yourself under pressure and it won't give you any result. Any woman who discovers your tactics will definitely play along with you and eventually leaves you.

Don't be easily predictable. Don't come out openly to show the world what you are searching for. Once you open up a woman may manipulate your heart with the hope that you are getting what you want. Don't spell out what you want to avoid falling into danger. Don't do things to expect a woman to feel sorry for or have sympathy for you. This will make her take you as a man who lacks self-will and integrity. Being diplomatic in your dealings with a woman won't help you at all. Be a man who is true to his words and stands his ground. A woman will like to know more when she discovers something unique about you.

Change your pattern of thinking and reasoning towards women. Have a good mind for a woman and good things will come your way. Live your life well and with hope that things will work itself out. If you go out in full force thinking that you will get woman through that means, I bet you will fall into the wrong hands. Treat the women around you with care and respect. You ever can tell where your star will shine from.
Be sure you know what you want. There is a difference between what you want and what you think you want. Be yourself and allow things to unfold it.



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Monday, November 29, 2010

How to Become a Super Tempting Woman to Men! Here Is How to Effortlessly Attract Them to You

There are ways for a woman to be a tempting woman to men simply by the way she walks, talks and carries herself. Her very personality oozes sugar and honey that men find difficult to resist. These are some ways to be a tempting woman to men.

Sweep men off their feet
You can very well sweep men off their feet by your charm and personality. This means an all round appeal that you can have starting from face, figure, dress to poise and intelligence. This all round allure that you have will make you a tempting woman to men.

An exciting wardrobe
To further make you a tempting woman you must have an exciting wardrobe of clothes that will compliment you and your figure to the maximum. The styles should make you look even more gorgeous and beautiful. Men will find it difficult to resist you.

The real you
Men see only the outer beauty of face and figure from afar. But when they approach you and know what you do and how far in life you have progressed, then only will they see the other side of you. You have to be more outgoing and communicative to be a tempting woman to men.

Match up to men's expectations
Keeping up to date with the latest happenings around and general knowledge and information of sports and other news will further make you a tempting woman to men. Men think very highly of women who are able to converse with ease on such subjects.

A woman of substance
Being different from what the other women are like will make you stand out apart. So right from the looks to the dress and clothes and intellectual capacity you should be outstanding and prove to be a woman of substance. This will make you a tempting woman to men.

Confidence and self assurance
Display some confidence and self assurance and see the magic you spread amongst the men folk. You will draw their attention and soon more and more of them will flock to you. Enamor them with your talking skills. This will also make you a tempting woman for men.

Flirtatious skills
The last thing to make you hit it off with the men will be to indulge in some flirtation with the guys. Your skills of talking and humor together with your beauty and body will totally sweep a man off his feet. In addition if you can indulge in light flirtation that will be the icing on the cake in making you a tempting woman to men.



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Sunday, November 28, 2010

7 Ultimate Tricks to Seduce Your Man! Useful Tips You Can Use Right Now to Spice Things Up a Bit

If you are fed up of waiting for your man to take you to bed and seduce you, it is time to do a bit of seducing yourself! It is not hard when you know all the moves! Here are some great ways to get him all fired up and ready for you.

Have a wonderful plan and strategy that can't fail
Before you do anything you should have a fantastic plan. Plan what you are going to wear, say and where you want to be seduced! Once you are sure of these things you are half way there! All you have to do is ask him in a manner that he will find hard to refuse.

Get him alone in a romantic place
The ambiance is important. Make sure that you choose a place that makes it easy to seduce your man. Have lots of candles, soft music in the background and some delicious food and wine. The next step is to make him feel comfortable and happy to be with you. Encourage him every step of the way.

Look seductive and tempting
Everything depends on how sexy and inviting you look. You should make sure that he finds you irresistible and gorgeous. He should find it hard to keep his hands off you. Don't stop him when he tries to kiss and caress you. It is a prelude to a wonderful romantic evening.

Use a heady and sexy perfume
Be smart enough not only to look enchanting but smell heavenly. He should want to breathe in your enticing perfume and get even closer to you. The more aware he is of you physically, the more he will want to get intimate with you. It will be easier if you drown his senses with your lingering perfume.

Go dancing first
One of the easiest ways to seduce your man is to get him in your arms! Invite him to go dancing and dining with you. The more he holds your exciting body close to him on the dance floor, the more turned on he will get. Dancing the night away will make it easy for you to seduce him in no time at all.

