You may encounter the most confident man there is but you'll be surprised that he'd suddenly clam up in front of a gorgeous woman. Of course, this could only mean that he likes this special girl, hence, he'd start to sweat, stammer, and act nervously around her. But what makes men behave this way in front of the girl that they actually like?
He's fearful that he won't make a good impression on her.
Remember how they say that you've got only one shot at making a good first impression? This can be pressure enough for the man to behave properly in front of the girl. The mere thought that he might not be good enough for this gorgeous woman could make any man nervous.
He's afraid of acting stupidly in front of the woman.
Okay, he may be the best-looking guy in town yet he might be afraid that he'll trip once he goes over to speak with her. Or she might be adept with business or current events and she'll outdo him with her knowledge of these things.
He's thinking that he may not be her type.
Especially when he sees several men hovering around this girl - is he good enough for her? Would she be impressed despite having a handful of admirers already?
Self-consciousness and too much anticipation are his enemies.
Is his hair combed the right way? Did he spray on too much perfume? Or too little of it? Are the clothes he's wearing attractive enough? What would he say in front of her?
She's the most gorgeous that he's seen so far...
Sure, he may have been exposed to a lot of beautiful women in the past yet this particular girl has something in her that makes her standout, and being so, he is now forced to be up on his feet to impress her. Looking at a woman who seems like a goddess who came to pay mankind a visit could be very intimidating for some men.
He isn't that suave in front of women.
A man could get nervous around women all because he isn't comfortable in being with them. His exposure to women may have been limited to his mother, sisters, and some girl classmates.
He's hasn't been formally introduced to the girl...
...and he might not know a lot of information about her yet. Having no idea on what her likes or dislikes are, then it would be a bit more difficult to act casually around her.
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