Just by being in contact with some guys, you get vibes as to how they feel about you. Most will come out and tell you or ask you out, but there are those who seem to need an act of congress to receive proper motivation. Here are seven things you might do to get a guy to make a move on you.
Check Out His History
Things happen to everyone that affect how they deal with life, and your guy might have some bad experiences that keep him from hitting on you. If you identify the problem, you can better deal with those feelings. This can lead to his establishing trust in you.
No Attachments
Be positive that he knows you aren't attached, and you should know the same about him. Two reasons that guys don't ask girls out is that it is unclear if the girls are taken, and the guys lack confidence in themselves. Clear up the first issue and then work on the second.
Ask Him to a Group Get Together
By asking him to a public function, you can let him know you're interested in him. If you care enough to invite him, he won't feel that he is completely out of place with you. This makes him feel better about himself, and by attending an event in a public place he will be more comfortable than he might be alone with you on a first date.
Establish Lines of Communication
By having general conversations with him, you make him more comfortable being around you. Don't be judgmental of others or complain about anything or anyone, just speak casually and maintain a cheerful attitude.
Don't Flirt with Anyone Else
If you have the tendency to flirt with men, you can run a shy man off. At some point, you might flirt with him some, but never let him see you getting cozy with someone else. If a man is slow to ask you out, it will only be worse with competition.
Find Points of Mutual Benefit
You probably have interests that are benefited by the association of other like-minded people. He could probably use assistance or support in some of his endeavors. Finding a way that something is of benefit to you both provides a foundation on which to build a relationship.
Make Him Feel Important
Compliments and praise are the two things that bind one person to another on many occasions. If he is good at something, make sure you tell him so. If he isn't good at something, try not to comment.
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