Reveal a tantalizing amount of skin
If you let his eyes feast on your beautiful body, he is going to want to seduce you for sure. Let him see your obvious assets and get excited at the thought that you would welcome his advances. Giving him a glimpse of your cleavage, long sexy legs and even your tiny waist are sure ways to seduce him sooner than you think!

Make the first move
Most times men will hesitate to take a step towards a woman in case she draws back in outrage and disgust. Unless he is absolutely sure that he won't be rejected he will not make a move! If you want to seduce him you will have to be bold enough to take the initiative and come on to him!



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Saturday, November 27, 2010

Is He Really Emotionally Attached to Me? Here Is How You Can Easily Figure It Out Instantly

Sometimes you just want to be sure if a man really has an emotional attachment with you or if your relationship is still at a very superficial level. Since you cannot ask this question aloud you will need to learn to read a few signals that can clear your doubts. Here are a few ways to find out if a guy has an emotional attachment with you.

He cannot get his eyes off you
When a man is emotionally getting attached to you he will be looking at you all the time. It will be a reflex that he will not be able to control. You will also see that he will have eyes only for you and will not even care if the most beautiful woman on the planet walks by.

He takes great heed to make you happy
When a man has an emotional attachment with you he will make sure that he always makes you happy. He will try to find out and discover all the small and so called insignificant things that bring a smile to your face and do things that make you happy.

He is sensitive to your sentiments and feelings
When a man is emotionally attached to you he will be very sensitive to your feelings and sentiments. There are a lot of men who mock a lot at things about women. But if a guy is emotionally attached to a woman, he will try to understand where these sentiments are stemming from and will never take them lightly.

He tries to spend as much time with you
When you see that your guy is willing to give up stuff and things that he would normally never give up just to be with you and spend some time with you then you should know that his feelings for you run deep. If he didn't really care then he wouldn't bother to make time for you.

He never says no when you need help
If you see that your man is always available for you whenever you need help and never refuses to help you out no matter how difficult or inconvenient it might be for him then your man has a deep emotional attachment for you.

He opens up to you emotionally
A man is able to share his inner thoughts, feelings, sentiments and emotions with you only when he feels emotionally connected and secure with you. If you see that your guy is open and emotionally secure with you then his feelings are genuine for you.

He introduces you to one and all
Finally, if he feels an emotional connection with you he will introduce you to all the people who matter to him.



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Friday, November 26, 2010

How Do I Get a Man to Chase Me Instead of Me Being the One Chasing Him? Here Is How to Do It

Have you noticed that you've been the one running after your man for the longest time? Do you notice that you're the one who's making the most phone calls and the most invites when it comes to going out on a date? You're a woman and you don't deserve any of this at all. Here's how you can reverse the roles that you've been playing:

Take control of the present situation.
You can't impose on him that he should be the one to chase you. You will have to take charge but you can't tell him what to do. Taking charge means you start assessing the situation and what you can do about it. Start planning your strategy then make sure to follow through.

Have the power to turn things around.
This man has, somehow, taken control of you since you've been chasing him around. If you continue with this desperateness, he'll always have an invisible leash around your neck. Don't let him have this power, instead, do all you can to ignore him and disrupt his predictable schedule. Once his comfort zone is stirred, he is likely to pay attention once more.

He is in love with you so use this to your advantage.
He knew that you can't live without him and you've proven this to him by the way you've desperately followed him around. Maybe you've loved him too much and now you're suffering the consequence. This time, give him a dose of his own medicine - ignore him and pretend to be busy with so many things. Just wait and he will definitely feel the big difference soon.

How did you win him in the first place?
You have to think back to those days when he was still courting you. Did he mention that he liked the way you dressed or the way you laughed? It's time to give him what he likes best but this time, do it even better. If he likes your sense of fashion, this time, show him that you can reinvent yourself. This new you could be the catalyst that would awaken his need to chase.

Break contact.
You've been the one doing all the chasing so what else does this man have to do? You've technically relieved him of his role so it's time to give it back to him. Don't answer his calls and appear mysterious all the time. Before you know it, he would be thinking of ways to win you all over again.

Let him see other guys chasing you.
This should rattle your man to the point of desperation. He will be scrambling for your attention the moment he sees other men eyeing you. If he values you so much, be prepared to see him fighting to the death (at least figuratively).

You can always flirt but don't give him what he wants.
Look gorgeous, feel gorgeous, and let him see that your body language says it all. But just when he's about to reach out for you, this is the time that you should draw back. He will be puzzled by this and he is likely to chase you once more.



