dating younger women is fun, exciting, and will rev up your sex life. But, as in everything else, there are some underlying rules you need to follow for success. In this article we're going to talk about the top two rules for dating younger women.
Rule #1: Don't act needy
Young women have internal radar for guys that can become clingy and needy. The smart girls avoid them like the plague, or will use them until they've gotten what they want. The ones that aren't so smart will become clingy and needy themselves. Either way you look at it, it's a losing situation. If you want to date younger women you need to maintain your behavior and demeanor in such a way that lets her know that you enjoy being with her. But you also let her know that you aren't someone she can use or disrespect.
Here's a couple of examples of what I'm talking about.
When you're out together at a club or bar, don't hang on her like you're going to slip and fall if she's not there to hold you up. Give her some space to talk with other people. If she's talking with another guy, let her. You don't own her. However, she doesn't own you either. Go find another young woman to talk/flirt with. It won't take long for her to find her way back to you. When she does, excuse yourself from the conversation with the other young chick. Then resume your date with her. You'll send the very clear message that you want to be with her, but she's not going to control your good time.
Or, if she stops contacting you for no apparent reason, don't try to immediately find out what's going on. Give it a couple of day, then call her. Let her know that you've missed talking with her. Nothing more. Don't try to guess if she's angry with you or make any projections about her being with someone else. If she's angry, she'll tell you. If you want to work it out, then make sure that it's in a reasonable fashion where you both talk it out. If she's just ranting and raving, politely tell her good bye and hang up. You don't need the stress and she needs to know that you're not going play the angry game. If she tells you that she's seeing someone else - move on.
Rule #2: Don't worry about the age difference.
The second of the top two rules for dating younger women is essential. Worrying about the age difference between you and the younger woman that you're dating can stop your relationship dead in its tracks. The key point is to remember that she's not worried about your age difference; so why should you. Remembering this point will help you to not bring it up in conversation and not make jokes about it that make everyone feel awkward. She's attracted to you because you have maturity, strength of character, and a winning personality. You know how to focus on her and make her feel special. You have a young point of view, connect with her emotionally, and are just a little dangerous.
Enjoy yourself. Remember these top two rules for dating younger women and you can have the time of your life. So will she!
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