It is said that the greatest tease could sometimes offer true love. So there's no telling whether or not a guy is teasing you because he likes you or he's just plainly flirting to while away his time (ouch!). Or are there ways to tell if he's just teasing you?
He tells you you're beautiful yet he looks the other way.
Imagine getting a compliment from this guy only to see him looking at another woman while he's telling you that you're the prettiest. He might also try tricks like the guy that will get your attention will be the luckiest guy there is. Many have fallen for such traps, girl - don't be one of them!
He wouldn't let you take a look into his past.
Watch how he dodges questions regarding his past - this means he's either not interested in you enough to let you into his life or he's plainly hiding something sordid that he wouldn't want you to know. Either way, he's not about to open up to you so better not gamble with your emotions on this one.
You would learn that he's still getting in touch with his ex.
This only implies that you're not his priority and he's very confused on whether or not to move on. Getting in touch with his ex means his emotions aren't that all healed yet. Give him time, or better yet, just find another man. He might just be teasing you 'til the moment that his ex will become available again!
He tells you stuff like marriage is just a piece of paper.
Marriage is the highest form of commitment and a guy who says he won't be able to commit fully is a guy that is just there for the teasing. Meaning, you won't expect anything deeper or more meaningful with this guy so it's better not to waste your time on him.
His flirting actions sometimes (or most of the time) border being disrespectful.
A guy who's really into you would treat you with respect. If he's all just flirting and flatteries, then you're not with a guy that's worth your while.
He says he wants to take his time.
This is a notch lower than the guy who wouldn't commit or doesn't believe in marriage. A guy who wants to take his time is a guy who still won't have a serious relationship with you even after six months (or more) of spending time together. A guy who waits for things to happen in your relationship isn't the type that would be good to keep so better not invest your emotions on him.
Observe how he responds to your 'I love you's'.
Catch him off guard by telling him that you love him right in the middle of doing something - see how he'd react. If he seems surprised and can't even respond right away, then it only means that he's not that certain about you - and yes, he could just be teasing you.
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