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Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Ways To Seduce a Woman In 3 Simple Actions

All of us have certain dreams, ambitions and goals. There are things we wish to undertake or to have or quite possibly be. Many hope and aspire to be able to consistently seduce women. Not unlike anything else, it's not very hard when you are aware of how to. Whenever you can get on the correct track, break it down into easy steps, it's not difficult to seduce a woman. Should that be one of your goals, keep reading to acquire a simple 3-step way that one could seduce a woman.

To start with, you need to smell good. You are going to really need to do that because seduction is really a primal force. A woman's first impression is sensual. It is a subliminal process, and subliminally women respond first to smell. Without a doubt, shower and find your best scent. It would certainly be worth investing some money and effort to find out what scent works best for you.. In taking this 1st step, you will definitely want to avoid cheap knock-off products. Pay some money for the real thing, you will be rewarded.

It's going to be important to achieve this initial step completely and correctly. Failing to perform this properly could mean a waste of time, money effort and, of course, your self esteem.

The next step you should take is Look good.. Two things that you must take care in avoiding in this are any stains on your clothes,flaws in your hygiene. and flaws in your hygiene.

Lastly, the 3rd (and also the final) step is exude confidence.. This is extremely important because most men are already going to practice steps one and two. You don't have to have movie star good looks, and most men don't anyway. What is going to help you to stand out is your level of confidence.. That which is essential for one to avoid at this point is appear cocky and braggadocios. The best way to appear confident is to ask a woman about her, not to talk about yourself.

All that you should do is generally to conform closely to the three steps recommended here. By doing so, you will most likely be able to seduce your target woman easily and quickly. This process has worked for many others; it will most probably work effectively and provide excellent results for you also! Simply do what you must do, while avoiding the possible problems described. Then all which will be left to do is to have fun with the benefits of seducing a woman which will accrue to you for your personal success!



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How to Make a Memorable Impression on a Guy? Here Is How to Easily Get Him to Like You

If you want to have the guy eating out of your hands then you need to make sure that you have made a very memorable first impression on him. As they say you never get a second chance and you are hell bent on doing it right the first time around. However, you hear a lot of advice and are now confused as what to take and what to ignore. Well just do the following seven things right and you will leave a memorable impression on your guy.

Make him laugh heartily
He must have known very few women that can crack jokes and relate funny anecdotes that make him have a hearty laugh. When you do that he instantly relaxes and your evening proceeds in a very cordial and jovial manner. To banish all his anxiety and nervousness put him at ease by saying something really witty and humorous.

Dress appropriately
Keep the time of the day, the season, the current trend and the venue in mind when you dress for the evening. When you are dressed in an appropriate and contemporary manner with the right accessories he will never forget you. He will instantly make a mental comparison with all his previous dates and will realize that you stand out.

Wear a signature perfume
Make sure that you are not only looking great but also smelling of a signature perfume that he will never forget. However, don't overdo it or else he will remember you as perfume store counter.

Back your strengths
You might not be very impressive in the looks department but you have the qualifications to back your intelligence. If that is the case make sure that you fall back on your strengths and capitalize on them during the course of the evening. Whatever your strengths are you have to showcase them so that he is impressed by them.

Act your age
Instead of sounding like a school girl act your age or better still act more than your age. When you display class he will be surprised and impressed with your level headedness. He has to go back thinking he dated a woman of substance.

Don't touch on sensitive issues
You can discuss every thing under the sun from sex/women/politics but avoid discussions on sensitive issues like pro-choice, pro-life, abortion or homosexuality. You don't want to come across as opinionated or judgmental.

Don't get carried away
During the date or when it ends it is okay if you kiss him goodbye. However, don't get carried away and have sex on the first night itself as that will not leave a very memorable impression on him instead he will remember you for the sex and not your other qualities.



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Monday, November 22, 2010

Why An Alpha Male Should Not Be Too Fair To A Woman!

One of the greatest mistakes a man can make in dating is to project his male thinking on to a woman. One masculine trait he projects is a sense of fairness!

He can't figure out why this comes back to bite him - why the girl responds in such a self-centered way in response to fairness. The simple fact is that fairness is a male invention!

Men have been the providers for women and children for the evolutionary eons, so they tend to feel guilty if everything is not shared in a fair and equitable way. With power comes responsibility, as they say.

Women are different. Their evolutionary survival strategy has been to get men to give them their share of the spoils of hunting for their survival and that of their children. Men had the power and access to food and resources, while women were impaired by their own needs for survival.

