Predictability brings death to any relationship - this is a known fact. Keep in mind that men and challenges go hand in hand and so you'll have to learn how to keep him up on his toes at all times. How, exactly, do you make a man keep coming back for more of your attention?
Be like a difficult puzzle.
Just when he thinks that he's got you all figured out, surprise him by doing things differently. If he's used that you spend more time at home, shock him by doing the things that otherwise would have made you say no - whitewater rafting, canoeing, skating, etc.
Forever gorgeous.
Don't stop from being a real beauty. Know how to properly apply makeup, moisturize your skin, know the latest in fashion, etc. Don't get caught wearing clothes that seem to belong to your grandmother. Or have you turned from a looker into a hideous, fat woman?
Make the mistake of taking your looks for granted and he's out of the door!
Out of the blue.
He might think that he's going home to the usual stuff one night but you can surprise him by producing some tickets to his favorite rock band. Or you can let him find you in the midst of scented candles (all naked?) getting ready to give him a hard massage (who knows what this will lead to!).
Master the art of flirting with a man.
If you want him to keep coming back for more, then you must know how to, somehow, control him. Satisfy him sexually but don't totally give in. How could that be, you might ask? You must learn to ration the information that you provide. Tell him everything and you're a goner.
Make him need you.
Once a man feels that he has nothing more to discover or if there's nothing that you could give in any aspect of your relationship then he'll think that there's no reason to stay. Be indispensable, make him feel that his survival depends on you, be the air that he breathes!
Are you still the woman he fell in love with?
Were you sweet and kind before and now you're constantly nagging, clinging and complaining? Think again. If it were possible - would you want to spend time with YOU?
Don't make him beg for affection and compliments.
He's your man so he should be wanted and loved. Show some appreciation every now and then. Give him a reward for being faithful to you and he'll never want to look at another woman again.
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