Today it comes down to this: if you are too fair to a woman you may bring out a string of unpleasant conclusions about you including the following: She will think you're only doing it to please her. She will be the one placed in the power position. What is actually a noble thing will be seen as a weakness. She will come to the conclusion that it is okay for her to steal the fruit of your "hunting labors," and believe me, she will.

This may be the main reason for the failure of your relationship: at one point you decided the way to please a woman was to appease her. Then you had the nerve to wonder why you get no thanks and why she seems to demand more more from you.

Ask yourself if you have ever thought at some point in your relationship, "What the hell is going on here? The more I give, the more she takes!"

This process goes on and on until you get weaker and weaker and she decides she wants out of the relationship, taking with her half of your property!

No matter how sexy a woman may be, and no matter how great the two of you may get along at the moment, she must be reminded not to be too selfish -- not in words but through your subtle actions.

In truth, a woman can only be truly altruistic towards her own children.

So you have to train her how to relate to you in a different way. Don't expect her to suddenly internalize fairness on her own -- it won't happen.

That doesn't mean that you can't teach a woman how to relate differently with you, just that she will never internalize fairness in the same way you do.

When a normal man feels he is taking advantage of a woman, he tends to feel guilty. This is a part of his chivalrous nature. He unconsciously goes about increasing the gain for the other person and reducing his own until he feels that things are "fair" again. He tends to build an altruistic balance.

A woman, in contrast, when she realizes she is involved in a one-way relationship in her favor, typically tries to perpetuate the situation. When her children are in trouble, however, if she is normal, she will be willing to sacrifice everything.

This isn't being nasty on the part of the woman; it is merely a matter of self-preservation.

So if you set up a relationship with a woman in which you try to be "fair" to her in all matters, she will take you for everything you've got, down to the last penny. Instead, you need to constantly be teaching her how to give you the things you want in exchange for the things you're giving her. You must be sure that what you share with her is not for free. In short, you must teach your fairness and altruism towards you.

When you do this you gain respect; in effect your showing that you can hunt around and you can also hunt her!

How do you do that? Like this:

You need to send her the subconscious signals that you do what you do for her only if you are treated well in return. If she stops giving, you stop providing.

Be specific in telling her what you want from her. For example, in the case of sexual relations, you need to be specific about how you want her to love you, the way in which you want to be touched, and to openly tell her what pleases you.

You can be specific and how you want her to behave toward you socially, for example not to put you down around others, talk about embarrassing things, and so on. You are her prince, she is your princess, and you should treat each other accordingly.

If you get sucked into the downward spiral of giving her all that she wants or asks for, you will be brought down into a black hole and her attraction and respect for you will go down with you. As an alpha male, you cannot rest. If you try to please her too much, she will take it as a sign that you wish to rest and stop hunting (read: providing for her). Put your energy into seduction and never enter into a relationship where you are made weaker.

The ability to understand the deep psychological differences between a man and a woman is a very important skill for a single man who wants to seduce women to gain a wonderful girlfriend.



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Thursday, November 18, 2010

5 Steps to Getting Her Back

You really believe that you and your ex are meant to be but you don't know how to get her back. If you are looking for help, here are five steps to help you get results.

The first thing you must do if you want her back is to stop all communication with her. This will be extremely hard for you to do but it will be killing her even more. Before long she will begin to realize just how much she loves and misses you. In order to rekindle your relationship you must do this first.

The second step is to allow yourself to get your emotions in check. Your ex, as well as all women, does not like desperate, needy men. You must get your life in order, especially your feelings before you even begin to try to get her back in your life.

Now the third step may not seem to be a good idea but it is extremely useful. You want to try flirting with someone new. By doing this it will help you relax and make your ex realize that you might be moving on. She will then become jealous and realize just how much she misses you and wants to be together.

Step four is crucial - Act cool. You need to act as if nothing is bothering you, that you're having a good time. If you are acting down and depressed, she's not going to want you back. By doing this, you are showing her that everything is okay.

The last step is to make sure that you are taking care of your appearance. Get dressed up, show her that you are taking the time to look your best and she won't be able to resist you. Making sure that you look good will be another sign to her that you are ready to move on and she will respond positively.

Now these are just the first steps you need to take to win her back. There is a fantastic, simple to use plan called "The Magic of Making Up" by T 'Dub' Jackson. If you are serious about getting her back and need help, check it out. You won't be sorry.



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How to Tell If a Man Sees You As His Future and Wants to Be With You? You Will Be Sure of It Now

Women get taken in by the signals that a man gives out to her. Very often they are genuine but sometimes they can also be misleading and then the women feels let down and ditched. How can you tell if a man sees you as his future? Study some of the points.

He openly talks of the future
A man talks openly of the future with you and discusses things like where you should settle. He discusses where to live and what kind of house would be affordable in the beginning. These are indicative that he sees a future with you.

He takes you to meet his parents
This is another of the indications that your man sees you as his future. He takes you to meet his parents and it is not a one time meeting with them, he takes you to visit them quite frequently. You also will see signs of them liking and accepting you.

He actually talks of marriage
He now talks of marriage. He discusses the date, the venue, and even the number of guests that should be invited. The menu and other details will all be part of the planning soon enough. This will tell you that he sees you as his future.

He discusses arrangements
He discusses arrangements with you. He asks for your opinions and suggestions and even agrees that something you said was better than what he suggested. He accepts and appreciates your ideas and plans things the way you like.

He will prove that he is the best for you
Your man will go out of his way to prove that he is the best for you. He will do everything he can to show that you couldn't have found a better man than him. You will find him reliable and dependable and always there for you whenever you need him.

He will ask to meet your parents
He will ask to meet your parents and try to endear himself to them so they like him. He will do whatever he can to be acceptable to them and be part of the family. If he didn't see you as his future then he would not bother to impress your parents.

He will talk of his finances
He sees his future as a commitment, not only to marry you but also to take care of you and keep you happy. He wants you to know that he has handled his finances wisely and also has saved up for the marriage and the other expenses that go along with a marriage.



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Wednesday, November 17, 2010

How to Show Your Crush You Like Him? Here Are Some Great Tips You Can Use to Let Him Know

If you have a crush on a certain guy for the longest time, it's but natural that you would want him to know that you do like him. It takes skills and precise techniques in order to make this guy notice what you're trying to imply to him. Here are 7 cool tips that would make your crush know that you have the hots for him:

Let him know that you see him.
For him to know that you like him, everything begins with letting him know that you take notice. Let him see that you direct your attention at him. The more that he notices how much you glance at him, the more that he'll be able to confirm that you feel something for him.

Allow him to hang out with you and your friends.
If you and your friends planned some activities, then it would be nice to let him join in. This would prove to him that you're ready to welcome him into your social circle. And as he mingles with your friends, he'll get to know that you do like him.

Welcome him to your home.
Taking him home to meet your folks is one of the best ways that you could convey your feelings to him. This is a major step on your part for this isn't just proof of liking him anymore. This can be construed as a sure sign of something deeper. If you don't want him to misinterpret your gesture, better be casual about your invitation so that he won't have much expectation.

Ask him what he is fond of.
As you begin to talk alone with him, you'll have better chances at asking him all the things that you want to know about him. If you could get him to talk about himself and not the other way around, then you'll soon have a handful of information about him - while you would still appear mysterious to him! That's like hitting two birds with one stone.

Improve yourself for him.
This guy has got to see that you're making yourself better for him. Make sure that you wear only the best clothes when you're with him, you smell your best, and you carry yourself in the best possible manner.

Appreciate the guy and what he can do.
Men love being appreciated. If you give him ample admiration, he'll already know that you do like him. Just make sure that you say your compliments in a casual manner or he'll think that you're the one who wants to chase him.

Casually invite him to be your date.
In a no-strings-attached sort of manner, ask this guy to go with you to any of your friends' parties. If there's a dance, nonchalantly ask him to dance with you. If you click, then you wouldn't have to worry about the next steps for he'll carry on with it.



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Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Dating Advice - 3 Reasons Why You Are Still Single

Are you still single? How long has it been? Can be quite scary as you think back at how long its been since you had a girlfriend and unless you shape up you will probably stay single. For guys the dating scene can be really harsh and having to be proactive can be really scary and confronting. No one likes rejection. In fact, it is the number one reason why most single guys are still single.

One of the main reasons why you are still single is because you are probably not playing the field. If you think that some super hot girl is going to come knocking on your door and ask you out, then I hate to break it to you but you are going to wait for a very long time. You have to be proactive. You have to ask girls out. Its as simple and as hard as that.

Secondly, you need a target. Just saying "I want a hot girl" is not good enough. You really need to set yourself a target of the type of girl you want. Do you want a steady girlfriend? Do you want to meet your future wife? Do you just want to have some fun? You also have to get more specific on the type of girls you like.

Lastly, you need a game plan. Once you know exactly what type of relationship you want and you know exactly what type of girl you want you need to have a game plan. If you like a fit and active girl, maybe hanging out in your local gym might be a good start. You need to start thinking about where you can meet this girl you have in mind and act on it. Its the only way. Girls won't just come to you.



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Monday, November 15, 2010

Is It True That No Matter How Much You Like a Guy You Should Never Chase Him? Learn It Today

Knowing the nature of guys it's advisable not to chase them. Guys like to be the pursuers and not the pursued. They enjoy being conquerors and not be conquered. Hence no matter how much you like a guy you should never chase him.

Don't deprive him of a chase
Guys love to be the ones to chase. Once they spot a good catch, who is eyed by the others, the chase becomes more interesting. But if you deprive him of that chase he will lose interest in you right away and maintain a casual attitude.

You are desperate
The last thing that you'd want your guy to think is that you are desperate for him. Another reason will be that the other guys in all likelihood will poke fun at him to see you chasing him and he not responding. It'll also be an embarrassment for him.

A sense of insecurity
Chasing a guy will also leave him thinking that you have a sense of insecurity which is why you're chasing him. Maybe you are the sort of girl who guys do not chase, which could very well be a reason why you do the chasing instead. So stop your chase.

He will find you aggressive
When you take up the role of a chaser he will find you aggressive and unladylike. Guys like demure and gentle girls who understand them. They want to be the ones to chase such women who all men vie for and want to win over. So prove to be such a woman.

Keep your stand
Guys can tell when a girl is playing hard to get and keeps her stand. They like it to an extent because it's a kind of tease which they enjoy. But that is a short term enjoyment which if pursued too long will throw the interest in you out of their purview.

Hold back your interest in him
If you really want a guy to chase you then you should show that you are not inclined or interested in him totally. Still lesser should he be allowed to know everything about you. The mysterious shroud about you will keep his interest going.

Hold on to the challenge
If you give in easily your guy will lose interest as the challenge to win is lost. Take time before giving in and letting him feel that you were an easy catch or a dish served on a platter. Let him face the challenge to win you after a long chase.



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Sunday, November 14, 2010

What to Do If the Man Tells You That They Can Not Commit! Learn If You Should Stay or Leave

The question is really one to ponder over. Should you try to change his attitude or way of thinking or should you try to find out what is preventing him from committing to you? Whatever it be, you want to know what to do if the man tells you they cannot commit.

Too much of you
He could have had a bit too much of you in the past month what with meeting up ever so often. He needs a break and may be so do you. This 'too much of you' may be preventing him from committing himself just yet. The freshness seems to be getting stale now.

He's able to predict you
Probably he knows just about everything and too much about you and is able to predict you and your behavior in advance. Stay away for sometime to make him miss all that he had gotten used to with you around. Let him miss you and want to commit.

Does he value you
You've been spending too much time with him that he does not value your presence or time. The fact that you set all things aside and rush to be with him for as long as possible has been inconsequential to him. Stay away so he values you and your time.

Claim your space
You have to hold back from him so he realizes that you are not there by his side at every beck and call. Unless you value your space and claim it he will feel you are easily available for him any time. Hold back and see how he will try to commit.

Earn his admiration
When he sees what a fine person you are then he will begin to admire you and know your worth. But you have to work yourself hard to earn his admiration. Do all those things that will call on his admiration. When this comes through then he would be willing to commit.

Tell him you love him
He may be waiting to hear you tell him that you love him and would like to spend the rest of your life with him. Once he hears this he will probably realize this is a commitment from your side and he too will think it is time to commit.

Give an ultimatum
The ultimatum can come only after you both know each other well enough to express this. He must know that if he is not ready to commit then you cannot hang around endlessly. It has to be one way or other. You will find him commit almost immediately.



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Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Flirting With A Man - How to Be A Man-Magnet

Have you tried going out and you feel men aren't giving you the attention that you deserve? Can you figure out why? Do you feel that you're not that attractive? Listen up, it's not because you are ugly. There are plenty of chances that you can flirt with men. However, flirting with a man is an art that you must perfect. The most beautiful girl in the room can be at a loss if she doesn't know how to flirt.

Men do not just come to you after praying to Venus or any goddess of love. You need to make your move. You can seduce him to the extent that it will blow his mind. You need to master your body language, come up with lines to lure him and tactics that would keep him in awe. Here are some ways on how to become a man-magnet.

Flirting Move # 1 Smile
That is a simple action that you need to do genuinely. A guy knows when you're faking it. You need to smile to make you look more approachable. There are plenty of ways to smile. You could smile with your teeth showing, smile with your lips pursed. Anything can be possible so long as you are not faking it. If you want men to approach you, you need to smile naturally.

Flirting Move # 2 Let Your Eyes Do The Working
The key to getting his attention is to make an eye contact with him. Don't be nervous but be confident. Here's how you can reel him in. Tilt you chin a bit downward. After that, send him a couple of sultry glances. Guys get turned on when you look at them. Their ego gets a boost once you do that. Just drop a few glances and he will get your hints. Do not overdo it though. The man across the bar might think that you are a weird psycho stalking him. Just lift your eyebrow, make an eye contact then look away.

Flirting Move # 3 Strut Your Way
You know, there's something in the way a woman walks that could turn on a guy. Make sure your walk is sexy and can captivate a hot guy 20 meters away. Get a steaming hot guy's attention with the way you strut. You don't need to become a Victoria's Secret angel to do that. Chin up, shoulders back and make sure to lead your walk with your boobs. Let your arms sway loosely as your hips move from side-to-side. Put all your weight in your heels. It will take time before you perfect it. Your stride will pay off big-time.

Flirting Move # 4 Win Him over Your Conversation
Guys like talking to girls who know how to handle a conversation. Engage him in some small talks. Ask for his latest trip, what he loves doing and all that stuff. Act as if you are interested. Also, laugh at his jokes. Chuckle if you need to. Guys are also nervous during first encounters. Laughter can help them feel comfortable.



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Why Would a Man Say He Likes You and Then Withdraw Out of the Blue? These Tips Will Help You

Women and men are so different that they're always puzzled with each other's behavior. A man could make you swoon but just when you're ready to give him the commitment that he seemed to want, guess what he does next? He goes a-hiding! So why would he say that he likes you only to withdraw in the end?

Things happened a little too fast.
Men are sometimes driven by their passion and when he finally realizes that he surged on too soon, then he'll step on the brakes just as suddenly. His impulse got the better of him and so now he's trying to correct what he's done by withdrawing.

Commitments and marriage scare him.
Perhaps this man likes to please and court women but when he realizes that you're geared for more serious things, that's when he'll start to back off. This man simply isn't built for commitments because he has an overwhelming fear of it.

He realizes that he doesn't feel strongly for you.
He might have been carried away by the heat of the moment and when the feeling waned, that's when he realized that he's not that into you after all. Hence, this man will resort to hiding or withdrawing just so whatever you shared won't deepen anymore.

The pressure is too much for him.
If he felt that you've been pressuring him into something too soon, then this guy is bound to feel controlled or worse, trapped. He might have meant it when he said that he likes you but realizing that there's just too much at stake too soon, might have turned him off.

He found out that you're nothing but a phony.
Maybe he said he likes you because he thought you're really sweet and caring. And when this guy realizes that you're actually the opposite of lovable, then his feelings would definitely be doused. Don't blame him if he starts to back away because of what he found out.

He's simply lying.
Sometimes, some men would just say that they care or that they like you because they just want something to while away their time. Though he may not have asked for sex, this man just wanted to play with your emotions and see how far you'd be willing to go for him. In short, he enjoyed the game that he set on you.

He realizes that he's just not ready yet.
Maybe you were just too attractive that he couldn't resist telling you that he liked you. But this wouldn't change the fact that he's still going out with another woman and is actually committed to her. He might have felt something with you but it's just not enough to make him let go of the other girl.



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How to Attract Women - Learn Secrets On How To Approach Women Successfully!

The art of attracting women has always been the greatest mystery for us men. How do you approach a girl? How do I pick up women? How to attract women? All of these questions have been asked and time and again, no one has been able to answer this question properly. Sure, just take a look at the dating websites and online dating tips for men and you will see thousands of articles telling you pointless and superficial ways on "how to get the girl I want", but you would be surprised to know when I tell you that all of these articles are FAKE and A WASTE OF YOUR TIME.

Do you really want to know the real secret of how to attract women? It's easy; the real answer is that there IS NO SECRET! Why do I say so? Well, here are a few things to consider. Years back, I have always believed that simple guys (just like me) have no way of a chance to get that woman of my dreams. I was a shy guy; your typical good guy whose too afraid to meet and greet women and who would just feel satisfied watching them from a distance. I was also a bit on the chubby side and it made me feel discouraged every time I look at myself in the mirror. However, a year ago, I started reading books about the basic ways of attracting women and I learned the basics there. No, I am not going to tell you the name of the book; I am not here to promote any E-book at all! I am here to give you guys the REAL LESSONS on how to attract women! We will cover each topic based on three basic questions:

Where to pick up women - This shouldn't be a problem, since you can always pick up women wherever and whenever you want to. Most of the time, you should have a better chance though if you go to a local bar or a place where there is a social gathering. You can even pick up girls in the shopping mall or even at a friend's party; as long as you have the right "tools" handy with you. Now just what are these tools? The "tools" that I am talking about are two things: mental attitude and physical appearance. Physical appearance DOES MATTER, but no, I am not talking about getting a plastic surgery! The first thing I learned when it comes to attracting women is that you really don't have to look like Brad Pitt or Keanu Reeves just to get the ladies! What matters most is PERSONAL HYGIENE. Shave that beard, clean up those teeth of yours, and get some good perfume. Of course, all things at moderation; don't literally bathe yourself with perfume and remember to choose the perfume that you are going to wear. When choosing clothes, it is also a good idea to be unique. However, don't expect women to just fall off their feet because of what you wear! Remember to be confident and to be cocky but funny. How do you do this? Then get ready for the next part of the series!



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Sunday, November 7, 2010

This Guy Is Starting to Lose Interest in Me! How Do I Get Him to Feel Attraction for Me Once Again

You sense your guy losing interest and you want to know how to turn it around. This is a very natural thing over the years, but with these suggestions to get you started, you are sure to turn it around.

Look within first
Are you the ideal girl or do you need to improve? There is bound to have been a change in you and your guy finds that you are not quite the same that you used to be. So look within first and try to rectify those changes to be your original self.

Have you been getting the upper hand
Have you tried to get the better of him and the upper hand every time? It's high time then that you let go of these things if you want to turn it around and make him interested in you once again. Allow him to feel in control at times without trying to always control the relationship.

Has nagging put him off
Has the nag in you put him off? Do you nag him for all that he does not do? Do you not trust him and what he considers is his responsibility? If you do not think him capable of handling things and nag him then why will he not lose interest?

How about his space
How about his space or do you consider what is his is yours, be it money or space? He may be tiring of this situation and wanting his get away and his space? He feels deprived of his space and how he would like to use it.

Taking him for granted
Perhaps you have taken him too much for granted? May be you have neglected his needs as a person while only yours have mattered. Give him attention and pamper his needs as well, and you can make your relationship turn around.

Show interest in him
Have you stopped taking interest in him any more? Now that he is yours you tend to relax into a comfort zone where it does not matter whether you show interest in him and his professional life. How then can you stop him from losing interest in you?

Spice up your life
Has the spark in your life flickered out? It is difficult for you then to expect your relationship to carry on as earlier when the spark has died down. Make an effort to revive the romance and the sex that you used to enjoy a long time ago. This will help pep up your relationship and turn it around and get back his interest.



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Saturday, November 6, 2010

How to Get a Guy Who Is Losing Interest to Like You! Do Things These and He Will Instantly Want You

Look back to those days when you were just a girl wanting to be noticed by this one guy. Didn't you do everything just so he would look your way? They say that it's more difficult to achieve his interest in you once he's started to look the other way, but if you look at it, there's very little difference in the things that you need to do. It's all a matter of regaining what you've lost and getting rid of the things that he doesn't want.

Let go of any insecurity.

There's no point in moping because this won't let you accomplish anything. So what if he's losing his interest in you? Then think fast on how you can regain it! If you have to buy some new clothing and makeup, then that would be an investment that would be worth your while.

Get out of your shell.

It's easy for a woman to become lax after dating a man out for months. If you've shown nothing but plain Jane in the past, this time, you should show him that you can also reinvent yourself and are also ready to socialize.

A cut above the rest.

No man would want to stick with you if you're just like everybody else. Being too ordinary would mean that you're replaceable. Wow him with your uniqueness rather than bore him with your plain qualities. Be different and he'll definitely become interested again.

Set to make it right.

Once you feel that you've, somehow, gotten his attention, then you've got to prove to him that you're willing to change for the better. It's time to prove that things are now different and that mediocrity is no longer a part of your vocabulary.

Let other people love you.

Once this guy sees that you're quite popular among other people, then he'd want to turn his head towards you again. Men want women who are wanted by many people and being in the middle of an appreciative crowd would make him realize that you're no ordinary woman.

Be ready to fight for his attention.

If other girls are starting to hover around him, then it's time to double your efforts! Prepare to compete for his attention by making other women fade on the background. Make him see that you're the best among these girlfriend-wannabes.

Rekindle his passionate feelings.

He's losing interest in you because there's something that's clearly missing. Make sure that he feels your love for him. Prove to him that you desire him still and that you're willing to do everything just to have him again.



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